We’re working on launching a Muslim marriage app and wanted to get some ideas from people who have actually used these apps before.

The goal isn’t to make another copy of Muzz or Salams. We want to build something different by mixing a matrimony app with community features similar to Reddit, where people can ask questions, share experiences, get advice, and have meaningful discussions alongside searching for a spouse.

If you’ve used Muslim marriage apps before, what do you think they’re missing? What frustrated you the most? What features would make you switch to a new app? Is there anything you’ve always wished these apps had but never found?

We’re especially interested in ideas that could improve compatibility, trust, safety, privacy, verification, and the overall experience. We’d also love to hear any ideas for community features, Islamic features, family involvement, or anything else you think would make a Muslim marriage app genuinely better.

Any suggestions are welcome, even if they seem small. We’d rather build something people actually want than just another swipe based app.

I’m looking for a MAN that is around my age or older who is interested in marriage.

⭐️ Please read my whole profile before messaging me and reaching out⭐️

My bio:

About me:

28 Female, born in 1998. Born and raised in the USA. Ethnicity is Somali-American. I’ve never been married before. No kids. Currently single. 5 foot 9.

Personality traits: introverted. Into intellectual conversations. I enjoy science, history and cooking. I recently got into baking. I also enjoy fashion, makeup, reading, writing.

My relationship with the deen: I am religious Alhamdulillah. I pray, read Quran and try to not free mix. I also observe full hijab and dress modestly. I plan on taking some courses to further strengthen my knowledge of the deen.

Education and Job Status:

Have a BA. Currently getting a second degree to switch careers.

Requirements for my future spouse:

• ⁠ethnicity doesn’t matter. I am open to anyone who is Muslim. Your Family must be welcoming of someone like me and vice versa. Compatibility matters the most to me.

• ⁠have to be around the same age as me or older (26-35 ideally)

• ⁠educated, have a degree and have a stable job

• ⁠must be located in North America, Europe or somewhere that isn’t more than an 8 hour time difference.

• ⁠introverted with a streak of being an ambivert as well!!! Please don’t message me if you’re really extroverted.

• ⁠must be 5 foot 10 or taller

• ⁠mature and hardworking

• ⁠prays, reads Quran, and loves the deen. I want a man who fears Allah swt and Goes to the masjid a lot.

Thank you for reading and Please make dua for me 💫

*If you don’t fit my requirements or I don’t fit yours, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME

Hey it's my first time posting here Let's see. I am an Advocate practice in District court Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala, India. I am looking for someone who is religious and open minded. I come from a big family network all over the country, majority in south India.

I am 5'7, I do own a law firm but going through my struggling stages at the same time. So I am also looking for a support system to back me and give me motivation to fight and move forward in life.

I believe love that is born from struggle will last longer so. If anyone is interested DM me.

Thank you for reading;

Asalamu Alaikum.

I am a 30-year-old North Indian female doctor, never married/no previous relationship, born and raised in Saudi Arabia.

I currently live with my family in Saudi. I plan to temporarily move to the United States to complete my medical specialization of 3 years but do not intend to settle there permanently. After completing my training, my goal is to return to Saudi Arabia, although I am open to discussing future plans with the right person, In shaa Allah. My life has primarily been centred around seeking beneficial knowledge, striving to please Allah, and pursuing my medical education.

Religious & Family Background

Alhamdulillah, I come from a practicing Sunni Muslim family upon the Aqeedah and Manhaj of the Salaf as-Salih. Islam is the foundation of my life, and I strive to adhere to the Qur'an and authentic Sunnah according to the understanding of the righteous predecessors.

I perform my prayers consistently, wear the hijab and niqab (with a face mask at work), and make every effort to avoid unnecessary free mixing. Preserving the boundaries set by Allah is non-negotiable for me.

While I come from a North Indian background, I am open to compatible matches from North Indian, Pakistani, Arab, or other similar backgrounds.

Education & Career

I hold a Bachelor's degree in Medicine and Surgery and am currently preparing for the USMLE to pursue my medical specialization in the United States of 3-5 years.

