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Would you relocate to Madina?

My intention is to settle down in Madina right after marriage - so for the sisters, specially those that do not want to relocate away from home - is relocation to Madina an exception for you?

Just checking because I been seeing a lot of ISOs mentioning they won't move out of thier city

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u/Abu3azm — 8 hours ago

The floor is lava, can my man hurry up 🥴

Asalaam Alaikum,

T&C’s apply 📝 🤯
• If interested please dm me with a summary of yourself and pictures after that. I will not respond to heys.

• I am not a texter, once compatibility has been established I would expect calls and face time and a meet up very soon after that. I am not here for a pen pal.

🧕🏽🇧🇩
• 34
• 5 ft 3
• I’m built like a woman, I don’t know what else I would say here.
• I wear a hijab and dress fashionably but modestly.
• I live in NW England, born and bred.
• youngest child vibes. Half glass full always.

💍 Divorced 1.5 years ago with no kids. I am open to having children.

💰I work in the NHS, I am not clinical.

This personality of mine ✍🏽🧐
• I fully have ADHD, expect 20 stories in 5 mins, lots of tangents, lots of laughing.
• I try to learn about Islam via reading and lectures
• I love to hike, swim, cycle, watch documentaries, have a keen interest in cars, love LOTR, marvel & DC.
• I’m abit of a geak and I love it.
• I’m crackers tbh, it’s pretty amazing.
• I am a deep thinker.
• I am incredibly witty and sarcastic.
• soft spoken, feminine and fiery.
• Meme Queen 👑
• I’m a solid driver and a car enthusiast.
• Coffee shop hopping, count me in.
• I have travelled to a few places, so much left to see.

📿
• Sunni, Hanafi, born Muslim.
• I pray my salah and fulfil all my basic duties as a Muslim. Deen is very important to me.
• I have completed umrah and hope to do hajj and umrah with my husband one day.
• I do not celebrate milads aka the Prophets birthday. PBUH.

🔎🙋‍♂️
British born and bred
30-40
Educated
Prays all his salah and seeks Islamic and non islamic knowledge
Enjoys reading, exploring the world, the big and the small things.
Keen to explore the wonders of the world with me. ✈️
Well spoken, well read, financially stable and ambitious.
Would be nice if he can cook or is willing to learn
No kids - can be never married or divorced
Beard
5 ft 9
Takes care of himself
Intelligent
Deep thinker
Easy going
Open to having kids
Open to ethnicities
🇬🇧 Someone that has grown up in the UK. Does not need to have been born here but must have a similar upbringing to me, aka British.

❌ dealbreakers ❌
Dry personality - I don’t even like my food dry.
Not praying salah
Smoking
Drinking
Female friends
Socials
Kids
Living with family
Second wife
Does not want to marry within the next 6-8 months

⛓️‍💥I do not drink, smoke, post on social media, or have male friends.

🏡 I am happy to relocate. I am open to moving abroad, preferably a Muslim country.

🚨 If you don’t cover your awrah and you
lack haya when you speak please don’t consider messaging me. I will report you to Allah and I’ll report you here as well.

A small nikkah with close family and friends is preferable.

If my future husband is reading this, Fi duniyal wal akhirah ☀️

For readers, wishing you the best of this duniya and the hereafter, have a great day.

💕A random thought I’d share - a reminder to my fellow sisters who are looking for a husband. The people that call you old at 30, will be the same people that call you young if you died today. Marrying a man with the right qualities, values, deen and stability is more important than marrying for a timeline.

