How do I (20m) end it with a friend (20f) who hasn't done anything?
I (20m) have a friend (20f) that I have known since high school. We were close up until graduation, but after I went away to college, we have drifted apart a lot.
When I come home for school breaks, we hang out, but I always find it really awkward. I have changed a lot, where she has not, and we really have nothing in common anymore. The conversation always goes dry. She also makes derogatory jokes towards me often when we hang out, and generally seems uninterested when the conversation centers around anything happening in my life.
Generally, our friendship just doesn't seem that great when we hang out. However, I don't think she feels the same way, because she texts me a lot, both when I am away at school, and when I am home on break. To be completely honest, I don't typically reply to her texts. I will admit fault for being a bad texter with friends. I always take a long time to reply, regardless of who it is, but when this specific friend texts me, I just never want to reply. I also haven't texted her first in a really long time.
I really want to end this friendship. We have not hung out in months but she still texts me a lot. I just don't know how to cut it off without making it awkward. She has not done anything wrong. In my opinion, we have just drifted apart, but I don't think she feels the same.
How do I end this friendship maturely without making it incredibly awkward or hurting her feelings?
TLDR: I (20m) have a friend (20f) that I just don't get along with anymore. I want to end the friendship but she hasn't done anything wrong. However, she seems very interested in still being friends. How do I end it without hurting her feelings or making it awkward?