He's a journeyman electrician but when we met he was still in his 5th year of apprenticeship. I grew up with two hard working parents, I've been working since I was 15 (younger if you count babysitting from the time I was 10).
I was attracted to the blue collar type and I loved how he was going to school and his hobbies.
We didn't start living together until after our first year of dating and during that year, I'd make his lunch and get his stuff ready for the next day. I got pregnant after our 4th year of being together and even when I was about to give birth, he'd expect me to make his lunches and satisfy him and he'd throw tantrums if I didn't.
TLDR: Throughout our entire relationship he'd miss work because of his mental health and after we had our baby, we'd have many instances where we we weren't going to be able to make rent (We lived in NYC so as you can imagine rent was super high). I moved us to Mexico to be close to my family and so we could live off of his disability but he now refuses to go to work even though we're barely scraping by. How do I motivate him to go to work? I'm doing side hustles but I don't want to leave our home unattended because I'm mainly the one who takes care of everything. (I used to work in IT and I miss my job so much!)