r/LavenderMarriageWorld

I’m a practicing Muslim Arab man in my mid-30s based in the US.

I’m not looking for a “cover-up” or purely transactional marriage. What I hope to find is a genuine companion, a Muslim woman in the US who may relate to this struggle in some way, and who also values honesty, mutual understanding, friendship, deen, and building a peaceful life together.

I pray, fast, stay connected to the masjid, and try to continuously grow in my relationship with Allah. I enjoy traveling, social settings, good conversations, and living life with intention. I’d love to find someone who wants partnership, trust, and companionship above all else.

If any part of this resonates with you, feel free to message me.

I am 28 born and raised in Tunisia 🇹🇳, due to past events in my life I suffered from same sex attraction now that I am 28 i would like to settle with someone, I never had any romantic experience with both genders and I would love to settle with a woman because its safer than hookup culture and the gay trap. My type is gen Z funny conservative with a bit of liberal touch. I am ready to relocate for the sake of love . I work full time and I don't want kids.

Im a lesbian living in KL for work. Originally from Indo & have a gf. Looking for someone interested in a Lavender Marriage. People say my gf and I are good looking, I'll let you be the judge.
26 this year, Muslim, open to a calm and respectful arrangement built on mutual understanding and shared goals. Preferably 1 Malaysian male for me (Indonesian), and 1 more open-minded good-looking male for my Malaysian gf. We’re chill, not complicated, everything can be discussed as long as we’re aligned on the same purpose. Lets talk if you’re in the same boat!

Bonjour salut Salem

Je suis une femme de 26 ans vivant à Paris et je recherche un lavender marriage avec une personne sérieuse, respectueuse et discrète et un musulman.

Je peux être une couverture pour vous si nécessaire mais de mon côté ma démarche est liée à des raisons personnelles différentes. Je recherche avant tout une entente intelligente, honnête et basée sur le respect mutuel, sans jugement.

Je souhaite rencontrer quelqu’un de mature, ouvert d’esprit, stable et capable de communiquer clairement sur les attentes de chacun.

Si vous êtes intéressé et que vous recherchez quelque chose de sérieux et discret, vous pouvez me contacter en privé.

My intention for marriage is companionship for the sake of Allah. I experience same-sex attractions / am asexual, but I don’t want to act upon these desires. Instead, I would like to build a family life that is based on mutual support, compassion, and a shared love for the Deen.

I hope to find a wife who is in a similar situation — someone who also wants a marriage rooted in companionship, trust, and worship, without pressure regarding desires, someone who I can be best friends with so together, inshallah, we can create a peaceful home, support each other and have children too through halal means. If you live in or are close to Manchester please reach out.

For me, the most important things are: sincerity, kindness, and working together to grow closer to Allah through our marriage.

Hit me up!!!

I have Indian Citizenship, A Diploma in Mechanical Engineering, living and working in Dubai for last 8 years in logistics and supply chain industry with knowledge of Data analysis, KPI reporting and experience in people management.

In total I have 9 years of experience combined from India and UAE.

I am planning a move to Barcelona/Catalonia in Spain for relationship goals, and I am learning Spanish as well for that. I do not want to be a burden on my future partner hence I want to move there with work. However if I do get any opportunity in Germany, Netherlands or Ireland I am open to that as well, and may later move to Spain ultimately.

I am currently employed with a full time position, however things are looking bleak given the geopolitical situation in the gulf countries, and I want to be prepared in advance for the worse.

Any advice is appreciated.

If you’re down to spend the rest of your life with someone lighthearted and ambitious, live like the bestest friends forever, I’m more than happy to to know you. I expect you to be genuine and ambitious.

So I’m based in uae. I’m an Arab woman. Single with no dating history. I love learning about art, trading (mostly in gold unless you teach me more), interested in wellness, piano, helping those in need and I’m quite old fashioned. My failed projects made by Claude make me want to cry. I’m such a Gen z boomer btw..

