u/BeginningHat1175

Looking for Understanding, Support & Perhaps the Right Person
I wanted to share something personal here, hoping to find some support, understanding, and perhaps even someone who is willing to share this journey with me.
I’m 33 years old, an accountant, Palestinian Arab and Muslim, and I currently live in Israel. I’m also gay, and I’ve been in a loving relationship with my European boyfriend, who lives abroad, for the past seven years. We love each other deeply, but when it comes to having children, we have very different visions for the future.
He would prefer to have children through surrogacy, while I’ve always imagined becoming a father through a lavender marriage/co-parenting arrangement with a woman who genuinely understands and is comfortable with the idea that the relationship would be platonic. My hope is to build a respectful co-parenting relationship where we can both have our own partners and lives, while creating a loving and stable environment for our children.
Lately, I’ve been feeling quite sad and discouraged because I’ve encountered a lot of judgment around my situation:
I’m judged for living in Israel, even though I don’t have another citizenship or simply the option to relocate whenever I want.
I’m judged for being gay.
I’m judged for wanting to become a parent through a non-traditional family arrangement.
I’ve encountered people who see the situation financially and ask for extremely unrealistic amounts of money, sometimes even €1 million, rather than genuinely looking for a family arrangement.
I’ve also met people in similar situations who are primarily looking for a way to leave their home country or get married temporarily, rather than genuinely wanting to build a long-term co-parenting relationship.
All of this has made me lose hope at times. I genuinely want to become a father, but I also want to remain honest about who I am and maintain a life where everyone involved is respected and free to have their own relationships.
I’m not looking for someone to judge me or tell me that my idea is wrong. I’m simply hoping to meet kind, open-minded and emotionally mature people who understand that families can look different and that what matters most is creating a loving, stable and respectful environment for the children.
If anyone has gone through something similar, knows someone who has, or simply wants to share some support or advice, I would really appreciate hearing from you.
And perhaps, somewhere along the way, I might even meet the right person who wants to share this journey with me. ❤️

I’m a 33-year-old Palestinian accountant, currently based in Israel, and I’m open and willing to relocate to the UK.
I’m looking for a meaningful and respectful lavender marriage with a woman who shares a similar outlook on family, commitment, and life. My goal is to build a genuine family environment based on trust, mutual respect, companionship, and shared values, while also allowing each of us the freedom to have our own personal lives and boundaries.
I believe such an arrangement can work beautifully when both people are honest, mature, supportive of one another, and genuinely committed to creating a stable and loving family environment. For me, the wellbeing and future of our family would always be the priority.
I’m financially stable, career-oriented, and serious about building my future in the UK. I’m hoping to meet someone who understands this kind of relationship and is looking for something similarly respectful, sincere, and mutually beneficial.

I’m a 33-year-old Palestinian accountant, currently based in Israel, and I’m open and willing to relocate to the UK.
I’m looking for a meaningful and respectful lavender marriage with a woman who shares a similar outlook on family, commitment, and life. My goal is to build a genuine family environment based on trust, mutual respect, companionship, and shared values, while also allowing each of us the freedom to have our own personal lives and boundaries.
I believe such an arrangement can work beautifully when both people are honest, mature, supportive of one another, and genuinely committed to creating a stable and loving family environment. For me, the wellbeing and future of our family would always be the priority.
I’m financially stable, career-oriented, and serious about building my future in the UK. I’m hoping to meet someone who understands this kind of relationship and is looking for something similarly respectful, sincere, and mutually beneficial.

Seeking Guidance on Relocating to the UK – Accounting Career
Hi everyone,
I’m 33 years old and hold a Bachelor’s degree in Business and Accounting from Israel. I’m currently looking to relocate to the UK and build my professional career there, preferably within accounting, finance, or a related field.
I have been actively searching for opportunities on LinkedIn, particularly positions that offer Skilled Worker visa sponsorship, but I have found it quite challenging to identify suitable opportunities.
I’m also planning to pursue the ACCA qualification to strengthen my professional profile and improve my opportunities within the UK accounting market.
I would really appreciate any advice or guidance from people who have experience with:
• Relocating to the UK as an international accounting professional
• Finding employers willing to sponsor Skilled Worker visas
• Starting an accounting career in the UK with an overseas degree
• Whether pursuing ACCA would significantly improve my chances
• Recruitment agencies or companies that are experienced in international recruitment
I’m serious about relocating and willing to invest the necessary time and effort to establish my career in the UK.
If anyone has experience in this area or could point me in the right direction, I would be extremely grateful.
Thank you in advance for any advice or guidance.

