r/AskIndianMen

Before any judgement comes through, I'm not supporting or challenging any practices or incidents happening around.

I'm just curious about how people see the difference between these two behaviours - approaching someone for a FWB / hookup VS asking for sexual favours from a colleague or person whom you are hiring for a particular work.

Is the attitude of bartering sexual favours for work & recognition the only differentiating factor here?

22F here. I was talking to a guy about a year ago and we genuinely liked each other, but things didn’t work out. I’ve since moved to another city for my master’s and moved on emotionally.

A few days ago, I found out he had been talking to three girls at the same time and was never serious about any of us. I know I missed the signs, but finding that out still hurt badly.

I’ve always been someone who dates with serious intentions, but this experience has made me question whether I’ll ever be able to trust someone new without wondering if they’re secretly manipulating me.

I also understand now why some people become hesitant to date after being hurt.

For those of you who’ve experienced something similar: how did you learn to trust again without becoming cynical about everyone you meet?

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I've been struggling with a habit for a long time that I really want to fix. Whenever I converse with women, I find it extremely difficult to maintain steady eye contact. My gaze involuntarily shifts towards their chest/body instead of their face.

I feel a lot of guilt and embarrassment because of this, and I genuinely want to respect the people around me and improve my social behavior.

I have been working out constantly since February. hitting goals. sleeping properly. also i haven’t had sex since February. But since last month i have a feeling my dick has become smaller. idk why. does anyone know?

Hello 23 M here . My bestfriend F 23 just told me that everthing between us has ended because his bf has a problem with me over some fake stories
She just told me ki i can’t hurt him and they were having fights whenever she would defend me in front of him
We were not talking for the last 1.5 months and i called her to wish her for her bday but she just talked to me rudely and ended it .
In the last 5 months there were too much fight between us because i told her that i had feelings for her she took it normally but i have a feeling that i was forcing her to come into relationship with me
I just need to know should i leave her at her own peace?

Who is considered average? i've seen numerous posts regarding someones life or being insecure about something one thing that remains constant is I AM A AVG LOOKING GUY. So who is considered an avg guy?

Physical traits

Parents said if I pass my important professional exam (November), they’ll give me ₹1.5 lakh to spend on whatever I want. Results come in January and my birthday is just 2 days after the exam, so it’s basically a big reward + birthday gift combo.

I’m currently on a break and this is pure motivation fuel for me.

Already decided on these:

2 watches → ₹15k total

2 pairs of Nike shoes → ₹20k

Clothes → ₹30k

That’s ₹65k locked in. Leaves me with around ₹85k still.

Please don’t suggest studying harder or investing the money — already have investments sorted and I just want fun spending ideas.

What would you guys buy/spend on with the remaining ₹85k?

Or if it was your 1.5L reward, how would you allocate the whole thing?

Looking for actual purchase ideas (gadgets, experiences, travel, whatever). Drop your suggestions!

No iphone or laptop ideas already got one

Like they do they know how brutal japanese and koreans are when it comes to committing crimes against their women. Or even pakistanis. Yet you will never see them go to see them seek western validatiom or cry infront of them. Yeah korea has 4b but they dont try to seek white feminist validation for it. They do it for themselves. Its like indian women love being romanticised as a victim and wanting to get saved by some disney prince which have been white historically which i am not complaining about. But you have to wonder if they really want to improve things or wanna stay in constant cycle of victim syndrome so that they can get feel validate westerners. When best they do i am sorry for you online kek

I am a 15M in 10th grade rn so yk n js started out

My parents wanted me to start only with a trainer and till now tht guy basically has been making me do 45mins-1 hour fir 6 days a week

3 days cardio n rest 3 days weights

Kinda skeptical abt the 6 days thing but in a week how much time

I'm a 24 yo Asian woman (Chinese-Indonesian). For the past few months, I've realized that I've been attracted a lot to Indian men. I occasionally go to Bali and KL where it's very touristic and I've been on dates with several Indian men. Nevertheless, from those dates, I've realized that, India has such a family-centric tradition and usually their family will prefer them to marry Indian women too. I feel sad knowing that I go on dates with them just as a short fling and never as someone they will consider into marrying. My question is, is it possible for me to marry into India culture?

Hi fellas,
Whenever i see a stranger girl it feels like i am being creepy . I have seen videos where they say to look for 3 seconds and then smile but i can't smile as i don't know the stranger.

few queries :

1. how to make the eye contact without being creepy person
2. how will i know i made a eye contact
3. how will the girl respond in her body language if she is interested or if she finds its creepy

please give your suggestions on these.

i am currently enerting my 3rd year of btech and even though trying i haven't done things i should have i wasted my first mourining my father deathe which happened before joining my college and during my 2nd year i tried to do many things becuase of fear of being behined, tried to start dsa and left it many times and cyvbersecurity, machinbe learning joined a robobtics club, but wasn't able to do anthing propely, but somehow able to learn java, i thougt during i will utilize my holidays fully, but i haven't done the things i thought i will do, i am really dissaapointed and ashamed of myself, now matter how much try i can't stay consistent. knowing myself and my ability tyo work, i overload my todo list and then get depresssed and prcastinate days due to regert, it's been 2 weeks i haven't studied dsa and stuff and since a week that i have worked on my project, during this week i have only doomscrolled, watched movies and porn(i am really ashamed of it), i am really ashamed myself, no matter how much i try to improve i can't shake my minds from the regerets of mistakes. It's not like I don't like cs or programming, i have also found my interest (low-level programming), but i have to do it as a hobby because I won't get a job i don't want to be a loser i don't want to unmployed, i am 21, but life feels like it's over. i want to work hard and prove myself, but the constant regret is killing me

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I'm a straight guy who too wants girls' attention and wants girls to approach me, but instead I get gay guys' attention. Like yesterday, I was at the Chandigarh railway station bus stop and a gay guy was standing right beside me and giving me looks, like secretly looking at me. I felt uncomfortable asf. Those looks and body language were all over. After some time, he somehow reached me and asked for some help about bus routes to Zirakpur, when the whole bus stop was already filled with people. I helped tho.

There is also this guy who is secretly gay keep on commenting how i got a preety face

I'm not homophobic in any way, but is there anything in me that gives them those vibes? I'm quite confused.

I am kind of new to shaving so I wanted to know

Right now I use a 3 blade razor( to tedious and can't seem to get a clean shave ) but i heard people say that they use an electric trimmer too

If yes which one ? ( To get a clean shave)

I came across one of the double edge shavers the one you use a blade for ( should i switch to that)

Right now thinking of a Philips one blade razor

Should I buy something else