r/ChildfreeIndia

Santuary or purgatory? Everyone wants quite until they're left with their thought.

The basics: 29F / Architect / Hyderabad / Telugu / Non smoker / Pet sister / Clean eater (mostly :P)

Skipping the usual generic dating bio fluff to give you an honest look into my world. I’m all about being completely upfront, so here is a bit about how I spend my days and what my ideal partner looks like.

A few things about me and how I actually spend my days:

My current routine: I freelance, with a couple of projects in my docket currently and help take care of the family business. I love the freedom and flexibility this setup offers but the lack of a rigid schedule bothers me sometimes. Might transition back to a regular 9-5, still debating the pros and cons.

The faith approach: I am a practicing Hindu, but definitely not the blindly ritualistic kind. I am the type who reads, questions, and deeply understands the philosophy behind a ritual before adopting it. I am open to dating someone who's atheist or agnostic, as long as there is genuine mutual respect and space to do my own thing.

Finances: Currently living a lean, frugal lifestyle by choice. My finances are tied up with the family business right now (taking a small allowance), but this is a temporary setup. We are hiring operational help in a few months, which will free me up to entirely focus on my main career milestones.

Food and lifestyle: Always up for a creative activity - a photo walk, sketching in a park, reading in a cafe, heritage walks, learning local history, visiting a bookstore,... you get the gist. I don’t enjoy cooking and prefer spending as few minutes in the kitchen as possible. I can happily eat the exact same generic, nutritionally optimized meal twice a day, 5 days a week. However, I also love good food to a fault: if a dish isn't to my liking, I won't take a second bite. Unless someone else cooked for me. You can bet that the plate will be empty in that case.

Conflict resolution: For me, conflict resolution is all about individual maturity. If there's a disagreement, I prefer quiet reflection and a mature conversation. It's us against the problem and not me vs. you. Neither me, nor my friends shy away from tough conversations just because time has passed. Just because a certain behaviour or situation was tolerated at the moment doesn't mean it has to be swept under the rug.

A quick visual: I'm 5'2" with an average to chubby build, short-ish wavy hair, and a typical South Indian look with a modern take. Happy to share a photo early on once we connect in the DMs.

Yay or nay?

I am looking for someone with:

- Someone who is entirely secure in their own skin and happy with their career. Their specific field doesn't matter, but having their own passion does.

- Someone who values personal freedom and is enthusiastic about giving equal space in return.

- Ideally, someone based in Hyderabad. I’ve spoken to some truly lovely people from other cities on this sub, but those connections eventually faded due to a lack of a concrete timeline or a physical anchor. I want to build something real, and that requires actual face-to-face time. If you aren't local but are in a position to travel here soon/often, that works too.

- Someone who is childfree and would ideally be open to having pets in the future.

Why CF?

Raising a child is a complex, 100% full-time commitment. Right now, my focus, energy, and passion are entirely directed toward building our family business, scaling my career, and designing a life of absolute freedom and mobility. I simply don't want to split that focus with a second full-time job. Also, I believe people need a strong reason to have children and not the other way around.

Chaos or character? Hyderabad doesn't do quiet.

A few more of my quirks/ data points:

- I am a major fan of digital organization and data templates. Have been praised more than once for the same.

- I worked (read assisted) in set design for a film for a few months last year. Hilariously, I had never liked or even watched a single movie starring the lead actor and actress before taking the job.

- I recently took up watercolor painting and love diving into random craft projects I see on the internet just to try my hand at them.

- I am actively building up my own physical book collection. I wouldn’t call myself a voracious reader, but there’s a distinct joy in curating and owning my own small library.

- I don't smoke and drink occasionally. Absolutely hate the smell of smoke.

If this lines up with the kind of partnership you are looking for, send over a DM with your intro.

A random (parly successful) sunday craft inspired by an instagram post.

The Day Job

Yes, my daily routine looks like a premium Netflix thriller. As a forensic surgeon, my work is intense, deeply fascinating, and involves spending my days holding a scalpel to uncover the truth. Going to the courts depositing evidence, dealing with the police .If you love crime mysteries, psychological thrillers, or dark suspense stories, I have an endless supply of real-world tales that will easily outdo any movie.

