Mil rant
When me and my husband got pregnant with our first baby, we made sure to tell everybody in advance that we didn’t want people kissing him. And my mother-in-law got offended when my husband told her that and then quickly let it go. She then proceeded to gift us a framed handwritten note for our son saying how she was going to kiss him on his face and all this mushy stuff before he was even born and again was addressed that we weren’t gonna be doing kisses when my son was under two weeks old she came over and kissed him on the head before she left and that was addressed over text to not do that and we were really nice about it and acted as if it was a reminder and she won’t stop kissing him it’s happened again that we saw. And I’m sure it’s happened more times than we know about because she constantly leaves the room with him and hides around the corner while we’re eating and she also offered to change his diaper once while we’re all downstairs in the living room and I was like no thank you and she said oh I was just going to take him up to my bedroom upstairs to change him? And the last time we were over, we walk into rap music blasting through the house her boyfriend drunk as hell being loud and her animals running all over the house and then they were vaping around the baby and someone started smoking weed in the house and then she kissed him again. And that’s after we let her know that he would need to go down for a nap since the drive was long. And she wants to babysit. LOLLLLL.