Should I reach out my friend again to say sorry?
Problem/Goal: So here’s the thing.. I build up a resentment to my friend—i want to regain our friendship if that’s okay?
Context: So I have a bff who’s been with me since 8th grade. Actually she transferred classes when we were g9 but we remained besties. Incoming g10… Ive decided to have the same class as hers. As time goes by, I noticed some of her actions that hurt me bsck then. Sometimes she goes to school avoiding me without saying a word, not coming with me at canteen even though Im always with her when she’s asking for it. One time, my ex and I broke up and I asked to be ny valentine with my other bff but she didn’t showed up. She was with her new friends. And to make it short.. I sacrificed a lot in our friendship and I think she doesn’t recognize it.
And we have a recent issue (I guess). Because her ex is also my friend (they were toxic) and I think I shouldn’t be friend with that guy who hurt her but Im finding it hard to detach from that friend because we’re in the same class and I have no other friends.
And opened everything to her and she said she was sorry but our relationship got broken. We are not close as we like before. And I think this is why I have the resentment because I didn’t speak because I thought it will break our friendship but instead, it got a lot worse.
Is it right to say reach out to her again saying sorry? Because I think she doesn’t care anymore kasi mag bago na siyang friends.
Previous attempts: I reached out to her abt what I felt on what she did on valentines day and opened some of her actions that broke me.
#friendship breakup
#missing a friend