Depression in relationship
Hey guys
I’m with my boyfriend for half a year , currently engaged .
I’m struggling with mental health and he is addicted to ❄️🍺. We both have been through a lot.
My issue is that we have multiple conversations in trying to explain everything like a therapist and I have to deal with his addiction also he wants me help him get sober .
But when it comes to my problems I’m usually left alone with that . I’m literally crying , screaming sometimes and his making stupid jokes like he never can be serious for a moment . When I want him at least to fully listen to me he can play with dog or texting on his phone . Or when he see me depressed in the bed he’s like “oh baby” and proceeding to sleep (nap) . It’s freakin frustrating because I’m trying to help him , doing research etc . Why can’t he ? If I don’t push he’s not gonna do anything . Would he stop playing games when I feel bad ? No . Would he listen to me ? No . He only does when I’m literally getting mad and throwing it all into his face and disruption is serious . But when I’m just gently asking for help or non asking at all he don’t try to do anything . What can I do ?