u/That_Jackfruit4335

I’m a chartered accountant I work full time in city of London and I have a little toddler I’d love if I could have a marriage so my son has a good role model and having a best friend to speak to and chill with.

I am Muslim and I am practising, so it’d be nice to have someone who is practising and wants the same and who is also a professional like myself.

We can talk and see where this goes, I just want a bestie for me and my son and who can lead us islamically, has a good heart and has pure intentions.

Not sure if this is the best place to post this, but giving it a go😊.

Ps I’ve had messages from non Muslims just to make it clear I just want a British muslim male - culturally the same and the same religion to raise my little bubba up to be a good Muslim. But thank you for the response from the non Muslim people, I wish you all the best in your search❤️.

About Me

Optimistic, a little bit goofy, and endlessly curious about Allah’s creation! Life has given me a few plot twists, but Alhamdullilah, I’ve healed, grown, and I am genuinely excited for this next chapter. My busy toddler keeps me on my toes, so my days are full of laughter, questions, and playground adventures. When the little one is asleep, I love deep conversations and a good laugh.

I am a 30-year-old Chartered Accountant working full-time in London. Of Pakistani background, I stand at 5’7" and weigh 58kg. In my free time, I enjoy nature walks, working out, spending time with family, and continually learning about my Deen.
At my core, I am a kind, respectful family girl who loves spending time with loved ones. I am looking for a partner who shares these values and wants their spouse to be their best friend. I firmly believe that love, mutual respect, and genuinely enjoying each other's company are the pillars of a healthy, lasting marriage.

About You

I am looking for a practising, mature Sunni Muslim brother who knows how to separate culture from Islam.

Age: Prefer men between 27 and 34.
Ethnicity: Open to any background, as long as you are a practising British Muslim.
Height & Build: Around my height (5'7") or taller, with a healthy lifestyle.
Profession: A professional working in their chosen sector. This doesn’t strictly require a degree; a job-specific qualification or a solid career path is wonderful.
Values: A true man and a great communicator who guards his prayers, values his home life, and isn't looking to stay out past Isha hanging out with the boys.

I do not want to be a second/third/fourth wife, and I do not want to be with someone who is more than 4 years older than me.

A quick note on my past: I am divorced with a toddler, so you must be family-oriented and ready to embrace that dynamic. I am over my past and I’m grateful for my past as it has given my little one, I am not someone that live with regrets, I believe everything happens for a reason.

The Ultimate Goal

The aim of this journey is to find a halal partnership built on real teamwork, mutual respect, and getting to Jannah together. I want a partner who makes life feel a bit easier and a little less heavy, simply because we have each other to lean on through both the good times and the bad.

If this resonates with you, please feel free to message me! :)

Thank you for taking your time to read this if you are not interested in divorced women that’s absolutely fine, scroll past, JazakAllah khair.

I feel like I closed off the world while I was pregnant and then raising my little one, it’d be great to meet people just to talk to or even go with play dates. Most outings are alone with baby or with family sometimes but it’ll be nice to have a friend. My little one is 2 and a half.

As a single mama I don’t have much hobbies right now, I use to go to the gym 5/6 times a week I will resume once baby is a bit older. As I work full time I try to spend the weekends with baby.

Any cool ideas what to do with baby during the weekend please share?

There’s a lot of judgement about single mamas and it’s actually really sad, we didn’t choose to be single mamas - if our lives turned out like this what can we do, I think it takes courage and sacrifice to do what single mamas do.

I’ve been honest with one other mum and honestly it felt like she thought I was going to steal her husband, my ethics are not like that at all and we’re different religions too so I felt dumb opening up but I really need to openly and confidently say I’m a single mum but I’m just scared women will pull away thinking with that mentality - not everyone is the same even when we get on great it ruins such beautiful friendships.

And Ive never opened up to men that I’m a single mum because why do they need to know, and I don’t want to give them the wrong idea too because some men can think single mamas are easy etc due to their situation.

But one day I would love to be able yes I’m a single mum proudly without the judgements.