Although I love medicine, I am not career-driven in the conventional sense. My goal is to benefit people through my profession rather than pursue wealth or status. I do not intend to work full-time after specialization and would prefer to work in a predominantly female environment, such as paediatrics or another specialty with minimal mixed-gender interaction.

Appearance & Health

I have a fair complexion, wavy/curly brown hair, soft features, and an athletic build, 160 cm tall.

Alhamdulillah, I am in good health.

Marriage & Family

I would like to have a large family with children, In shaa Allah.

I am not interested in keeping any pets.

As for the mahr, I do not have a fixed expectation and am happy for it to be discussed mutually.

Personality & Interests

I enjoy spending quality time with my family and close friends, travelling, road trips, nature, writing, cooking, driving, and trying new experiences. I also enjoy reading Islamic books, attending beneficial classes, and studying the Qur'an.

Lifestyle

Been actively involved in sports and had the opportunity to captain women's teams on multiple occasions.

I am friendly, approachable, and sociable, while also valuing my personal space and quiet time. My relationship with my family is very close, and I naturally spend more time with them than with friends.

My day usually begins with the Qur'an, followed by studying for the USMLE. I left social media few years ago, do not watch movies or TV series, and dislike music. Outside of studying, I spend my time with family, household responsibilities, enjoying hobbies.

I would describe myself as responsible, simple, cheerful, humble, and family-oriented. I prioritise my religion above everything else. My priorities are, in order: Deen, family & career. I enjoy travelling, especially to places with nature and peaceful surroundings, more than cafés or city life.

What Makes Me Unique

I believe my greatest strength is that I strive to live for the sake of Allah in every aspect of my life. I value sincerity, emotional awareness, responsibility, and balance. While I take my religious commitments seriously, I also enjoy humour, meaningful conversations, and making those around me feel comfortable.

I am straightforward, empathetic, and emotionally mature. I maintain Islamic boundaries, and if those boundaries are compromised, I prefer to respectfully withdraw.

Looking For

I am seeking a practicing Sunni Muslim upon the Aqeedah and Manhaj of the Salaf who sincerely strives to follow the Qur'an and authentic Sunnah.

I value a man who:

• Has strong taqwa and good character.

• Is knowledgeable or actively seeks Islamic knowledge.

• Is emotionally mature, kind, calm, and soft spoken.

• Is educated and financially capable of fulfilling his responsibilities.

• Understands and supports my career goals and family aspirations.

• Avoids haram, including music and other prohibited entertainment.

• Is open to travel, relocation, and building a peaceful family life together.

• Values continuous self-improvement and benefiting others.

Above all, I hope to build a marriage based on love for the sake of Allah, mutual respect, mercy, and cooperation in striving for Jannah together, In shaa Allah.

age 21

gender female

height 152

looking for a life partner

hobbies: horse riding, looking at cars, swimming, football

education level: currently in university my final year.

PAKISTAN ONLY PLEASE!

I honestly don’t really know how to go about writing one of these, so forgive the rambling.

Apps like Bumble and Tinder have been disappointingly hollow for me, and a “quick fix” is the last thing I’m looking for. I want a real companion, someone who’s genuinely all in, especially for the difficult parts of life. And I promise I’ll show up the same way in return.

About me:

I'm a doctor, currently in my final year of specialization. (The field I’m specializing in is not related to patient care, which was an active choice I made after empathy fatigue during housejob.)

I’m also childfree by choice, and I want to be transparent about why. I don’t believe it is responsible to bring children into a world that feels increasingly unstable, demanding, and emotionally exhausting. At the same time, I don’t see motherhood as something that would align with my capacity, temperament, or the kind of life I want to build. I prefer honesty over expectation, and intention over social default.

That said, I still want marriage because I value partnership in its own right. I want companionship, emotional safety, shared life structure, and someone to grow alongside through both stability and difficulty. To me, marriage is not about producing a family in the conventional sense, but about building a deeply committed, intentional bond between two people who choose each other fully.

My green flags: Loyal to a fault, humble, giving

Some personal flaws: A little insecure and definitely too much of a workaholic, but I’m actively working on both because growth matters to me.

About my family:

A close knit nest of 4.

