First time dating a Trans person.
Hi everyone! I hope this is okay to post here but I’ve spent the past week or so scrolling through Reddit threads like this trying to understand things better. I am a 21 year old cis pansexual woman who’s never been with a Trans person before. Recently I started talking to this beautiful human being and he’s changed me. I’ve never experienced this type of connection with someone before and we are on the same page about basically everything. Over the past few weeks he’s introduced new topics including reciprocal IVF and bottom growth and I have been absolutely amazed by these things. I had no idea how much trans people go through and the medical science behind everything is beautiful. Obviously with this being so new I want to make sure I understand what I can while still making sure his needs and requirements as a trans man are met. I understand that most of this will come with time and communication with him but I guess I’m just here asking the general question. As a trans person or someone with a trans partner is there anything you could tell me to help me navigate and support him? I understand gender dysmorphia can be a really hard thing to deal with and I can’t even begin to imagine the everyday struggles that follow with that. I guess there is also apart of me that just wants to tell someone how happy I am to be talking to him. Nobody knows he’s trans and he likes it that way which I completely understand but there’s something different about being with someone who’s trans. I almost feel more euphoric and understood. I don’t know if this is something I should tell him because he is a man and he’s no different than any other man I’ve dated but he is. He’s so much different in all the most beautiful ways. He knows I’ve never dated a trans person before and I wonder if it’s okay I tell him how amazing it’s felt but I don’t know how to approach that. Anyways, I could go on forever about how great it’s been so far and how much I adore him but for now this is me entering the conversation as a newly partner of a trans man and I’m so excited to be here.