This is my[16F] Messages to the world and i am very annoyed when ppl tell me to break up with my bf[M15] who i have been with for 6 months
so, i know we are very young but that has nothing to do with this,
i posted a post on movie suggestions bc i had a problem with my feelings but not bc my bf did smth wrong but that rrly Doesn’t matter. When i asked for the movie i wro„Movies about losing motivation because of your partner not being proud
i meant It in a way that i know its not his type of music and Vocal not my Voice, he loves my Voice and he neper said anything bad abt my vocal i just know its not his type just like i don’t like hc punk vocal(growl) which is his favourite. in the replies many ppl were like: just break up with him, what a dickhead etc. and it rrly made me mad bc 1. i asked for movie sugestiom not life advice from strangers 2. even IF he hated my vocal and voice it would be no reason to break up and it just tears me Apart how far away from love ppl are these days.
There is such a terible narrative that if someone makes a mistake you should already break up, that men are stupid, that women are cheaters, that you will never be understood by a different person and all of that is just to make ppl more horible towards eachother and unhappy and easier to lead, love is naturally the most important thing in the world, it is the number one thing that makes ppl happy, sad, angry, it is the thing that makes us feel, it is what mskes us live and expierience and that kind of narrative „just leave her/him its too much effort” is so horible and we have to stop listening to crap like that, just cause someone made a mistake does not mean they don’t deserve love, just because you had an argument does not mean you should break up.
Another thing ppl don’t understand is that when you’re in a Healthy relationship (like mine) your partner is not only your crush and lover but also your best friend and a real PARTNER
My boyfriend is literally my best friend bc there are thing only he will ever understand bc he is my soulmate( you can say that im to young to say that but you know nothing about us so just Watch me as i write in 20 years that we are still together) we are the same but also perfectly different and we are both rrly good ppl with the same amount of bad in our hearts. We both have adhd and we both are not yet perfect partners and we will never be but we will get better and thats what matters.
if my friend told me to break up with him i would rather break the friendship with them bc i feel better and more liked and loved around him anyway.
i rlly feel like ppl Lost their hope in love, but there is always a chance for love, even in the darkest places. Ppl need to go back to more natural living on intuition not ego, standards, opinions, ppl need to start listening to themselves and what makes them happy and not what others tell them. we need to get together again or maybe for the Firslime because we are starting to get very weak.
and Please don’t give ppl bad energy about ppl they love most, for me when someone insults my bf its just like they insulted me bc WE ARE LIFE PARTNERS there is no „you„ or „me„ we are all ppl there is only ”we”, we are made to live with other ppl not judge their mistakes and if their worthy of love. i wish all ppl on earth to never lose hope and Find partners and friends as good as my best friend and partner.