Dad’s retired from the forces (yeah, I'm an army brat), mother teaches English literature, brother’s in university

What I’m looking for in a partner:

I don’t really care about superficial things. Height, status, looks...no, none of that is what makes someone lovable to me. What I do care about is character. I want to feel safe with someone. Chosen. Loved fully and intentionally. And I’ll reciprocate that with everything I have.

Someone who:

• Means what he says
• Doesn’t make grand promises he can’t keep
• Is grounded and kind
• Loves animals
• Has good sense of humour
• Is emotionally consistent
• Is loyal and serious about commitment
• Is genuinely childfree and certain about it
• Understands that if we’re investing in each other, we should both be fully present in that

I know some of my views may seem old-fashioned in 2026, but exclusivity and loyalty matter deeply to me. And lastly, please don’t contact me if you’re manipulative, cruel, dishonest, or emotionally reckless. I’ve already spent enough time learning those lessons the hard way.

everytime the mother or the son finds out im a hijabi, they seem to back away, especially pakistanis :(

For background:

I was born and raised in the US, the guy in question was born in our home country. Our families have known each other since we were children.

When I was 14 we visited our home country and I began having a silly children's crush on him and confessed my feelings the night before our flight the next day. Once I arrived back into America, I don't know how to describe it, but it's like I snapped back into reality and regretted what I had done. I hadn't thought much of it and thought we would both move on. Fast forward to present day, he was able to come to America by his own means with his entire family. We live in different states but they came to visit after not seeing us after 7+ years.

When I saw him I honestly didn't feel any outward attraction, to be quite honest I was pretty indifferent. There were some things that threw me off, like his hair seemed extremely fried (apparently he tried having a perm which caused a lot of damage/breakage) and his hands (he is a nail biter and some sort of deficiency causes the nail plate to be purple.) Both of these things I realized are a big deal to me. I am attracted towards curly and full hair and nice kept hands.

Despite not seeing each other in such a long time, (and frankly even after I have gained some weight) I have recently found out he is still in love with me and that his entire family and extended family were made aware by him that he likes me and wants to marry me. His parents confronted him about his insistent rejection of acceptable marriage proposals to which he expressed he does not wish to look at anyone that is not me. His parents, like I said, are family friends and they are supportive of the relationship should it occur. Emotionally, I appreciate how he gets along with elders and has an extroverted and warm personality which is well loved by everyone. He is funny and considerate and cares for me even when I am not present in the gathering. He is religious also and led our family in prayer when they visited. Financially, he is stable and has aspirations.

Everything about his seems perfect except I am unable to find myself attracted to him in a romantic way. I feel like a shallow person for thinking these things and also remind myself that I would hate/think it is unfair to meet someone and they would have to convince themselves to find me attractive. Along with that though, I don't think it is fair to only love the way someone loves you and not love them in the same manner. It is also not fair that if I go through with the marriage, that we have issues with intimacy because of the attraction barrier.

However, I know in Islam spouses are meant to be a source of peace for each other and I know he would bring me peace in a marriage, especially in comparison to the turbulent marriage of my parents. But I can't help but feel like I won't find anyone else who has not fallen in love before or had a past, or will treat me with the same love or consideration that I would be equally attracted to as well.

Should I overlook these things knowing that everyone has shortcomings and accept them as his? Or is this naive to do?

BarakAllah feekum

Not interested in debating the child free part. Take it or leave it.

Age: 31

Your age: 28-33

Height: 5'7

Ethnicity: Pakistani Punjabi

Based in: Islamabad, Pakistan

Sect: Sunni (not fussy about it as long as you practice in moderation what you believe in)

Marital status: never married. You should never have been either.

Occupation: Finance

Degree: Bachelors

Siblings: 2. I'd prefer if you have a small family.

Parents: Father is retired. Mother is a home maker.

Additional: I smoke, but I realize its harmful. No drug use. I am a moderate. Not fond of political or religious debates. Driven and competitive. Not a big worship fellow. Not fond of people who make it the center piece of their lives while ignoring their duties. No compromise on morals and principles. Love watching and playing sports. Athletic build. Cerebral personality. Have a here for a good time not a long time attitude towards life. It allows me to be present in every moment and make the most of everything.

