u/ConfidenceCreative75

Just turned 45, Australian, probably in perimenopause, don’t know what to do or what to expect.

Hi all,

I’m 45, Australian and probably in perimenopause based on changes to my periods - they sometimes come early and the bleeding has changed.

I’ve also probably been pretty severely in depression over the past 2 years, but particularly in the last year. I worked in a role that sees a lot of trauma which I left about 9 months ago, infuriated by the systematic failings and harm caused to vulnerable people but I haven’t bounced back and haven’t worked since. I don’t know whether this is the result of trauma, perimenopause or both. I have zero executive function and it’s impacting every aspect of my life.

All of my family has long since passed away so there’s no women in my family to ask. I know I need to go and see a GP but it just seems like a monumental task right now that I don’t have the energy for.

Will HRT help me? Is getting help from a doctor going to be a difficult process? What are your thoughts on any/all of this?

Thank you in advance.

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Fire ants discovered ahead of Paniyiri Festival next weekend

https://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/national/queensland/fire-ants-discovered-in-inner-city-brisbane-park-20260515-p5zxhh.html#logout

15/5/2026:
A cluster of fire ant nests have been discovered in Musgrave Park ahead of one of Queensland’s largest cultural festivals held at the site, with fears the outbreak could pose a major health risk to thousands of attendees.
Brisbane City Council confirmed several nests of fire ants – an invasive species capable of inflicting extremely painful bites and causing extensive environmental damage – had been discovered at the inner-city park in South Brisbane.

It comes as preparations begin for the Paniyiri Greek Festival, an annual event held in Musgrave Park that attracts thousands of people each year.

Fire ants were discovered in Musgrave Park, South Brisbane.
A resident discovered the nests on May 4 and alerted council and the National Fire Ant Eradication Program, a federal body tasked with controlling the spread of fire ants.

West End Community Association secretary Paul King said the discovery was a “huge concern” and should alarm “all residents of South Brisbane”.
“It seems to me the whole plan to eradicate fire ants won’t be meeting its target of eradication by 2032 … if it isn’t, that’s what the 2032 Brisbane Olympics are going to be known for; fire ant bites, because they are devastating,” King said.
“It’s just a reminder that we need to really … get on top of this fast, or not at all.”

A photo taken by a resident of a nest believed to contain fire ants at Musgrave Park in South Brisbane.
About five nests were found in the corner of the park closest to Musgrave pool and Edmondstone Street, near a large green shed.

Council said steps had been taken to “treat” the fire ants to prevent spread.

Residents who spoke to this masthead said they understood hormones were used on the nests, which do not kill the ants on contact but reduce the ability of the colony to repopulate over an extended period of time.
Some expressed concern council had recently mowed over the nests, driving the species underground and out of sight.
No areas of Musgrave Park had been marked or sectioned off on Friday, and no signage warning of fire ants was seen.

Co-chairman of the Paniyiri volunteer organising committee Kos Kastrissios was confident the issue would be dealt with in time for the festival’s 50th-anniversary event to go ahead as planned, but said they were monitoring the situation.
“We expect bumper crowds to join us next weekend as Paniyiri celebrates 50 years of bringing South East Queensland together to celebrate Greek cuisine and culture,” he said.

The Paniyiri Greek Festival in Brisbane draws thousands of revellers to Musgrave Park to celebrate Greek culture every year.
“We will take direction from the Brisbane City Council and the Queensland Government’s Fire Ant Suppression Taskforce should any changes be needed to the festival’s set-up.”
Set-up for Paniyiri is expected to begin on Monday, with the event to be held from May 23-24.

About 50,000 patrons attend Paniyiri – one of Queensland’s largest and oldest cultural festivals – each year.
Fire ants were recently discovered at the Mount Gravatt Showgrounds, which host weekly markets, on Brisbane’s southside, leading to temporary closures across the grounds and car park.
The aggressive pests were first detected in Brisbane in the early 2000s, and huge resources have been devoted since to their eradication.
This masthead contacted the National Fire Ant Eradication Program just after 4pm on Friday. It said it did not have time to respond, and would provide further details about the discovery on Monday afternoon.

u/ConfidenceCreative75 — 6 days ago

I’m currently working on my winter wardrobe and I’m stuck on what shoes I’ll be wearing casually this winter.

I have a lot of denim (barrel leg and wide legs jeans in both black and raw denim and denim maxi skirts) and my wardrobe tends to contain mostly black, navy and some deeper greens, blues and maroon.

I want something stylish but also comfortable, good for being on my feet all day and easy to wear. I have heaps of sneakers but I want something a bit different. I’ve been thinking about the Marni Mary Jane sneakers and vaguely thought about some of the Birkenstock 1774 Bostons in Leopard pony hair or something interesting, but I’m just not sure.

What’s on your list this winter?

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