30(M) and my wife 28(F) 4 months into marriage but feels lonely
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I got married 4 months back. It is arranged marriage. I am introvert and don't talk much. My wife talks a lot. Before marriage it looks like a good match, there are minor differences there but both the families told it would be there and I don't want to cancel the marriage because of minor differences.
I loved my wife and wanted her to be happy. The initial few days were fine, everything looks good. I work in corporate and go to office daily. After coming back also I have some work left. She doesn't want to work and it's ok for me. She does cook and clean the house. During spare time she read the book, watches reels and movies I feel she gets bored sitting at home alone but she tells me she is fine.
She doesn't come to movies, small outings or lunch outside. But she wants I should be available emotionally for her. I tried to be available to her, but she talks about any small mistakes I did in phone to her family and friends, so I got frustrated and started spending time on myself.
She talks like she wants 100 percent of me to agree to every thing she says,and if I do that she will take care of me. I don't agree to certain points while talking, she gets angry because of that. She didn't ask how I am doing or how is my work after marriage. I ask her every day how is she doing and everything ok and all.
I am kind of a logical person when it comes to spending that is how I grew up and think once while buying any items. But whatever she asked, I didn't ask her why it is required and all. But I don't know why she feels I am not spending money on her. For some big items(>10k) to purchase it got delayed a week or 2 because of some reason. She tells I am kanjoos and tells me at her home if any thing she ask, she was getting next day only. We went to honeymoon and during that time she keeps on getting angry for small things. I don't know what to do and how to make her happy
She reads some english romantic novels and tell her friend in phone that that guy did this and that for his girlfriend. She compares me with all her friend and family relatives and what they do for their wife every time we talk. I once told her about how tough one of my relative is and how she handles work and home, i shouldn't have tell that, I didn't want to compare and it was just normal talk we were doing but she thinks I am comparing and tells it you compare with them everytime we talk on some thing