u/LevelQuiet48

just dropping my Muzz bio below:

23 y/o Undergraduate, 5'4, pragmatic, selective, and overall a very passionate curious and fun person if we click.+ a little misfit in my generation as i’ve always had older company around

but on a serious note, for me… almost everything revolves around trying my best to link things in life w islam- which's the epitome of logic and reasoning for me, and i expect the same and more from my S/O. your 5 prayers should be like breathing to you, that's a non negotiable and the very basic. also i’ve cut down music to a great extent so i expect that too.

a (very small) snippet of what my dream guy looks like is as follows:

- normal Sunni following the Quran and Hadith, age 25-28, 5'9 or above, well built, Born and raised outside Pakistan
- someone whose heart is purely connected to the deen without the influence of any bid’ah/cultural practices+ having the willingness to instantly fix up any wrongly followed practice.
- someone who generally makes healthy nutritious/ life choices and has an ever evolving mindset
- having a smart/ witty/ sarcastic sense of humor (so he could get my elite jokes too)
- thinks deeply & philosophically, and is nerdy enough to teach me new things that i don’t already know (nothing surface level will suffice 🫡).
- authentic and honest. a LEADER.
- NO anger issues/ insensitivity, and calmness and kindness in his demeanour please

and to conclude… please recite the following, to be able to find your dream partner too, while having full faith in Allah:
رَبِِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

(23f) I'm not talking about the surface level 5 time pray-ers/ basic Quran and hadith knowledge holders. Those must be the fundamental areas of interest for any muslim man i seek. im referring to the people who've deeply integrated islam in their everyday lives.
Whenever i read about philosophy, neuroscience, psychology, etc. all i can relate it with are different islamic concepts and ideas. Even going over je\*ish*/ sat*\*nic "conspiracy" posts or things as such my mind instantly links it all with islamic eschatology. even when consuming spirituality/ manifestation content i know not to derail myself from the actual aim of praying only to Allah. I pick the good bits out of every single thing i consume while looking at it from an islamic lens even if it comes from another religion. I don't see that so often in the people around me. they tend to go deep down into bid'ah practices and beliefs completely forgetting to clock themselves back to their ultimate monotheistic aim. It may also be the reason im unable to find like minded individuals considering how everyone's part of the herd, and how they run on remaining stagnant. People are so lost in the flow of keeping up with trends, impressing other people, overconsumption etc. And the minimisation of that does not at all mean having a brokie mindset, but just knowing the limits.
I can barely find anyone who balances it all well, along with being a funny cool and interesting person with hobbies. I'm far from perfect myself and although seeking a religious man, tend to run away from the typical mufti mindset myself, but that IS the exact problem! they're either heavily misguided or religiously extreme.
I'd love to know if im not the only one feeling this exact mental isolation. i know many would claim to be experiencing the same while being half awake and aware themselves, but id really like to know how the actual deep thinkers out there are handling this struggle when trying to find a rishta. what sort of requirements do y'all put upfront appropriately around intellect/ curiosity when making that biodata? 😭😵‍💫 and how's the experience been like so far??

(23f) I'm not talking about the surface level 5 time pray-ers/ basic Quran and hadith knowledge holders. Those must be the fundamental areas of interest for any muslim man i seek. im referring to the people who've deeply integrated islam in their everyday lives.
Whenever i read about philosophy, neuroscience, psychology, etc. all i can relate it with are different islamic concepts and ideas. Even going over je*ish*/ sat**nic "conspiracy" posts or things as such my mind instantly links it all with islamic eschatology. even when consuming spirituality/ manifestation content i know not to derail myself from the actual aim of praying only to Allah. I pick the good bits out of every single thing i consume while looking at it from an islamic lens even if it comes from another religion. I don't see that so often in the people around me. they tend to go deep down into bid'ah practices and beliefs completely forgetting to clock themselves back to their ultimate monotheistic aim. It may also be the reason im unable to find like minded individuals considering how everyone's part of the herd, and how they run on remaining stagnant. People are so lost in the flow of keeping up with trends, impressing other people, overconsumption etc. And the minimisation of that does not at all mean having a brokie mindset, but just knowing the limits.
I can barely find anyone who balances it all well, along with being a funny cool and interesting person with hobbies. I'm far from perfect myself and although seeking a religious man, tend to run away from the typical mufti mindset myself, but that IS the exact problem! they're either heavily misguided or religiously extreme.
I'd love to know if im not the only one feeling this exact mental isolation. i know many would claim to be experiencing the same while being half awake and aware themselves, but id really like to know how the actual deep thinkers out there are handling this struggle when trying to find a rishta. what sort of requirements do y'all put upfront appropriately around intellect/ curiosity when making that biodata? 😭 and how's the experience been like so far??

(23f) I'm not talking about the surface level 5 time pray-ers/ basic Quran and hadith knowledge holders. Those must be the fundamental areas of interest for any muslim man i seek. im referring to the people who've deeply integrated islam in their everyday lives.
Whenever i read about philosophy, neuroscience, psychology, etc. all i can relate it with are different islamic concepts and ideas. Even going over je\*ish*/ sat*\*nic "conspiracy" posts or things as such my mind instantly links it all with islamic eschatology. even when consuming spirituality/ manifestation content i know not to derail myself from the actual aim of praying only to Allah. I pick the good bits out of every single thing i consume while looking at it from an islamic lens even if it comes from another religion. I don't see that so often in the people around me. they tend to go deep down into bid'ah practices and beliefs completely forgetting to clock themselves back to their ultimate monotheistic aim. It may also be the reason im unable to find like minded individuals considering how everyone's part of the herd, and how they run on remaining stagnant. People are so lost in the flow of keeping up with trends, impressing other people, overconsumption etc. And the minimisation of that does not at all mean having a brokie mindset, but just knowing the limits.
I can barely find anyone who balances it all well, along with being a funny cool and interesting person with hobbies. I'm far from perfect myself and although seeking a religious man, tend to run away from the typical mufti mindset myself, but that IS the exact problem! they're either heavily misguided or religiously extreme.
I'd love to know if im not the only one feeling this exact mental isolation. i know many would claim to be experiencing the same while being half awake and aware themselves, but id really like to know how the actual deep thinkers out there are handling this struggle when trying to find a rishta. what sort of requirements do y'all put upfront appropriately around intellect/ curiosity when making that biodata? 😭😵‍💫 and how's the experience been like so far??

any spooky historical lowkey niche places to visit ? i'm talking things like the freemasons lodge etc.