Anyone else feel like they just missed the boat at some point on being an adult?
I feel like everyone in their 40s at the very least has a good career. I have a job. It pays the bills. But it’s the same job I could have had if I skipped college and was in my 20s. Could probably get promoted if really tried, but have no great desire to really try. Was married. Now divorced. Probably never own a home again. Just don’t feel like a real adult. Don’t care about politics. All my interests are same I had 20 and 30 years ago before ever married. Like good tv shows and movies. Collect physical media (cds, dvds). And last few years been collecting nostalgic type toys like Hot Wheels, Transformers, Legos, etc. All this might be fine if I was in early 20s, but I’m in late 40s. And then I also worry if any woman going to be attracted to a guy like me at this point. I mean, I’m a nice guy, just not very impressive at all. And it just feels like whatever other people got at some point in their life to have ambition and want to improve their life, I just never got. I am too okay with being content. Anyone else have this problem?