M | 25 | Lahore - Green forest guy seeking a green forest partner
As cliché as the tagline sounds, I’m genuinely more of a green-flag type, or so I’ve been told 😆
Sorry for the long read, but I believe finding the right partner is one of the most important things because I'm only gonna get one for life. So I'd rather put some efforts.
Please Skip if:
- You are not intentional about marriage.
- You are not willing to involve parents after mutual understanding is established.
- You have poor communication (I mean how else are we supposed to proceed things, I am not going to carry the conversations alone)
- Your parents are not gonna accept your right to choose a spouse.
Age: 25
Height & Build: 6'2" | 70kg, Athletic built
Location: Lahore (been living here for the past 8 years). Although family is from Sialkot
Marital Status: Single / never engaged
Residence: Rented space in Lahore. Although, Two owned houses in hometown (working towards buying one in Lahore soon InShaAllah)
Education: Bachelor’s in IT | Topper of the class (didn't pursue masters intentionally, even won few international scholarships)
Income Source: Senior Software Developer at a reputable company. Alhamdulillah, my career has been stable and rewarding, and I'm financially independent. Alongside my job, I enjoy building things and am currently working on few of my startups
Religion & Level of Religiosity:
Faith plays an important role in my life. I try my best to maintain my five daily prayers and live according to Islamic values. I'm generally aligned with the Sunni tradition, though I prefer focusing on the core teachings of Islam rather than sect differences.
Something about me:
- I am very lively and chalant person. Seriously, I am into various things, from cooking to coding, from skincare to gym, from anime & k-drama to video games, from PSX trading to entrepreneurship, from reading comics & manhwa to documentations 💀. Even my music playlist is quite diverse.
- I’m an animal lover in general, although I definitely have a bit of favoritism towards cats 😆
- Personality-wise, I'm fairly calm, thoughtful, open-minded, non-judgmental and considerate.
- I would say I am average decent looking guy with phenomenal physique (i do take gym seriously).
- I am very ambitious, i do have audacious goals that I am actively trying to acheive.
- I am striver by nature, I have worked a lot on myself in every possible way and I am consistently looking to make myself better.
- My future plans include growing my business, travelling around the world, and having my own cute little tribe someday. Ultimately, I hope to build a peaceful home filled with warmth, respect, and a lot of laughter.
Family Details:
Father spent his career as an IT administrator and is now semi-retired, while my mother has dedicated herself to being a homemaker, I have 2 elder brothers, working in IT related field in Dubai (both married) and 1 younger brother (doing bachelors)
What i am looking for in a partner:
- Ideally within the age range of 22–27.
- Height preference: 5'2'' and above.
- Education: I value skills, understanding, and mindset more than formal degrees, so education level is not a major factor.
- Location does not really matter, but it will definitely make things easier for families If its nearby to Lahore/Sialkot
- Lifestyle & values: I’m looking for someone
- who is kind, respectful and emotionally mature.
- who is ambitious yet soft-spoken, with strong religious and social values.
- who cares about her health and well-being.
- who has her own interests, hobbies, and passions.
- who values faith, personal growth and a meaningful partnership.
- She can be career-oriented or prefer being a homemaker, i would support her to my best in any case.
- The more similar interests we have the more bonus points she'd get.
- My philosophy about a perfect marriage is that its 60-40, with each partner trying to be the 60.
Deal Breakers:
- Dishonesty or lack of transparency.
- Disrespectful attitude towards people or relationships.
- Poor or unwilling communication.
- Previous dating history.
- Unambitious & extremely pessimistic
- Smoking or any form of substance abuse.
I always believed and I still believe that I shouldn't do things which I don't want my future partner to be doing. So I myself clears out the deal breakers I mentioned
Preferred Family Setup: Preferably Nuclear
Do you want children: Yes, eventually
Timeframe for Marriage: Within this year InShaAllah, although it's flexible if everything else aligns. Tbh i dont think it will take much time, I am good natured gentleman with positive future outlook so your parents are gonna approve easily 😉
You might be thinking "omgg why a guy like him is seeking on reddit?"
To be very honest:
- I'm not really into cousin marriage
- Traditional arrange marriage feels like a gamble (scary atp)
- Reddit is the platform where i met most like-minded people
If the vibe resonates, feel free to reach out or share it with someone suitable 😁