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u/Prestigious-Guava907 — 12 hours ago

anyone else obsessed with getting married??

i find myself really really wanting to be married. i am on several apps, have been searching for years, but i get rejected by everyone i'm interested in :(( its been maybe like 30-40 guys at this point who have rejected me

i think about marriage 24/7. almost never a moment goes by im not thinking about getting married, how to find someone, how to make myself more attractive to potentials, whether anyone would pick me etc. i spend time searching up couples content, vlogs, couples channels online. my biggest aspiration is to become someone's wife and a mother. i don't think about anything else and my life feels pointless if i'm not married.

at the same time though i don't feel like i have anything to offer in a marriage. i am obese, i am not pretty or beautiful, and i'm really quiet and shy. at work or at events i barely talk at all. sometimes i think i look hideous and i'm disgusted by my appearance. i don't think anyone could genuinely like me. i think if someone were interested in me, it would only be because they couldn't find anyone better.

can anyone else relate??

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u/Possible_Kitchen1404 — 15 hours ago
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Looking for a sincere man to get married

As salamu alaikum #Lookingforgroom

Birth year: 1997, Height: 5' 7.5" (~), Brownish complexion , Not obese, Maritial status: Unmarried B.Sc from a private university, Completed MBA Father: Businessman Mother : Housewife Has younger sisters

"I am a simple looking, an ordinary human being who is trying to be a better muslimah. I do hijab. Personally, I hardly like any materialistic things.

I am looking for someone who is kind, respectful toward anyone, isn't short- tempered, is willing to understand, is trying to be a better muslim.

As I am a tall person, the other person should be taller than me, not obese, age upto 32 years old.

Someone who doesn't have any issues with cats. Cause I genuinely do love cats.

Someone with whom I would spend my short lived-life of this duniya as well as the eternal life of Jannah, in sha Allaah.

Marriage is supposed to be a blessing and in my other half I am looking for the peace for the sake of Allaah swt, and I should be for him, vice-versa. We need to be conscious of Allaah swt. We aren't perfect but will need to try to get closer to Allaah swt always.

As being the eldest daughter of my family, I will take care of my paternal family, financially as well, in sha Allaah. So I wish to work and have halal income. You need to be respectful and supportive of that.

I am an ambivert, it's difficult for me to mingle in a large group of people easily. But in sha Allaah, I will wholeheartedly give my best to be better with my in-laws, I expect the same from you as well.

I am from a lower middle class family"

We prefere someone who is settled (/in process) in outside of Bangladesh.

Kindly knock if you are sincere.

Jazakumullaahu khairan.

Email: sweetistea7@gmail.com

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u/Honest_Kiwi6672 — 15 hours ago

Let's try this. Maybe the first time is a charm😅

Age 27

Gender Female

Height 5'7

Based in East Africa.

To note before you go further;

🖤 Black woman over here. If you don't like Black women, that's perfectly fine, just keep it moving, sweetheart 😂. Racism and discrimination, however, are an automatic no.

Okay, now that we are good.....

I am ✨

📚 A fiction girlie who can happily spend a weekend reading. Very easily convinced by a good café or bookstore.

I paint sometimes, but please don't ask to see the paintings🤣🤣 and The Big Bang Theory is my comfort show.

I love the beach, but give me some countryside too. Chicken and rice can absolutely win me over. I love cooking, but I also appreciate someone cooking for me. 😂

👯‍♀️ More small-circle than social butterfly. I genuinely enjoy my own company.

I love people who are funny, chilled, and don't take themselves too seriously.

Kind, caring, compassionate, and lover girl at heart. I am very observant and love to take care of my partner.

Before I forget, I am daddy's fave 😎

Faith is important to me. I practise the basics and am always looking for ways to become a better Muslim.

I'm chatty once I'm comfortable, but it can be reserved depending on the situation. I'm ambitious and independent, but actually much softer than I probably come across. Very much a child at heart😂.

You are👈🏾:

Someone who is genuinely intentional about marriage and wants to build a partnership, not a one-sided relationship.

Educated

Secure in who you are as a person.

A career that allows you to financially support yourself

Calm, kind, grounded in faith, emotionally mature, and fun to be around.

Good hygiene is non-negotiable 😂, taking care of your health matters, and yes, please be taller than me.

I'm looking for safety, friendship, laughter, and two people building a life together.