I have a 10, 20 and 30 year plan. Not willing to change it for anyone. If you find relief in being led, we'll have great chemistry. Not over bearing or controlling. I enjoy giving space and having my own. Very protective of my loved ones.

My family is a great mix of liberal and conservative. We all have our own opinions, beliefs and perspectives on life. Respect, trust and integrity is a must though.

Will never have children.

If you're the typical cool adult, this is not for you. If you are too worried about how your partner practices his religion instead of focusing on your own, this is definitely not for you.

\*\*READ ALL OF IT BEFORE DMING\*\*

\*(Post style inspired by other posts I’ve seen here\* 🤍\*)\*

\*\*Age:\*\* 22
\*\*Height:\*\* 172 cm
\*\*From:\*\* Pakistan 🇵🇰

\*\*Family background:\*\*
My father was a doctor and my mother is a housewife. I’m an only child.

\*\*About me:\*\*
I’m a hopeless romantic and conventionally attractive. I love going on walks, singing, and dancing 💃. I enjoy horror movies (my favorite is \*1920\*) and listening to music. My favorite song is \*Humnava\* from \*Humari Adhuri Kahani\*.

People usually describe me as attractive, socially awkward, and charming.

\*\*What I’m looking for:\*\*
I’m looking for someone tall and attractive (as I’m tall and conventionally attractive myself), kind, loving, and someone who genuinely wants a deep connection. I want the kind of relationship where we both choose each other and are obsessed with each other in the best way.

\*\*Before DMing:\*\*
Please mention your \*\*age, height, and location\*\* in your first message, otherwise I’ll simply ignore it.

Thank you 🤍

I'm a 29 F, Egyptian, open to relocate for the right man to a Muslim or Arab country.

Never been married, no children

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 27-35

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

I'm Arab, open to born Muslim mixing - I prefer if his main language is either Arabic or English ( at least one of us should be at ease when talking to eachother)

Ideal marriage timeline

Week1-2: chatting online

Week 3-4: maybe Video calls

Month 2: meet the family. If you're not already in Egypt, we could arrange something, but my dad must be involved early on, No Dating

Engagement: 6 months - 1 years

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Religion comes first, Fearing and loving Allah during all the day-to-day actions and behaviour. Someone who desires to fall in love and be loved, to know what he's looking for in a wife. High self awarenesses, and welling to pay efforts for relationships. Well mannered, gentle, soft hearted, enjoys challenging discussions, well read.

State/specify your level of religiosity

Al hamdulelah I was born a Muslim and I pray the fard and nafela, fast Ramadan and occasionally Mondays/Thursdays, working on memorising Quran, listen to lectures in Aqida, Feqh, and Tazika. I wear Hijab, completed Umrah, try to surround myself with a like-minded Muslim community.

Please pass if you

- Don't pary 5 times a day on time.

• your job is not 100% Halal.
• Can't provide a family.
• Marriage house in a poor neighborhood/village/with in-laws.
• Don't have a social proof ( social media, family and friends) I'll need to search about you.
• Can't get your family involved.
• Poor hygiene and self care.
• Been married or is married.

Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor's, I would like equal or higher educational level.

Current Job Status

I've been working from home for ~ 3 years. Currently looking for my next role in business operations and development.

If I found a good job before meeting a good man, I'll keep working till we have our first baby then I'll find some activities to keep connected to the outer society.

Do you want kids? Yes, ISA

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Listen to podcasts in religion, life, and finance. I enjoy cooking and spending time with family. Some times I watch movies, read, gym, and swim but not much. Long walks by the river/close to trees, and kayak rides.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I travelled to many cities in Egypt. when I face the beautiful nature, I like to make duaa and tasbeeh (our mighty god created all of this). I fell in love with the beach, mountains, and snorkeling. I'll take you to amazing places here 🥰🥰

I'm very resourceful and good with recycling.

I already have a loving family, I'm happy and content, but looking for my next adventure as a wife and building my own family.