I’m not religious but you either have to be Muslim or convert for me(it will be worth it, I hope, don’t worry). It’s for a cultural reason. It’s a huge deal if I marry a non-Muslim and I want to live in peace without having the attention all on me

My life language is when someone teaches me something, especially a very cool skill. I rather listen than talk. I’m shy but I don’t mind if the person I trust is adventurous and invites me to their trips:) I know it will feel good

Hy just looking for a bisexual guy. A bottom preferably. I'm African living in in Africa and free to travel. Don't mind if his in love with another man I'm fine with it because all I need is a lavender relationship

so 1) I have a girlfriend 2) want a safe and stable marriage with a guy 3) im ace - look it up 4) open to arrangements 4) not free. 5) chill persons

I’m bi and looking for a practicing Muslim man who’s bi/gay in the UK ideally. Would prefer if Pakistani but open to everyone.
Im attracted to everyone regardless of gender, no intention of acting on my feelings for women and just want a man who’s in a similar situation to me..

Dm/reply if interested

34 M from Jordan looking for a female for lavender marriage to avoid the pressure from my family.

I'm gay but I really need to have a family and children.

Also, I'm ready to relocate to any other country if I can find a good job.

The pressure from my family is at in a highest level.

Dm for more details

I’m looking for a sincere Lavender Marriage (MOC) built on friendship and mutual respect, with no physical intimacy.

I’m ready to be a financially supportive and stable partner, and I’m fully open to relocating but i prefer a partner who already lives within the Eu

I ldeeply understand our cultural/family pressures and can perfectly maintain the "traditional" image.

I’m very flexible and open to discussing any details to make this work for both of us. If you’re looking for a reliable "ally" to navigate life with, let’s chat in DMs.

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Hey y’all I’m looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man (a bottom would be great ) I’m an Arab woman living in KSA , we could share a house and be besties. I’m super supportive and we could gossip together if u like

I love learning new things we could do fun stuff together , I into books , cooking and trying new recipes so u can be the one I test them on lol I love working out “ a gym rat u could say”

I’d prefer if ur a Saudi man no older than 30? But if you’re not it’s ok we could talk and figure things out , I’m looking for someone kind, understanding ,respectful, mature and financially stable man. and someone who are willing to understand.

we could create a safe life together while still living our own lives. DM me if you’re interested.

Age: 26

· Location: Delhi

· Community: Muslim (important for family) (I am questioning the religion part and I'm not a follower of anything)

· Profession: Currently started teaching, planning nursing Ausbildung in Germany, has a Pharmacy Background.

I am looking for a man in similar situation (closeted / asexual / gay / not wanting traditional marriage)

· Age range: 26-35

· Location: India (any city) or already in Germany

· Willing to have a platonic, mutually respectful marriage.

Parents want arranged marriage soon. We don't have to love together, only appearance needed with your family until marriage, after that no need to attend any function if you don't want to.

And I am okay with anything, completely non judgemental. You can have your relationship outside marriage, and it can short term too. Like 5 years.

I will adopt children but no pressure to you, you can leave or stray, I want to adopt children on my own, and not untill I can afford it.

I won't rely on you financially fully, as I will be getting a small salary for the first three years and after that proper full salary, but I might need a bit of help in the first three years if needed for family. So Financially stable is the one I am looking for. After three years I will get full salary in Ausbildung and I am also amenable to support you when I start getting full salary.

You don't have to move to Germany with me. I am okay with living separately. We can connect by phone.

· Need someone who understands this emotional pressure

· No expectation of sex or children (lavender marriage only)

· Open to adoption in future (my dream, not requirement for partner, I will do it only when I have the means and money and I can handle the child alone. So you are not tied to it)

· Partner can stay in India, move to Germany later, or do whatever works for him.

· I will support each other in front of families but live independently when I am in Germany, before that in India I can live with your family for a bit, just for appearances.

I am open to signing a pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreement (to protect both).

I Will share identity after initial trust is built and I expect same from him.

I am open to meeting in public places but not just after two or three chats. I am very protective of my identity and safety.

Please dm me, if you are interested.

Hi everyone,

I am looking for a muslim male based in the UK, up to the age of 30 ideally for a lavender marriage. I’d like for us both to live our lives separately with our partners or how you would like to, but to also be able to attend family events together when they happen. I am hoping to have nikkah done by the end of this year hopefully so please message if this is something you may also be looking for.