u/Confident_Editor2335

Unemployed people here. How do you guys keep up with the stress of being unemployed?

27 and currently unemployed. Father the sole earning member in the family. Getting super stressed due to unemployment. Been for 7 months now. Have applied so many times and have given only 5 interviews, all rejected.

Stress, overthinking and starting to think I am not worthy enough for any kind of job. Seems like my daily functioning is deteriorating and it's hard to see my parents face as I know they are feeling disappointed in me.

Also are you guys doing any free lance or part time work to earn atleast something? I don't even have the skills to do so...

FML.

Life's been fucked up lately. Have no one to talk to because everyone gives the same fucking advice. To just go out and enjoy yourself. But how can I do that if I have zero energy to do so? I just want someone to listen to me of what I'm going through. Everybody thinks I'm not trying hard enough. For the past 6 months I have been trying vigorously to get past the application phase. Have asked for referrals on LinkedIn my relatives friends. There isn't any job portal where I have not applied to my desired role. Only landed 2 interviews in this period and both of them rejected.

Family thinks I'm not trying enough and there's an argument everyday regarding my future. And why shouldn't they be worried. I am 27 now and people younger than me are in a much better place and position in their respective jobs and even my friends are well settled in their life. Everyday arguments quarrels stress and overthinking is killing me from the inside. I can't sleep at night at all and am lethargic all day. Tried to meditate, go for walks in the morning as well as evenings. Nothing is working stress and overthinking is killing me. I frequently think of unaliving myself but every time I think of my parents and brush the thought away.

I just don't know what to do. I want to cry but I don't, I can't. Having this feeling bottled up is putting a strain on myself. I know many people are having worse lives than me and I must be grateful that I have a roof, eat 2 times a day and have all the luxuries but...

Thankyou and sorry.

​(Note: I am just venting and do not have the energy for private conversations or to reply to comments right now, so I have my DMs are turned off. Thank you for understanding.)

As an obese guy, seat space is my main priority. I find the recliners at R-Mall Insignia to be comfortable and spacious enough to avoid feeling cramped.

I am interested in the 2K Laser Atmos experience at Cinepolis, but I am concerned about the seating.

For those who have visited both, are the Cinepolis "Premium" seats wide enough for an obese person to sit comfortably for the duration of a movie, or are they significantly narrower than the Insignia recliners?

Should I stick with R-Mall to ensure comfort, or is the Cinepolis seating sufficient?