I want children, InshaAllah , God's timing.

Open to different cultures and nationalities. Distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker. If there's genuine intention and a realistic plan, but you must be willing to travel and close the gap in a reasonable time frame, not looking for a pen pal😐.

📩 Please don't slide into my DMs with just "hi" 😂. You've got my ISO, so give me something to work with. I like knowing who I am talking to.

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u/Turbulent_Sea596 — 11 hours ago
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33yr F Utah USA looking for marriage

Salam,
I am a 33yr old Iraqi woman who has never been married. I grew up in the states but originally from Iraq. I’m looking for a Shia man who is educated, well rounded, knowledgeable and respectful who values deen and is practicing. I’m looking for a man who values being a husband, father and partner inshallah.

A little about me: I work in healthcare and love my career but am more than ready for the next chapter in my life including being a caring and loving wife and supportive partner. I’m looking for my best friend the future father of my children. I would prefer someone in the US or Canada who grew up in the west and shares similar upbringing.

I guess I need to add a little more to my post.
I’m looking for an Arab man 30-45 is ideal, over 5’10. I’m looking for someone who is practicing, prays fast, no drink or smoking or drug use. Educated and has at least a bachelors degree. Wants to be a provider and has similar interests as me.
I’m 5’6, I love reading, baking, cooking puzzles, needlepoint and working out. I enjoy travel and adventure. I’m not a sports watcher but will cheer on your team and make you snacks.

I do wear hijab and take care of myself and prefer to dress modestly.

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u/Impressive_Effect343 — 12 hours ago

School Name/Reputation in Marriage

I’m a 21M from Lahore living in UAE and wanted some honest opinions from women regarding education and marriage.
I did part of my schooling in the UAE and completed my last two years of school online during COVID. After that, I got admitted to a few US state universities, but my student visa got stuck in administrative processing and, even after almost 2 years, was never approved or rejected.
Rather than waste time waiting, I started a bachelor’s degree at Virtual University and simultaneously joined my family’s trading business. Over the last few years, I’ve worked in the business in Pakistan when I was in school and 2 year ago started in the UAE, and Alhamdulillah it’s doing well now.
I could transfer to a well-known physical university in Pakistan, but that would likely mean leaving behind the business I’ve spent 2 years building. Continuing my degree online is currently the most practical option.

My question is: when it comes to marriage, how much does the university name matter? Would doing a bachelor’s from an online university be a significant concern if the person is otherwise educated, ambitious, and financially stable?

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u/Dry-Highlight3366 — 17 hours ago

