u/Consistent-Target792

I'm having a lot of trouble with the other women in SLAA - three of them now have been so unkind that I've cried. Telling me I don't understand how it works or I'm doing things wrong, but then refusing to explain and telling me I'm 'defensive' when they don't even know me. It has really put me off. Anyone else had this experience? Someone just told me I was defensive because I said that I was doing well at the moment. I don't understand why you would be so unkind and unwelcoming to someone who is looking for help and open to advice.