u/Conscious_Cat_1099

my in laws are absent or super low effort. we live an hour away and during both maternity leaves, mil never once came to visit me and help. rich people and gave their only granddaughter a towel for her first birthday lol. so I started to think, I wonder how she was as a mom? I know she was a stay at home mom but seeing comments here how absent grandparents were absent parents….made me sad about my husbands childhood. on his part, he thinks he had a good one but if she’s like this now… I can’t help but wonder? father in law was an absent dad cause he is a workaholic and still is so that’s not a question. theorize and opine!! haha