u/Prestigious-Guava907

F 34, Lancashire. 🇧🇩 divorcee, no children. Open to all ethnicities.

Asalaaam Alaikum.

I hope this finds you in good health.

Ideal marriage timeline: 6-12 months, an intimate nikkah with close family and friends ideally.

Sunni, pray 5x a day and completed ummrah.

Open to having children.
I absolutely adore architecture, documentaries, travelling, swimming, cycling, board games, movies, trying new things and the list is endless.

I will try anything once even if i fear for my life (enter Ayatul Kursi).

I am a soft spoken, sweet feminine soul with a firecracker personality 🔥. I am chaotic and witty what's not to love! I am self-diagnosed ADHD, happy, positive, energetic, spontaneous.

5 ft 3, medium build, wear a hijab and dress fashionably modest
Fluent in English and Bangla.

*I am looking for a man that:*
Prays 5x a day and wants to continue to learn about Islam.
Covers his awrah
Has a beard
Funny and yearns for deep chats
Easy going, intelligent, adventurous, wants to stay young together.
Someone who wants to be a husband as much as I want to be a wife.
Also a man that wants a marrriage with traditional roles without rigidity.

**T&Cs apply: **
Up to age 41
British born.
Never married or divorced but must have no kids.
Should not consider taking a second wife.
Will live independently of family.

I am open to making Hijra and will relocate nationally.

Please only contact me if you meet the requirements and include this in your message. Preferably with your ISO.

Salaam, I hope you’re well.

I looked through the male ISOs for the first time, on the international thread.

I scrolled quite far down and didn’t come across one person that was either born or bred in the UK or grew up in the UK.

To clarify the person doesn’t have to be currently in the UK or want to live in the UK but I can’t imagine there are no Brits on these threads.

Do they exist or or am I looking in the wrong place?

I also found many profiles didn’t include the persons job title, or their education even though there was an educate bit included in the iso they posted. Same issue with height, whether they keep a beard or if they’d want to live alone.

All this information would be helpful and should be included because it’s just setting you back. I’m unlikely to message the person to ask.

Please advise,

May Allah keep you well.

Salaam Alaikum

I hope you’re well.

I have a question to those more knowledgeable than me.

Why does the Quran give men the option to marry a Christian or a Jewish woman when the scholars in the present day don’t encourage it?

I understand the reason why it’s not encouraged, examples being; the hurdles the couple will likely face in their relationship due to their religious differences as well as the impact it will have on the household, the upbringing of the children and so on.

Many would agree that marrying someone that has not been brought up with an Islamic upbringing or does not currently live a life via the Islamic teachings and Sunnah (reverts), you’re unlikely to live in harmony together.

I have seen many marriages where the man marries and Non-Muslim woman and the children grow up on a weak Islamic foundation with little influence from Islam in their way of life or renounce their faith altogether later in life.

I agree that many would say this likely wasn’t helped because maybe the father wasn’t a strong practicing Muslim himself and therefore the children possibly grew up with 1 vaguely non-practicing Muslim parent and another Non-Muslim altogether which impacted the household negatively.

On the other side I would be interested to know why a practicing Muslim man wouldn’t see marrying a Non-Muslim woman as a hindrance to his household. No matter how strong the father’s faith is and how much he leads his household, it is always the mother that has the most influence. If your father believes in the Sunnah’s of The Prophet PBUH and your mother doesn’t, how would those children really stand a chance in becoming good Muslim with strong faith.

As a woman putting myself into a man’s shoes, I cannot comprehend why I would risk living my life with a person that doesn’t believe as I do and further doesn’t believe in raising our children with the same principles I hold. To add, we would run the risk of our children turning away from both faiths altogether due to feelings of confusion and not belonging. How would I as a man be able to tell my children that Islam is the way of life when their own mother doesn’t agree.

My questions are:

1. Please provide clarity on why this was ordained and provides sources where possible and
2. Do you agree with scholars who discourage doing this? Please elaborate.
3. If you disagree with scholars, please elaborate.

I am strictly referring to marriages where the wife is a Christian or Jew and has not reverted to Islam.

Salaam Alaikum,

Jummah Mubarak to all. I hope you are well.

Bit of a rage bait title as I think it’s totally bizarre but I’m unsure of how accurate the leopard print fetish is with men.

Us women wear it because we like it, the colour and print can look really good when done well. Aka a nice skirt, blouse, hijab or heels is🔥.

Now would men have an issue with their wives wearing this with said perceived view of the print from a male perspective.

I genuinely do feel from a woman’s perspective as long as you’re dressed modestly aka figure not showing and skin not on display (hijab covered correctly) than a man will always look no matter what. Your duty is done from your part and the rest is on him.

Also please confirm or deny said males POV or elaborate further.

Jzk