u/Confident_Wheel_3542

Player sexually harassed my halfling cleric

I was playing my DM's homebrew game when one of our friends showed up and joined the game as an NPC.

He was a burlesque dancer named "Atomic journey".

He described in graphic detail how he wooed and seduced the entire tavern with his exotic dancing.

He described how he interacted with each of our characters: he would tease and stroke them, removing articles of clothing, etc...

I found the whole thing slightly disturbing, and I did my best to indicate I wanted to move on from the scene: I told the DM my halfing wanted to leave the bar, but apparently I was charmed and couldn't look away.

I even tried to hide under a table, wanted to roll stealth, but it was too late. Atomic Journey grabbed me from underneath the table, smothered me in her breasts, and started sliding a silk glove between my legs.

My "friend" contacted recently to "unpack" what happenend.

I told him that -yes, I was uncomfortable with the scene because he performed sexual acts on my character when he was LITERALLY HIDING AWAY UNDER A TABLE.

He responded that I should explain the boundary to our DM so that this doesn't happen in the future. He has yet to apologize though, which I find very sad.

I feel like I shouldn't have to specify that I don't want to be sexually assaulted in our D&D game... Doesn't that go without saying????

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u/Confident_Wheel_3542 — 8 days ago

Shilellagh on a Maul

My player wanted to cast shilellagh on his maul. I told him that it only works on clubs or quarterstaffs, but he seemed to be upset when I told him. Should I just let it go for the sake of his enjoyment?

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u/Confident_Wheel_3542 — 2 months ago

My party finally got to Krezk with Ireena Kolyana, and I ran the scene where Sergei appears at ths holy pool to try to let Ireena escape from Barovia. My cleric got spooked and YANKED Ireena back, which caused Sergei to disappear.

I'm upset because I was really looking forward to Ireena departing peacefully while Strahd RAGES in his castle and causes a EARTHQUAKE and THUNDERSTORM. That would've been such a good story progression, but now Ireena is just kinda stuck in Krezk and I don't know what to do with her.

I was thinking of making her go to castle Ravenloft, but I feel like she wouldn't do that despite being heartbroken and depressed.

What should I do with her? Where should she go?

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u/Confident_Wheel_3542 — 4 months ago