I (43F) am new to this whole DOL world. I have been texting a match on the app only at this point. But I am curious about a couple of things/unwritten rules . I know the apps are for getting to know different people to see who you make a good match with. That being said, is there a way to ask how many people that person is getting to know? How long do people text on the app before exchanging numbers? I guess the broad answer is "whenever you feel comfortable". But is there more to it than just that? I expect that is how finding someone works. And is there a decent number of different people that people date during the getting to know others phase without coming off as a player?
This may be a ridiculous post to make but I am curious.
EDIT: Thanks for the responses! I have found these comments have been helpful at shedding some light on this form of dating. It’s a learning curve for sure.