u/ContentBenefit8260

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What actually fixed your inability to retain what you studied?

I’m struggling with retention and I’m trying to figure out whether my study method is the problem or if this is something that improves with practice.

My biggest issue is that I can understand a topic while studying it and feel like I know it, but when I come back to it a few days later, a lot of it feels unfamiliar again. I can usually follow solved examples, but when I’m given an unfamiliar question, I struggle to figure out how to approach it.

It’s especially frustrating because sometimes I spend hours studying something, feel confident that I understood it, and then realize during revision that I barely remember the details.

For people who used to have this problem and actually fixed it:

What specifically changed things for you?

Was it active recall, spaced repetition, solving more questions, revising differently, teaching the material, making shorter notes, changing how often you revised, or something else?

I’m not expecting generic advice like “study harder” or “revise more.” I’d love to hear what your problem was, what you changed and how long it took before you noticed a difference.

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u/ContentBenefit8260 — 9 days ago

Would you marry someone who has never had sex but has made out with someone before?

I’m 23F, curious about something, especially from people who strongly prefer dating someone with little or no sexual experience.

Suppose you meet someone you really like (specifically about the arranged-marriage context) and find out that they have never had sex, but they have made out with someone before and had some physical intimacy (kissing, cuddling, etc).

Would that still be considered a clean or acceptable past to you, or would you specifically prefer someone who has never done anything physical/romantic with anyone?

Assuming everything else about the person is good and you’re looking for a serious relationship, would their previous making out matter to you?

Would that be a dealbreaker for you?

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u/ContentBenefit8260 — 1 month ago