u/Consistent_Income896

I’m going to be straightforward about what I’m hoping to get out of this. I need a woman between 28 and 40 who can help me with two pressing things:

I want to steer clear of my parents’ arranged marriage.
I’d like to marry you so I can get a spouse visa to your country (UK, US, Australia or any European country) to move, work and grow my career.

If you’re interested in helping, please get in touch with me right away. I’m eager to sort this out as quickly as possible.

I’m new to Reddit, so if you spot anything that seems off, please let me know! I’m still learning how it all works. Any feedback or advice would be greatly appreciated..

For some reason I’m getting views but no response idk what could be the reason? I’m looking for someone to marry as soon as we both can. I wanna escape my family before they tie me to someone. I want a friend who can also help me move out the country support me (as much as is needed, obviously won’t be relying solely on you) in beginning until i get job). I’m more than happy to relocate. I have a masters degree and wish work abroad. Escape my family and marriage both.

Anyone interested please reach out as you’d be helping a guy in need. I don’t mind if you’re a Christian or Muslim. I’m gay so i don’t have any intention of being intimate with a woman.

PS I’m a 29yr old INFP guy who shut himself down after constant betrayals and heartbreaks. Wanting to move out and live life with a single roommate.

Reposting because didn’t get much responses 😔

29M, South Asian. I recently moved back home after finishing my studies in the UK, and family pressure to get married has started, which is why I’m here. I’m looking for a lavender marriage with someone who is in a similar situation. I’d like to relocate abroad in the future and am open to discussing what works best for both of us. I’m fairly introverted and enjoy anime, gaming, swimming, racquet sports, long drives, and finding a quiet place to sit with a coffee and a nice view.

I’m open to talking with a lesbian woman who has her own partner and needs a marriage arrangement to reduce family pressure, or a woman who wants a stable, child-free life without the usual expectations that come with marriage. More than anything, I’d like to find someone I can trust, get along with, and be good friends with. If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, feel free to message me.

I have an MSc in BIM and Project Management from Queen's University Belfast and a BSc in Civil Engineering. My dissertation was on AI integration in BIM-enabled design workflows and I have a peer-reviewed Springer publication. The honest problem though: no actual BIM industry experience. My work history is site engineering and documentation roles. I know Revit, Navisworks, ISO 19650, IFC, COBie but from coursework, not from a live project where someone depended on the output. That gap is what I'm trying to close.

I'm based in Pakistan and not looking to relocate right now. I want to build real, credible experience first, the kind that makes a UK or Australian employer take the CV seriously rather than bin it in 10 seconds. What I genuinely don't know is whether remote BIM work is accessible from South Asia or if it's quietly gatekept by geography and visa status. I've seen job posts say "remote" and then list UK right to work as a requirement in the small print.

So, is there a realistic path here? Are there firms, freelance platforms, or communities where someone with strong BIM theory but no live project credits can actually get started? And if you were in this position, where would you put your time first: building a Revit portfolio, getting certified, or something else?

29M, South Asian. Just moved back home after finishing my studies in the UK, and the marriage conversations have started, hence this post.

I’m looking for a lavender marriage. The situation I have in mind is a practical one: two people who each have their own reasons for needing this, who can build something based on honesty and actual friendship rather than performance. I’d like to relocate abroad at some point and am genuinely open to working out what makes sense for both people.

About me: fairly introverted, value my own space, and care more about honesty than social niceness. I watch anime, game, swim when I can, play racquet sports, and I’m happiest somewhere quiet with a coffee and a view. Football used to be a regular thing, it’s been a while.

The two situations I’m most open to: a lesbian woman who has a partner and needs room to live her life without constant family pressure, or a woman who wants companionship and a stable, child-free life outside the expectations of a conventional marriage. In either case, what I’m actually looking for is someone I can talk to and trust, not just someone who fills a role.

If any of this fits where you are, feel free to reach out.