Disclaimer: I filled this profile thinking of my thresholds, It might sound too formal because I value my safety. I have a lot of love to give after marriage. And I'm sorry if I hurt anyone

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom
Ethnicity: Pakistani
Marital Status: Never married
Religious Practice: Practising Muslim. I strive to strengthen my relationship with Allah and to keep things halal.

About Me:
I’m family-oriented and enjoy baking, colouring, being creative, and watching the occasional true crime documentary. I’m quite easy-going, easy to please, and not particularly high maintenance. I’m naturally quiet, shy, and introverted, but once I’m comfortable, I have a fun and light-hearted side.
I’m definitely more of a homebody and enjoy cosy days in, but I’d love someone who encourages me to get out and try new things now and then, without expecting me to be out every weekend!
I’m always striving to become a better Muslim and am looking for someone who shares that mindset of continuous growth. Once I come out of my shell, I enjoy playful banter and can be quite sarcastic in a tongue-in-cheek way, though never with any bad intentions.

What I’m Seeking in a Spouse:
Age preference: 25–30.
Location: UK-based, British national (preferably)
Ethnicity preference: I would highly prefer someone who is Pakistani, but I’m open to getting to know someone from another background if we’re compatible.
A practising Muslim who prays the five daily prayers and is God-conscious (has taqwa).
Someone with good character who is kind, respectful, honest, and emotionally mature.
Someone who is genuinely ready for marriage and is seeking a halal, purposeful path to marriage.
Family-oriented, communicates well, and wants to build a peaceful, loving, and supportive home together.
Someone with a good sense of humour who doesn’t take life too seriously all the time and is happy to be a little childlike so we can laugh, be silly together, and enjoy the little things.

A Little Note:
I’m looking for a sincere connection with marriage in mind from the outset. Compatibility, mutual respect, and growing together in our deen are all very important to me.

hi, i’m a mixed girl from tokyo looking for a husband.

i’m graduating next year from a top 10 university in london and would ideally like to relocate to the gulf after graduation, so bonus points if you’re already based there.

a few facts about me: • my dad’s side is shia muslim, but i’m not particularly religious. • i genuinely cannot cook. i’ve tried. every meal becomes a health hazard lol • i cant clean too i get quite messy • i love travelling and have been to 30+ countries. i usually travel at least once a month if i can. • my family lives in japan, but i’ve spent the last few years living abroad. • i speak english and japanese fluently and am slowly learning arabic. • i love museums, good food, photography, and spontaneous trips. i used to game like apex valorant csgo but my pc broke down so i havent been active. when im in japan i spend half the time in tokyo and the other half in the countryside home i love nature

what i’m looking for: • someone loyal, kind, emotionally mature, ambitious, funny, ETC and is ready to take care of me • preferably someone who is 22-24 years old • ideally based somewhere in the gulf because that’s where i’d like to build my career. • someone who doesn’t expect me to magically become gordon ramsay after marriage lol

F 34, Lancashire. 🇧🇩 divorcee, no children. Open to all ethnicities.

Asalaaam Alaikum.

I hope this finds you in good health.

Ideal marriage timeline: 6-12 months, an intimate nikkah with close family and friends ideally.

Sunni, pray 5x a day and completed ummrah.

Open to having children.
I absolutely adore architecture, documentaries, travelling, swimming, cycling, board games, movies, trying new things and the list is endless.

I will try anything once even if i fear for my life (enter Ayatul Kursi).

I am a soft spoken, sweet feminine soul with a firecracker personality 🔥. I am chaotic and witty what's not to love! I am self-diagnosed ADHD, happy, positive, energetic, spontaneous.

5 ft 3, medium build, wear a hijab and dress fashionably modest
Fluent in English and Bangla.

*I am looking for a man that:*
Prays 5x a day and wants to continue to learn about Islam.
Covers his awrah
Has a beard
Funny and yearns for deep chats
Easy going, intelligent, adventurous, wants to stay young together.
Someone who wants to be a husband as much as I want to be a wife.
Also a man that wants a marrriage with traditional roles without rigidity.

**T&Cs apply: **
Up to age 41
British born.
Never married or divorced but must have no kids.
Should not consider taking a second wife.
Will live independently of family.

I am open to making Hijra and will relocate nationally.

