u/ashailn

Selam aleykum everyone, this week I've quit Muzz & Inshallah (Muslim dating apps). Those apps just exhausted me and I was burnt out during my wife search.

So instead of swiping on profiles, I've decided to write down here my profile in order to try another way to find my life partner.

About me ;

1. Age, Gender, Heigh and occupation: 28, Male, 183 cm, Project Manager in Construction
2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 20 – 34.
3. Location and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Living in France. I'm willing to relocate.
4. Nationality: French-Turkish
5. Languages ; French, Turkish, English, German
6. Marital Status: Single, never married, no kids.
7. Ideal marriage timeline: Within a year InsAllah
8. Religiosity - Sunni Muslim. : I'm doing my best on my daily practice and I'm willing to improve myself.
9. What I'm looking for ;

• Turkish womens, I'm also open to womens with the same turkic culture ; Azerbaijani, Gagauz, Iraqi & Syrian Turkmen, Turkmen, Balkan Turkic, Tatar, Uzbek, Uyghur, Kazakh, Kyrgyz, Bashkir
• I would prefer that she wears the hijab but that's not mandatory
• Someone empathetic, kindhearted, and open in her communication.
• Someone motivated and drive to improve her connection with Allah.
• I want her to have the freedom to work or focus on our home, depending on what she prefers.

I'm simple, calm, and looking for a serious, halal path to marriage. I value kindness, peace, and mutual respect. Open to respectful inquiries from sisters genuinely looking to settle down.

May Allah bless your search.

Selam everyone!

I'm a 28M from France (Turkish, but born and raised here). As of today, I've decided to quit Muzz/Inshallah.

After spending months on the search endless getting-to-know-you phases, calls, video calls, profile checks, matches, and being ghosted, I've ended up with nothing except feeling exhausted and burnt out.

I don't want to get into long get-to-know-you phases anymore (especially not for 6+ months); I've had enough.

I really wanted to get married in my early 20s, but it just didn't happen. My parents and sister won't help me in my search, I don't have strong family ties on either side, and I don't have close friends. I've been seriously seeking a wife for the past 6 years, but I can't continue doing things this way.

Moving forward, I don't know how to proceed with my search. I don't have social media, and the one time I did use it to reach out to a sister for a halal getting-to-know process, she blocked me and gossiped about me across the whole local Turkish community. That gave me a bad reputation, even though I didn't say or do anything wrong.

I just wanted to vent and get this off my chest because I have no one else to talk to about it.

Elhamdulillah for everything, it's the time for me to retire.