u/Connect-Bison-272

We've been married for about 20 years now. My wife has always been into sex and it shows with how easily she gets wet. Which is awesome! I love going down on her and she loves it too, however (and sorry for being a little graphic)... I've never been a fan of her "juices" getting all over my face. So the last couple times I tried something new - I kept a hand cloth close by and dried her off before going down, which for me worked great. The first time, she didn't say anything about it. But the second time, after we were done, she told me she didn't like me toweling her off like that. She said it was a buzzkill both times I did it.

I'm just wondering if any in the group here have dealt with a situation like this?

My inclination is to just bite the bullet. We've been doing it this way for years already. But as we evolve sexually, I just worry that it's kind of grossing me out even though I know how much she loves it.

So this isn't meant to be specifically about Megan Moroney, but it is most present in my life... Raising Cane's has a billboard with a huge blowup of Miss Moroney. She's looking quite nice. Not being much into country music I was not aware of this human being. But I did some research and again, she's quite nice.

Last night sex with my wife and who pops into my brain but this billboard woman. It was great sex. I find myself fantasizing more and more often. I'm not totally sure how I feel about it post nut, but in the moment it's great. Do you all fantasize much about others during sex with your spouse?

Oh the follies of youth! For the first few years of our marriage, before sex we would always pray. Not just sometimes, but Always. I kid you not. We agreed that sexual intimacy had a Divine purpose and as such we needed to invite the spirit. Shortly after the birth of our second child, we didn't pray. I distinctly recall the first time we "did it" without an opening prayer - when we were done we looked at each other and just laughed. We shifted to only praying when we were not "preventing". Now that we're done having children we almost never open with prayer. Although wife does request it sometimes, it seems like after she's felt the spirit strongly at church or whatnot.

Did you guys ever do this? I don't think it's the dumbest thing I've done, but maybe the silliest.

Edit...

So based on the responses, I (we) was sillier or even more hopped up on the kool-aid than I thought. I'm a little embarrassed. But hey it is what it is. No regrets here

Ok so I know they've been around for a minute now, but my wife just got her first tank top garment top, so it's new to me. And I have to say, I love it!

After all these years of marriage I've always found her attractive and she still uses lingerie now and again so I don't really know why I like her new "look" so much. But it's just so hot to me for some reason. She only has the one top so far and says that she likes it. I hope she gets more.

I know we'll never know the complete thinking that went into relaxing garment standards (for warm weather climates only? Really??), but I'm all for it.

Sorry if this is old news, but have any other married dudes out there felt this way? Do you ladies like the new(er) style?