20F | Looking for Marriage

Salam! :)
I also wanna clarify that u/Conscious_Phrase_634 and I are two different people.
I'm 20, Ethiopian, 5’3, Sunni, and currently living in North America. I'm finishing my prerequisites right now and working toward becoming an ultrasound tech, inshaAllah. I'm hoping to get married within the next 1–2 years. I've never been married and don't have children.
A little about my personality:
I'm pretty extroverted, spontaneous, and social. I love being around people, making plans with my friends, trying random activities, and picking up new hobbies just because they seem fun. I'm also pretty adventurous and love being outdoors, especially going to the beach. But I'm definitely not someone who needs to be out all the time—I can happily spend a whole day at home watching shows too.
I'm also a huge cat person 🐈, so having someone who likes cats would definitely be a plus.
One of the biggest things about me is that I love to have fun with the people I'm close to. I joke around a lot and can be pretty playful, so I'd want a husband who enjoys that side of me and can give the same energy back. At the same time, I want us to be able to have mature conversations, communicate openly, and be there for each other when things get serious.
I also really want to travel more. I'd love to explore different places, try new things, and have a spouse who's excited to experience life together rather than being afraid of spontaneous plans.
Deen is important to me:
I'm Sunni, I pray and fast, and I want my deen to continue growing throughout my life. I'm looking for someone who is consistent with his prayers, attends Jumu'ah, and genuinely wants to become a better Muslim.
I've stayed away from zina, alcohol, drugs, and smoking, and I'm looking for someone with similar values. I'm also only interested in a monogamous marriage and would not be open to polygamy.
What I hope marriage looks like:
For me, marriage isn't just about finding someone who checks the right boxes. I want a best-friend type of relationship where there's a lot of love, loyalty, respect, and genuine friendship.
I want us to be able to support each other's goals while still having our own personalities and interests. I want a peaceful home where we both feel safe, appreciated, and cared for, but also one where there's plenty of laughter and fun.
I do want children, inshaAllah, but I'd ideally like us to have some time together as a married couple before having them. I want us to build our relationship and enjoy being husband and wife first.
Who I think I'd be compatible with:
I'm looking for someone around 21–24, living in the U.S., Canada or U.K, practicing Sunni, emotionally mature, honest, loyal, and financially responsible or actively working toward stability.
I'm attracted to someone who takes care of himself and stays active. I don't necessarily need someone who lives at the gym, but being active, athletic, or outdoorsy is definitely a plus.
I'm open to all ethnicities and backgrounds. The important thing is that you're genuinely open to marrying outside of your ethnicity and that your family would also be supportive of that.
Personality-wise, I think I'd be happiest with someone who's funny, social, adventurous, affectionate, and open-minded. Someone who enjoys going out and trying things but can also appreciate a quiet night at home. Basically, I want someone who actually enjoys doing life together.
I'm also looking for someone who wants to build a marriage where both people encourage each other, grow together in their deen, and genuinely enjoy each other's company.
If you think we'd be compatible, feel free to send me an introduction about yourself and we can see where things go, inshaAllah. I'd appreciate an introduction with enough information for me to get a sense of who you are.

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u/Necessary-Wear — 22 hours ago

Women Mentality in 2026 looking for a Man

Height: ✔️

Weight: ✔️

Career: ✔️

Degree: ✔️

Deen: (Even tho they only know basics and deen that suits them like women rights and can careless about a Man rights) ✔️

Want someone like Prophet Muhammad (PBUH): (Even tho they barely know anything about him like living a frugal life and in Polygamy) ✔️

Handsome: ✔️

Fit: ✔️

Double Handsome: ✔️

Has Money and can show it off: ✔️

Open to relocation: (Even tho she won't relocate at all, she just like to post like she does) ✔️

Wants a leader: (Even though she makes demands and essentially wants a walk over) ✔️

Mature man: (But cant be controlling at all and must obey her commands because she's the smart one in the relationship) check

Good communication skills: (Basically you just listen and say Yes all the time) ✔️

Must be a great provider: (Basically buy what she whatever she wants and not needs) check

Great with kids: ✔️

Flaws: He checks ALL the boxes but wait he has a Big nose....OMG

Verdict: SWIPE RIGHT, Reject, Ghost,... because of ONE flaw

P.S. For all the young guys that want to score some points and say "bro stop complaining " and "men are the same"... Listen and learn for a second and get off the Playstation. Im speaking facts. U cant be scared and intimidated to speak your mind if its true. Some ppl won't like it but they'll respect it. Unless you like the arrangement of Women running the show and being the pants in the relationship. If u want to be a real Man and Leader, you must follow your principles and values and dont let no one bend it for you. In the end, everyone leaves you except Allah

For the women and unfortunately some men love to be judgemental and make assumptions about me that think I might have low value or im weak. I am surrounded with many beautiful women especially at work, I choose not to do zina or lead women on like flirting. Thats all im gonna say about myself on this post.

May Allah bless everyone. Im stating facts. The truth hurts but im being transparent and honest. Salamz

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u/Pleasant_Tone_7288 — 1 day ago

Does anyone actually find serious, transparent matches here? Or just people playing games?

Salam everyone,

I’m genuinely curious to hear from the community—has anyone here actually found a serious, respectful, and transparent match that led to something real? Someone who was honest from day one about their intentions and timeline?