Please only contact me if you meet the requirements and include this in your message. Preferably with your ISO.

Still Looking for the one

\*Only those who’s native place is Karnataka/Hyderabad
parents will be involved from the Start
Serious inquiries only\*

\*Upper middle class Salifi family. looking for someone practising please include those details when reaching out.\*

\*Gender: Female
DoB: 19/08:1998
Age: 27

Location: Tumkur Karnataka India

 Height: 5.3ft

Qualification:Bachelor's in Arts,currently Quranic Arabic student (online)

Interests: Reading books,writing, nature lover

Languages spoken: Hindi, Urdu, and English

Marital status: single never married

Family Details:

Father:Trading Engineer (KSA)

Mother: Homemaker

Siblings: Sisters - One elder, One younger

Brothers -two younger

About Me:

I am a practicing Muslimah with a purpose of connecting people to Quran as a teacher,want to continue it after marriage as well with my partners support. I am an inspiration seeking person with positive outlook of life. I would like to be with a person with whom I can grow in all aspects of deen.

Partner Preference:

Looking for a life partner who is a practicing muslim, honest ,open minded, thoughtful ,makes decisions with hikmah prefers deen over dunya, purposeful, has emotional maturity, and respects my decision to wear niqab. Someone who will support me in my values, beliefs, and family ethics, and values love, respect, and understanding in marriage.
Prays 5 daily prayers and a Quran student.

Kindly inbox me with your profile or if you know anyone that’s looking that may be a suitable match. Feel free to message me.

Very successful entrepreneur looking for a second wife to support and marry. I’m located in Toronto, Canada. But open to someone from anywhere in the world.

Age: 23
Education: Bachelor’s degree
Religion: Practicing Muslim with strong faith and values. I prioritize my religious obligations and strive to live according to Islamic principles.
Personality & Interests: Creative and adventurous. I enjoy art and painting, traveling, and trying new experiences. Family-oriented and value meaningful relationships.
Family: From a close-knit family.
Looking For: A practicing Muslim who is kind, mature, ambitious, understanding, and has a good sense of humor. Seeking someone who values faith, family, and personal growth.
Deal Breakers: Smoking, vaping, drugs, misogynistic attitudes, and a history of casual dating or relationships.
Marriage Timeline: Ready within 6 months to 1 year, if compatibility is established.
Children: Yes, InshaAllah.
Preference: Seeking proposals from Pakistanis only residing abroad.

Just curious. Would u ever marry someone with mental health issues? Like if someone u were potentially going to marry just told you that would you stop getting to know that person? What if they’re like they’re to learn how to manage better? Or would you second guess the marriage?

As-salamu alaykum

📋 The Quick Facts On Me

• Age/Origin: 29 | Malay

• Languages: English & Malay (Fluent), Chinese (Spoken)

• Religious Practice: Sunni (Mazhab Shafi'i). Practice daily and wear hijab.

• Current Residence: Malaysia (Prefer to relocate outside of Malaysia).

• Marital Status: Single / No children.

• Siblings: Second of 3 (Oldest daughter).

• Timeline: Around 1 year

To My Future Husband:

I’ve always believed that a beautiful marriage is about finding your ultimate teammate—someone to walk hand-in-hand with, motivating each other to grow closer to Allah every day.

A bit about me is I’m bubbly, caring, and nurturing person. Professionally, I work in the construction industry. It’s a fast-paced field and I've been a bit of a workaholic (oh no, red flag), but I am tryiiing – tryiiing okey, prioritizing my work-life balance this year.

Because I have fast pace work, my dream is to find a husband with a “goal getter” mindset who leads our future life with purpose and deen. I am looking for that strong, protective masculine energy that makes me feel safe enough to turn off "boss mode," relax, and just be soft and feminine with you.

When I’m not working, I love a mix of high energy and quiet moments—whether that's boxing, korean dramas, walking on the beach, or cafe-hopping or my recent hobby is visiting art galleries. As I taking my time to write this, I hope you do write some intros while messaging me with the emoji ⭐ so i know u read this looooong post. Looking forward for your letter!

As-salamu alaykum,

Your future wife