I’m looking for a woman who understands our mentality and is open-minded about building a family in a modern and mutually respectful way.
I’m bisexual, although I’m predominantly gay, and I’m currently in a long-distance relationship with my male partner. My goal is to eventually marry a woman, have children, and build a loving and stable family together.
I believe that, with honesty, trust, and clear boundaries, both partners can have the freedom to fulfill their personal and emotional needs while maintaining a respectful marriage. Most importantly, any children we have would always be our first priority, and we would work together to provide them with a loving, secure, and supportive family environment.
A little about me:
I’m 33 years old, financially stable, and currently living in Israel. I’m Palestinian and open-minded, and I’m willing to relocate anywhere in Europe for the right person and circumstances.
I’m hoping to meet someone mature, understanding, and genuinely interested in building a family based on trust, respect, friendship, and mutual understanding.

i’m an accountant 33 years old. I live in Haifa. financially stable. looking for a female that we can build a strong friendship and make a family together. i’m handsome taking care of myself eating healthy and attending gym often.

i’m bi sexual palestinian 33 years old accountant living in the west bank.
my idea of Lavender marriage is

1. mutual respect
2. having an honest relationship where we can both be ourselves.
3. grow together and have kids.
4. enjoy each others company without forcing it.

so if you are open minded please address me or if you know anyone than refer him to me.

hello everyone

i have been struggling finding a bi sexual partner im from Palestine, i am living in Haifa, i want a female partner that is open minded and if she is bi sexual it is a big plus.

im looking to care love and make our own family whereas we both are coming clean about our sexual needs, i am financially stable, im 33 years old and i work as an accountant.
hit me up if you are the one or if you know anyone.

Hi everyone,

I’m a gay 33-year-old man from Palestine, religious, currently living in Haifa. I’m posting here because I’m looking for the possibility of a lavender marriage, but one that goes beyond being just a cover.

While discretion and social cover are part of the reality, what I truly want is a healthy, respectful marriage based on friendship, trust, and mutual understanding. Ideally, this would be with someone I could genuinely share life with, possibly living together long-term as companions and partners in daily life, even if not romantically involved.

I’m open to a wife who is open to relocate.

I value honesty, emotional maturity, clear communication, and realistic expectations. I’m not religious and would prefer someone similar, but mutual respect matters more than identical backgrounds.

I’m not rushing into anything. I’d want time to talk, understand each other’s needs, and make sure this arrangement feels healthy and fair for both sides.

If this resonates with you and you’re interested in a serious, thoughtful conversation, feel free to comment or message me.

if you are located in palestine or serbia and would like to have a lavender marriage hit me up
im a bi sexual male, educated, good looking, financially stable, and looking for my female bi sexual partner with the same qualities.

33 years old arab male, looking for a bi sexual female for marriage to build a family yet respect each other sexuality, and to have healthy environment hit me up if you are serbian female who would like the same.

arab palestinian living in Haifa looking for a educated bi sexual female looking in building a family and respecting our sexuality and needs please hit me up if your are looking for the same and you in the same region.

i’m a bi sexual arab palestinian living in Haifa looking for lavender marriage where we can build our own family in a safe environment and be very open about our sexual needs.

whoever is interested dm me i’m stable in all terms.

Hi everyone,

I’m a gay 33-year-old man from Palestine, religious, currently living in Haifa. I’m posting here because I’m looking for the possibility of a lavender marriage, but one that goes beyond being just a cover.

While discretion and social cover are part of the reality, what I truly want is a healthy, respectful marriage based on friendship, trust, and mutual understanding. Ideally, this would be with someone I could genuinely share life with, possibly living together long-term as companions and partners in daily life, even if not romantically involved.

I’m open to a wife who is in Palestine only.

I value honesty, emotional maturity, clear communication, and realistic expectations. I’m not religious and would prefer someone similar, but mutual respect matters more than identical backgrounds.

I’m not rushing into anything. I’d want time to talk, understand each other’s needs, and make sure this arrangement feels healthy and fair for both sides.

If this resonates with you and you’re interested in a serious, thoughtful conversation, feel free to comment or message me.

Hi everyone,

I’m a gay 33-year-old man from Palestine, religious, currently living in Haifa. I’m posting here because I’m looking for the possibility of a lavender marriage, but one that goes beyond being just a cover.

While discretion and social cover are part of the reality, what I truly want is a healthy, respectful marriage based on friendship, trust, and mutual understanding. Ideally, this would be with someone I could genuinely share life with, possibly living together long-term as companions and partners in daily life, even if not romantically involved.

I’m open to a wife who is in Palestine only.

I value honesty, emotional maturity, clear communication, and realistic expectations. I’m not religious and would prefer someone similar, but mutual respect matters more than identical backgrounds.

I’m not rushing into anything. I’d want time to talk, understand each other’s needs, and make sure this arrangement feels healthy and fair for both sides.

If this resonates with you and you’re interested in a serious, thoughtful conversation, feel free to comment or message me.