It feels like a lot of interactions start out okay, but quickly devolve into people hiding things, playing games, or just looking for casual conversation under the guise of "seeking marriage."

If you or anyone you know actually found a genuine success story through this sub, please share it below. I could really use some reassurance that there are still serious, sincere people on here who respect the process!

u/papa-_-goose — 18 hours ago

23f Pakistani. born and raised in the GCC - Looking for marriage (Pakistani)

just dropping my Muzz bio below:

23 y/o Undergraduate, 5'4, pragmatic, selective, and overall a very passionate curious and fun person if we click.+ a little misfit in my generation as i’ve always had older company around

but on a serious note, for me… almost everything revolves around trying my best to link things in life w islam- which's the epitome of logic and reasoning for me, and i expect the same and more from my S/O. your 5 prayers should be like breathing to you, that's a non negotiable and the very basic. also i’ve cut down music to a great extent so i expect that too.

a (very small) snippet of what my dream guy looks like is as follows:

- normal Sunni following the Quran and Hadith, age 25-28, 5'9 or above, well built, Born and raised outside Pakistan
- someone whose heart is purely connected to the deen without the influence of any bid’ah/cultural practices+ having the willingness to instantly fix up any wrongly followed practice.
- someone who generally makes healthy nutritious/ life choices and has an ever evolving mindset
- having a smart/ witty/ sarcastic sense of humor (so he could get my elite jokes too)
- thinks deeply & philosophically, and is nerdy enough to teach me new things that i don’t already know (nothing surface level will suffice 🫡).
- authentic and honest. a LEADER.
- NO anger issues/ insensitivity, and calmness and kindness in his demeanour please

and to conclude… please recite the following, to be able to find your dream partner too, while having full faith in Allah:
رَبِِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

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u/LevelQuiet48 — 16 hours ago
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Almost 24 years old man, I'm seeking a righteous wife.

Assalmu Aleikom wa Barakatu,

I'm looking for a potential wife who is righteous, has good akhlaq, and takes marriage and Islam seriously. I'd ideally like someone with an Arab/Berber background as I appreciate sharing a similar culture, but I'm not limited to that and I'm open to women from other backgrounds as well.

I'm in my early 20s, Arab and Sunni, and currently living in Europe. Regarding age, I'd generally prefer someone around 18–30, although I'm open-minded depending on the person and compatibility. I'm not particularly concerned about physical appearance.

As for myself, I'm happy to share more about my personality, background, education/work, and other details once we get to know each other. If you would prefer to involve your wali from the beginning or at any point during the process, I have no issue with that and would actually welcome it.

If you think we may be compatible, feel free to reach out.

BarakAllahu feek

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u/Fun_Plankton_9582 — 16 hours ago

Sisters, what are your Biggest ICKS?

List both conventional and non-conventional ones. I'm giving you some common internet examples below to help you with your line of thought.

Example for Conventional Icks:

  1. Grows his nails too long
  2. Doesn't groom his beard
  3. Doesn't Pray 5 times
  4. Wants to split bills 50/50
  5. Has a bad sense of dressing

Example for NON-Conventional Icks:

  1. A man wearing a backpack
  2. A man using his hands to talk
  3. A man walking down a slope
  4. A man in bare feet or wearing slippers

For context; an ICK is defined as a sudden, loss of attraction, cringe or visceral feeling of disgust, toward someone

You may now begin commenting - make it a fun read 🍿

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u/Abu3azm — 1 day ago

Why Does Marriage Have to Wait Until Life Is Perfect?

