AITA because i genuinely need help leaving my house and getting money.
okay so first time poster here and 27F. hi guys i’ve been at home for about little over a year now and im sick of it. my mom is great and all but this is just not the life for me. im finished with college and have been looking for jobs and it just hasn’t been in the cards for me yet. so let me run it back a bit to why im at home. i’ve been at home because i was really sick with a tumor and physically could not work. my mom was glad to have me back home but has been holding me hostage ever since. i came to visit her for a holiday or special occasion and was supposed to go back to work the next day. while i was sleeping she took my keys and hasn’t given them back since. nuts i know. and before yall ask yes it is her car that she gave to me to use while i was working. both of our names were on the car (her decision to do after my father passed). my mom has been very kind in taking care of me health wise but i just cannot stand being poor ans living under the same roof as her anymore. i am so so so grateful for not having to work for a year but it’s not what i chose for myself. i feel like since im almost 30 i should be allowed to leave the house when i feel like it? mind you I’m the town my mom’s house is in, we have no hospital, a McDonald’s, a Starbucks, and a subway. that’s practically it. do i care to work at any of those jobs ? absolutely not. but they are mostly filled up by high schools kids also trying to find better position. this town is built for for people to leave and not to stay. my mother is so controlling I’ve had to go to therapy and they’ve told her that she is also in the wrong. i love my mother and I know she wants to keep my close after my father passes but at this rate she won’t let me leave/ start my own life again until she passes too. and im not even trying to be dark, it’s something we talked about and she thought was funny. i really need any recommendations to get a job when the next city hiring is about 50 mins away and im not able to drive. I’ve been looking for a remote job as well and still no luck. does anyone have any advice or at least some kind words to say so im not going crazy here.