False accusations by a ‘friend’
Hey everyone,
So I had this friend who is a few years older than me - for context I’m 21 female and she is 30. And we met on TikTok first, even went out in London for a day out which was so much fun with my sister too. Now we don’t message much but I remember when we were in London she told me she loves to find ways to fill her weekends anyway she can so a couple times some TikTok London related came up on my fyp and I’d send it to her if it was things she liked eg museums and art. Like I said we didn’t message much and it was only those couple times. She then asked out of the blue are you okay? The messages seem to have changed and I was so confused cause my message style has always been the same so I said no everything is fine and we spoke a little bit more than nothing till yesterday when I messaged to ask if she was okay cause she had been inactive on socials lately I also said did I do something? If so I am very sorry, I did ask her last week as well if she was okay but got nothing to which she sent this:
‘I’m really not comfortable with speaking as I did say a while back that you’ve changed and started speaking unusually hence why I stopped talking to you. Please dont contact me as it has been making me uncomfortable and I feel harassed.’
Since I can’t attach photos I will send a transcript of some of our convos but we only spoke a couple times since London when she started giving me this random accusation. Then she blocked me on everything. Idk where this mindset came from because if it was ‘harassment’ wouldn’t I have been messaging her a million times saying off topic things?
My message (March 9)
I sent a TikTok about the Paradox Museum and other places in London
her reply was like: “Come again!! We’ll do these, you’ll love Paradox Museum as...”
Me:
“Oooo I can’t wait ❤️”
A couple weeks later I accidentally sent an emoji and replied
“Ignore that emoji it was by accident”
Her reply
“Hahahah it’s alright”
My message (April 10)
You shared a post
My message (April 14)
I sent a TikTok of this art museum
“Since I know you love to fill your free time the best way you can”
Her reply
“Is everything okay, the messages don’t sound like you”
I replied
“Yup everything’s fine girly aha literally I always send TikToks I see on my fyp if I think of someone”
“And I remember you telling me you try to make the most of your weekends when I was in London”
“And I saw this and I was like wait Sophia would love this”
I followed up
“This was meant to sound nice 😂 I’m sorry if I came across in another tone 😂😂”
Her reply
“The writing style has changed, hope everything’s okay :)”
You replied
“Ohhhhh 😂😂😂 girly dw everything is fineeee”
“I just thought you’d like the exhibition”
“If I was in London I’d defo go”
Her reply (April 14, 6:58pm)
“Sure thing x”
My message (April 18)
TikTok about humble crumble and mini eggs
“Urgh a need 😭 I love mini eggs”
Her:
“Yeah I don’t know how that combo would be tbh”
My reply
“I think it would be nice”
“I haven’t had those mini egg crunch eggs everyone had been obsessing over”
Then, after this - silence, I check in, accusation
Am I the bad person here?