I’m 24, and I genuinely feel ready for marriage.
One thing I hear a lot is, “This isn’t the perfect time. You’re still a student. How will you make enough money? You should wait until you’re fully established.”
I understand those concerns, but I also believe that rizq comes from Allah. Marriage is not only about finding someone after life becomes perfect. Sometimes it is about finding someone who is willing to build a life with you, trust you, support you, and grow with you.
Life will always have struggles, and I think there can be something beautiful about going through those struggles together in a halal marriage. If all I can afford today is to give my wife flowers, then I will give her flowers with love. And InshaAllah, when Allah gives me more one day, I will build her a whole garden.
I’m a student now, but I have goals, ambition, and faith in the future I’m working toward. If a woman believes in me while I am still building myself, then when I become successful, that success will be something we can enjoy together. I don’t want someone only for the finished version of my life I want a wife with whom I can build that life.
Especially living here, I see people my age partying, dating, having sex before marriage, and treating relationships casually. Sometimes seeing that around me makes the halal path feel more difficult, but I am trying to stay away from those things because I want something meaningful and pleasing to Allah. I know what I want from my life, and I believe, InshaAllah, that I will become successful one day.
I’m not looking for perfection or a particular nationality or culture. I’m open to women from all cultures and backgrounds, including reverts, whether they previously came from a Christian background or another background. What matters to me is faith, character, kindness, loyalty, communication, and genuinely wanting to build a peaceful and loving marriage.
Maybe I’m young, and maybe I don’t have everything yet. But I believe I’m ready to love someone, take responsibility, grow together, and build a beautiful halal life with my wife.
May Allah make marriage easy for everyone who sincerely wants to stay away from haram and build something beautiful in a halal way. Ameen.

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u/Shakil_8873 — 1 day ago

20F Seeking Marriage

Salam! Just to clarify for anyone who was confused, me and u/Necessary-Wear are two different people. I’m 20F, Ethiopian, 5’6, and currently living in North America. I was born and raised Muslim and am Sunni. I have my associate’s degree and am currently applying to nursing programs to pursue my BSN, inshaAllah. I’ve never been married and don’t have children. Ideally, I’m looking to get married within the next 1–2 years.

A little about me: I'm pretty straightforward, honest, and loyal. I'm definitely someone who loves to laugh, so having a similar sense of humor and being able to joke around with each other is important to me. I spend a lot of my time studying right now, but outside of school I love reading, watching shows and movies, photography, going on walks, and spending time with the people I'm close to.

I also really want to travel more. I've been wanting to use my school breaks to see new places, and eventually I'd love to have a husband who enjoys traveling and having new experiences together. I like being active and getting outdoors, but I definitely appreciate staying in and relaxing too. Also, I would absolutely love to have a cat someday, so being a cat person is definitely a plus.

Deen:

I'm Sunni, wear hijab, pray, and fast. I'm looking for someone who takes his deen seriously, consistently prays, and attends Jumu'ah. I'm looking for someone who has never been involved in zina, drinking, or drugs and who doesn't smoke.

I'm also only interested in a monogamous marriage and wouldn't be open to a second wife.

What I'm looking for:

Ideally, someone 21–25 and 5'10+, living in the U.S. or Canada. I'm completely open to different ethnicities as long as you're genuinely open to an interracial marriage and your family is supportive of it as well.

I'd like someone who's financially stable or actively working toward stability, wants children in the future, takes care of his health, and enjoys being active/outdoors. I also really value someone having his own hobbies and interests.

Personality-wise, I'm looking for someone honest, loyal, respectful, emotionally mature, and able to communicate. Someone I can laugh and joke around with while also being able to have serious conversations when needed would be ideal.

Ultimately, I want a marriage where we respect and support each other, grow together in our deen and as people, experience new things together, and build a peaceful life and family, inshaAllah.

Please only message if you're genuinely looking for marriage and think we're compatible. If you reach out, I'd appreciate an introduction with a similar amount of information about yourself. If anything becomes inappropriate or weird, I'll block.

Otherwise, I'm open to getting to know someone respectfully and seeing if we're compatible, inshaAllah.