The Vibe: High-Contrast & Drama-Free

Because my professional life deals with the heavy stuff, I keep my personal life entirely polar opposite: 100% chill, laid-back, and zero-drama. When the scrubs and blades are put away, I am the ultimate homebody. You’ll usually find me unwinding with a massive anime marathon, binge-watching a new series, or planning a casual road trip.

Quick Stats & Lifestyle

Basics: 28M, Telugu guy, 5'8", 75KG, General Caste, Hindu, fair-complexioned, Non smoker, Non alcoholic , Non vegetarian

The Look: I live in scrubs and surgical gear at work, but I clean up exceptionally well and dress decent when I'm off the clock.

Finances and education: Financially stable, earning a comfortable 1Lakh per month, settled. MBBS, MD.

Who I’m Looking For

I am looking for a partner to build a grounded, happy, and peaceful.

Age: 25–30 years.

Caste: Absolutely zero barriers. Mindset and mutual compatibility are everything to me.

Personality: Open-minded, expressive, and ready for a relaxed, happy partnership. (Bonus points if you're not from the medical field—a little professional variety keeps life interesting!)

Let’s Connect: If you want someone who can give you the best TV recommendations, share late-night mysteries, and balances a sharp, unique career with a completely easygoing lifestyle, drop a DM! Willing to share photos or exchange JS ID early on.

My parents are currently searching extensively to find a partner for me through AM. Given the current AM market demands and AM issues we’ve been seeing of late, I have little to no hopes. Moreover, if we add the CF requirement, nobody would even look at my profile.

My sister sent me a couple of profiles yesterday on WhatsApp and called me to ask my opinion. I replied I didn’t find them too interesting, but let’s first see if they will like me. And then talks went on and I expressed that the current AM market is so messed up, people are not marrying these days.

In that process, I slowly confessed that I did get a couple of matches on Shaadi, but the talks didn’t move forward because I mentioned I don’t want kids.

My sister then said women would think you’re gay if you mentioned this at the very start of the conversation, and they would think that you’re doing this owing to family pressures. She said I’m an idiot to be bringing this at the very beginning of the convos.

But sister, I created my Shaadi profile and I am managing it, isn’t it clear that I am straight?

Could be but people could also think that parents forced you to create a profile and do this.

She then asked my reasons for being CF, and she tried to bring some sense into me by saying this is a very wrong decision and stuff. It was a hard conversation.

Now she wants me to talk to my parents and tell them now itself in a month or so, so that they don’t get their hopes high. Because they have been travelling here and there in search of alliances and it is a lot of effort.

I’m just worried about their health. If I reveal this, it will definitely raise their blood pressure levels. Nobody can force me, but I don’t want them to get hurt.

FML

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Hi!

I'm 28, 5'9", based in Hyderabad, and work as a Senior Data Scientist at a tech company. I have a Master's in Computer Science, enjoy what I do, but believe life is about much more than just a career.

Outside work, I enjoy playing table tennis and badminton, working out, traveling (beaches over mountains), exploring cafés, and trying an Americano wherever I go. I'm also a Bollywood fan who loves classic Hindi songs and ghazals.

Family is a big part of my life, and I believe the strongest relationships are built on trust, kindness, respect, and emotional maturity. I also have a clear view of my future—I don't plan on having children and would love to build a DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) life with someone who shares the same vision.

For me, compatibility, shared values, and genuine connection matter far more than career or income.

If this resonates with you and you're looking for something meaningful, I'd love to connect and get to know each other.

Hi I am 19, currently doing mbbs. I know a lot of people might think it's too young to decide all this but I have been sure as hell since childhood that I do not want to have kids.

I'm childfree because I grew up in a very abusive and toxic family. My parents were very cruel and I went though a lot. I still struggle with mental health but I keep trying to be better and happier. And there are other reasons too such as the absurdity of our existence and the state of the world today. I think I'm almost an antinatalist now.

