u/Rational_bakchod

In middle class context and from your own experience only

Men of the sub, what are your experiences with both types of women, and what expectations do they have of you? Middle class only.

They’ll harass my parents if I say a straight-up no. Some can’t even take a hint and will call again after a year.

Even when I clearly say no, they’ll try to tell my parents, “Your child doesn’t listen to you,” just because the girl was good-looking. My parents did taunt me about it sometimes, but they also understood that I simply didn’t like her.

In a recent case where I said no, someone from the girl’s side kept trying to convince my mother to consider her because “the family is good.” They were saying things like, “You won’t get a family like this again,” and even started harassing my mother in the middle of the road, despite me clearly saying no.

One thing I really appreciate about my parents, though, is that even if they disagree with me sometimes, they don’t force or pressure me. They understand that when I say no, I have my reasons.

I always see guys here saying that higher-earning women don't send rishtas , or that rishtas always come from women who earn less.

​I wonder how true this actually is. In my experience, about 30% of the rishtas I received were from high-earning women.

However, they were average to below average in terms of looks. Do other guys also receive proposals like this and end up saying no because of appearance?

​I rarely see anyone talking about this,people usually just complain about not getting matches at all. I wanted to check whether my experience is unique or if it's the same for most of you

WORKOUT PLAN — 6 DAYS/WEEK

DAY 1 — PULL

Lat Pulldown — 3 × 8–12 — 1–2 RIR

Chest-Supported Row — 3 × 8–12 — 1–2 RIR

Single-Arm Shrug — 2 × 10–15 — 1–2 RIR

Face Pull — 2 × 12–15 — 1–2 RIR

Cable Bar Curl — 2 × 8–12 — 0–1 RIR

Single-Arm Cable Hammer Curl — 2 × 10–12 — 0–1 RIR

DAY 2 — PUSH + CORE

Barbell Bench Press — 3 × 6–8 — 1–2 RIR

Incline Dumbbell Press — 3 × 8–12 — 1–2 RIR

Cable Lateral Raise — 3 × 10–15 — 1–2 RIR

Single-Arm Overhead Cable Triceps Extension — 2 × 10–12 — 0–1 RIR

Cable Pushdown — 2 × 10–12 — 0–1 RIR

Ab Crunch Machine — 2 × 10–15 — 0–1 RIR

Plank — 2 × 30–60 sec

DAY 3 — LEGS

Squat — 2 × 6–10 — 2 RIR

RDL — 2 × 8–10 — 2 RIR

Bulgarian Split Squat — 2 × 8–12 — 1–2 RIR

Leg Extension — 2 × 10–15 — 0–1 RIR

Leg Curl — 2 × 10–15 — 0–1 RIR

Standing Calf Raise — 2 × 8–12 — 0–1 RIR

Seated Calf Raise — 2 × 12–20 — 0–1 RIR