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u/Conscious_Phrase_634 — 23 hours ago

25F

  1. Age and Gender

 

25F 5'6

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

 

24-29

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Illinois

Im not sure about relocation bc I want to stay close to my family and my life here, but I wouldn't mind doing long-distance for a bit.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

 

Pakistani, open to mixing

  1. Marital Status Single/Divorced/Children

Single, never married, no children

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

 

I don't have a timeline, but wouldn't want to rush or delay.

  1. What I'm looking for

Someone to be my best friend more than anything else

Someone respectful, kind, responsible, emotionally mature,  empathetic, open-minded, anddd it helps if youre tall+athletic 

That being said, I don't have a strict list of requirements. I think when you come to love someone all their characteristics become what you want.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

 

I wouldn't call myself religious, but at the same time being Muslim is a big part of my identity. I'm hijabi, I fast, eat halal, dont date/drink/smoke etc. I think the most important thing to being a good muslim is being good to others and that's what I strive to do.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

 

I went to college (psychology) for 2 years before I figured out what I actually want to do. I'm open to anything as long as you have a passion and a plan 

  1. Current Job Status

 

Coach and director at a women's only gym 

I love what I do and I hope to run my own place eventually.

  1. Do you want kids?

Idk if I want my own kids, I would rather adopt, there are already kids in the world who need a home.

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I have too many hobbies, and I'm always looking for more. Right now I love swimming laps or lifting weights at the gym. I started roller blading with a friend once a week. I also read a lot, bake sometimes, play chess, and I'm preetty good at drawing. My addiction to reading inspired me to start writing my own novel, but only when I'm in the mood lol 

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I have a black belt in taekwondo and one of my far-fetched dreams is to compete internationally.

Deal breakers: past relationships/drugs/alcohol, anger issues, misogynistic, controlling, rude

Feel free to dm your profile if you're interested 

Do not message me abt polygamy or anything inappropriate

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u/xPearl01 — 24 hours ago

29M - Somali British Looking for a spouse

Asalamu Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu, I hope you are well.

About me:

I would describe myself as a generous and kind person who always tries to see the good in everything. I enjoy staying active - playing basketball and going to the gym. I also enjoy learning and growing spiritually, and I hope to share a life with a partner who values her faith, family, and personal growth, and who can laugh and enjoy life along the way in shaa Allah.

What I'm looking for:

  • She should pray 5 times a day.
  • Observe hijab and dress modestly in accordance to the islamic guidelines.
  • Hasn't been in previous relationships - halal or haram. (I have kept myself pure and expect the same from my partner In Shaa Allah).
  • She should strive to learn and deepen her knowledge of Islam.
  • Prioritise her role as a wife and mother (though I'm open to her working part-time before we have children in shaa Allah).
  • Family-oriented, nurturing and supportive.
  • British Citizen
  • I would prefer to marry someone outside of my culture. I am open to Arab, North African, European, East Asian and others.

So yeah 😅 that's pretty much it. If you think we'd be a match then please don't hesitate to message me. If you can't message me on here for some reason then please let me know down below In Shaa Allah, barakallahu feek.

May Allah grant us righteous spouses ameen 🙏.

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u/CloudStrife_454 — 1 day ago

Are there no midsized men?

I am 5'4 150-160 pounds (it's fluctuates). So I am considered "midsize". I tried halfourdeen and hinge and didn't get much luck. Guys ignoring me :( I'm not looking for a 6+ gigachad high earners. Most guys I have swiped on have been 5'6 with average jobs, some even less earners than mine because a guy being kind empathetic and nice to me is the most important thing.

Yet I keep getting no matches :( Tbf it's been 2 days but if I am going to be hit with rejection hitting my self esteem how can I continue? I already struggle with depression.

