Husband (28M) said he’d rather not have sex than have to satisfy me (F27)
posting on a burner for obvious reasons. for reference, i have literally the lowest sex drive ever, but i think it would be higher if i had a partner that actually paid attention to me. at the beginning he would actually TRY to make me feel good and we had sex way more because it was enjoyable but the last 5 years it’s been all about him busting and then were done lol. when i say he does nothing to try to satisfy me i mean nothing😂 not even a finger on the clit like nothing at all LMFAO. i’ve brought up multiple times and he uses the excuse that we have a kid now (just turned 2) and we don’t have privacy (which is true) but like i literally told him i dont even care about busting a nut it’s more about just trying to make it enjoyable for me too. also for reference i lost every lb of pregnancy weight i gained so i dont think its about like attraction i just dont think he thinks making me feel good is important. i told him it’s been 5 years since he made me c*m and asked “doesn’t that bother you?” and he said no😭 i’m like super hurt by this lol. sex isn’t super important to me but im not stupid and i know it’s a big part of marriage. other than that we have a solid marriage and most of the other issues we have, he works on for me so i don’t really know what to think of this lol