My ex
She recently made it official with her rebound and I was just wondering how long this could truly last
She has not healed from our relationship so the foundation they have is already cracked. Its been a month since they started dating and honestly she definitely rushed into this relationship.
I know it sounds like I'm praying for their downfall but honestly I dont know what to feel. Last week she contacted me saying, I miss you and I wanna talk to you and I still love you. It was a huge blow to my healing process and now its all I've been thinking about recently. I want the best for her but now its her life and her problems. In a way, her telling me she still loved me while dating him was a form of microcheating. I've been debating reaching out and telling him but honestly that won't help anyone.
I dont know what to do at this point. Shes still in my head and she was breadcrumbing me little hints of affection through her social media, reposting things about yearning for a soul you can't have or pinky promises.
It seems like the only thing that could help me keep a peace of mind is knowing that her new relationship won't last for long.
What do you think?
Feel free to give your thoughts and opinions
(Update): Just a small update on what has happened since I made this post
She drunk called me on her birthday to mess with me because , in her own words, she doesnt want me to heal and get over her after all the shit I put her through. Her boyfriend was there while she did this btw. She didn't even call me on her own phone, she swiped one of her friends phone and called me from there. I immediately called my other friend who was there and she also apparently tried taking his too. She also is upset because she thinks I hate her and also because I didn't tell her happy birthday.
After all this they're still together and are going to prom. Im over here still thinking about the things she did and wondering how much this would affect both of us. I want to believe this is just a rebound for the rest of her senior year and the summer but I dont know.
I've been talking with our mutual friend who's middle ground on all of this. I've matured emotionally but honestly I hit rock bottom. One thing that keeps nagging at me from all of this mess is why? Why do all of this when you're in a relationship, supposedly happy and healed as shes claimed, yet care so much to the point that she doesnt want me to get over her and heal?
I realized that when she called me in early April, she was just using me, love bombing me, just for emotional support. I can forgive but something like that is unforgettable for me. I dont know what to think at this point.
Could their relationship implode?
What do you think about all this?
Again, feel free to give opinions in the comments