I know for a fact that they are guys in my size range, so how come I see less of their profiles?? Where is my looksmatch??? Don't tell me midsized guys are not even going on the apps because those are my only hope for finding someone

As for the question of why don't I lose more weight, I did. I was 220 pounds 2 years ago. Also, and this is not to discourage anyone to not lose weight okay, but this is a fact majority of people who lose weight will gain atleast half of it back within the next 2-5 years. Especially if I get pregnant. So I don't want to get to 120 pounds, find a guy, then gain the weight back and he lose attraction to me. I'd rather just find someone who likes me at this current size.

What could the problem be? I wear size medium, I don't think I look that horrendous. I have pretty other features. The only thing I can think of is because of the weight loss I kind of have loose skin under my chin. Because of years of binge eating my teeth are a bit busted but not that much. I have other pretty features to compensate. Overall I am not ugly I would say but average-cute if one can ignore the chin and teeth. Idk are guys really that picky? Once again I am not going for a gigachad 10/10 model, I am going for really average looking guys.

Is it just the way half our deen/hinge is set up? What am I going to do? I don't have that many friends, my family is cold and mean, if I don't find love I will have a miserable existance. My eman isn't that great and therapy isn't that helpful. I need romantic love or it's over for me

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u/the_practicerLALA — 1 day ago

28 M Turkish from France looking for a wife

Selam aleykum everyone, this week I've quit Muzz & Inshallah (Muslim dating apps). Those apps just exhausted me and I was burnt out during my wife search.

So instead of swiping on profiles, I've decided to write down here my profile in order to try another way to find my life partner.

About me ;

  1. Age, Gender, Heigh and occupation: 28, Male, 183 cm, Project Manager in Construction
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20 – 34.
  3. Location and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Living in France. I'm willing to relocate.
  4. Nationality: French-Turkish
  5. Languages ; French, Turkish, English, German
  6. Marital Status: Single, never married, no kids.
  7. Ideal marriage timeline: Within a year InsAllah
  8. Religiosity - Sunni Muslim. : I'm doing my best on my daily practice and I'm willing to improve myself.
  9. What I'm looking for ;
  • Turkish womens, I'm also open to womens with the same turkic culture ; Azerbaijani, Gagauz, Iraqi & Syrian Turkmen, Turkmen, Balkan Turkic, Tatar, Uzbek, Uyghur, Kazakh, Kyrgyz, Bashkir
  • I would prefer that she wears the hijab but that's not mandatory
  • Someone empathetic, kindhearted, and open in her communication.
  • Someone motivated and drive to improve her connection with Allah.
  • I want her to have the freedom to work or focus on our home, depending on what she prefers.

I'm simple, calm, and looking for a serious, halal path to marriage. I value kindness, peace, and mutual respect. Open to respectful inquiries from sisters genuinely looking to settle down.

May Allah bless your search.

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u/ashailn — 19 hours ago

28m 6ft US/Kuwait based

Asalamu Alaikum! 👋🏽
I’m 28, 6’1”, born and raised in the US. I work as an AI Engineering Director for a tech company, but outside of work I’m basically a self-appointed MasterChef 👨🏽‍🍳😂
I love traveling, being adventurous, trying new things, and just making the most out of life. One weekend we could be exploring a new city and the next doing something completely random just because it sounded fun.
Fair warning, I fully believe in princess treatment 👑 I love planning fun activities and outings, cooking ridiculously good food, traveling, spoiling my loved ones, and making sure the people I care about feel appreciated. I already have a fun and exciting life, I’m just missing my princess to share it with.
My deen is also a big part of who I am and keeps me grounded. I pray 5x a day, read Quran, fast, don’t drink or smoke, and only eat zabihah. I try to enjoy everything Allah has blessed me with while still staying true to Islam.
I’m looking for marriage and someone who wants to build a beautiful Islamic life together while actually enjoying it too. Laugh a lot, eat really good food, travel the world, grow in our deen, and make a lot of great memories together.
So if you’re looking for a husband, travel partner, adventure buddy, personal chef, and full time princess treatment provider, maybe we should get to know each other 😂👑✈️

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u/Winter_Captain_142 — 1 day ago