u/ConstructionLegal306

▲ 17 r/autism

I prefer being alone, watching TV series, and making recipes... I had a fight with my boyfriend about this, because we went to the beach house and I said I'd stay home today instead of going to the beach with his friends because I'm bored there. Yesterday I went and spent the afternoon(3 hours) waiting for him to play with them while I was hot and bored.

I was with two girls while he was playing volleyball with his friends, but they wanted to sunbathe in silence or have casual conversations. He told me he can't handle knowing I'm home alone, and that we could arrange for him to spend an hour with his friends and an hour with me. I feel really wrong, but I feel like I'm wasting my time when I'm there with them.

I only like going out with people if we have interesting conversations, if I feel like the other person cares about me and wants to really listen. In fact, I like going out with my boyfriend alone or with two of my friends.

I don't want to know who's right, I wrote this post only because I feel overwhelmed and would like some understanding, to know if this happens to you too.

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u/ConstructionLegal306 — 19 days ago