Please tell me why this woman is still arguing with her son, because he told her not to disrespect and she lost access to our children that she doesn’t see anyway. It’s been 3 days and she is still arguing with him about drama she tried to stir up between us and is making it seem like it’s either me or her. We’re engaged now and he has argued with her multiple times but this is the first time he’s actually put his foot down and not let up and she is going crazy. She’s not active in our lives and our children barely know her. The only aspect she is interested in is making sure she is the priority in his life, which she doesn’t realize that he’s no longer her little boy but my husband and our children’s father. Instead of embracing his adulthood she is trying to sabotage our lives and has been since she met me. It’s so annoying to hear and be the bigger person.
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This a rant, but omg! I’ve the horror stories but never experienced it! This women hangs out with every other female he has dealt with that she knows, including his ex. But has not made sure she established a relationship with the mother of his children and wife. I tried because I know I can come off stand offish and rude or mean. But this woman has called his phone and had his ex at her house while we were together. Missed her granddaughters birthday but was there for his exes child’s bday. He had voiced concern multiple times, but in her head “it had nothing to do with him”. We recently had a confrontation because she tried to stir up drama. She called me pathetic and said her son could do better. Now she has no hold over me and she can’t hurt my feelings, it’s just audacity. It’s like she’s viewing me as a regular gf and isn’t getting that I’m way more or maybe she is hung up on his ex of 5 years ago. Mind you this ex has a child with his best friend and it comfortable with his exes mom hanging around. I am baffled by this dynamic. She has lied on me multiple times and has constantly tried to break us up. But talks trash to me about this ex in the few convos we’ve had. In every interaction she can’t help but bring up other females he’s been with, but in the same breath will say I don’t know what you did to him. I’ve never seen him like this over anyone. She’s acts like shes his child’s mother and I’m the new gf. He has established boundaries and enforced them, she will wait until he’s not around or do things behind his back. He has now cut her off and I have told him she will no longer be apart of our children and my life. He will have to deal with her on his own.