sorry if im posting too fast too much here (2 posts in total) but theres something that crossed my mind.
I have a trans family member whos long cut off my family for being unsupportive, but I do know a few of his socials (said family told me, theyre being creepy unfortunately. :/). I want to reach out but I don’t want to cross boundaries or make him think im looking for information to tell said unsupportive family. Should I approach him for help/advice and if so how do i start a conversation?
i also dont wanna make him uncomfortable because we have a huge age difference and adults usually arent comfortable with minors dming them.
Also, I dont really know how to explain to him that i know hes my cousin. Do you think it would be useful to let him know our unsupportive family knows his socials???