I'm an atheist and would prefer someone with the same beliefs. But I'm also fine with people who believe in god given that they don't have blind faith, and instead prioritise kindness and empathy.

I believe in feminism. I believe if you are human then you are a feminist. Please don't approach if your idea about feminism is from insta reels and brain dead posts.

I'm an introvert, I love reading philosophy and literature. I was a huge bookworm before college. I really value deep discussions. I cannot imagine being with someone who is not emotionally and intellectually at the same level as me. I want someone who makes me think more and live and love more.

Other than these I don't have any other too specific preferences. I have not really travelled much, but of course like everyone I would enjoy visiting new places.. especially mountains. But I'm fine whether you enjoy traveling or not. I have a fear of pets since someone's pet dog bit me when I was 8, and I have also never had a pet..but I am open to having a pet if you want it.

Nothing much to talk about. I am not really a movie, TV show or series , or anime person. But I enjoy psychological thrillers and surprisingly comedy too if I'm with friends and cousins. I have watched aot (not in order) and A Promised Neverland (s1) because of my brother and l loved both of them. Watched monster halfway through because my friends said I would love it but I couldn't keep up with the slow pace, but I do want to rewatch it again someday.

Also I'm a very awkward person. Like painfully awkward, not joking.

Another thing is that for me looks don't matter at all, for me looks just means hygiene and self grooming. I have had friends trying to convince me that looks come first but I truly believe personality is everything.

I hope to find someone who will stand with me through hard times too, someone who will not be cruel during fights and arguments. There's a line a read somewhere that it's not you both against each other, it's you both against the problem. I wish we could argue just about the issue and not target each other. I really wish we could fight and end with a hug and apology instead of cruel words and silent treatment.

Being a childfree couple means to always have each other's backs because a lot of people are going to try and ruin their peace.

If you are around my age and have similar views then let's talk and see how it goes.

Just wanted to tell that I'm never the type of person to comment or post. But I'm doing this as a shot in the dark

Before investing time in CF4CF conversations, it’s useful to know whether you’re even looking in the right pool. Beyond the usual CF filter, I’ve found that ideology often becomes one of the biggest compatibility factors.

I’m posting a series of quick polls, not to judge anyone’s views, but to understand how much ideological alignment matters within this community. Hopefully, the results help people get a better sense of whether they’re searching in the right place and what they can realistically expect.

(My friend is struggling to find CF here, and religion ideology is an major issue, so that’s where i get the idea to post a poll)

View Poll

Hey Everyone,

Here to find someone with whom I feel home :)

And wishing everyone the best too in their search.

About myself

• 34-year-old female from Mysore, residing in Bangalore.
• Mother tongue is Marathi, but I consider myself a true Kannadiga.
• I come from a lovely close-knit family; my parents are the coolest folks ever! :)
• Work as a Product Manager at a reputed IT company. Financially, have done decently well for myself.
• Have two master's degree; was pursuing a third one (part-time course), but will not be completing this one. I now also have an equivalent of a Bachelor's degree in Hindi :P
• Hobbies - I manage to read quite a bit (both fiction & non-fiction) and love watching live shows, especially plays.
• I love travelling and do that quite a bit - Have done 20+ solo trips and been to 14 countries so far.
• I love cooking - I cook for myself every day. And I'm a good cook - the only thing I usually brag about :D
• I'm an eggetarian but my family eats non-veg. I'm not particular about my partner's food preferences.
• I prefer doing the household chores myself, don't have any house-help - I'm a bit of a cleanliness freak.
• It takes me long to get comfortable with anyone but once I open up, I have been told that I'm charming and have a good sense of humour.
• Slim-built and easy on eyes.
• Was "married" for about 6 months to a guy I met on a matrimony site. Divorced with mutual consent for 3.5 years now. He was also CF, this was not the reason for divorce.
• And here are a few things that make me - me :D
  • I prefer reading movie / series summary than rather watching it. I usually repeat-watch movies / series I love.
  • I rarely drink (perhaps 3-4 times a year) but I do enjoy going to a pub and watching people happily dance.
  • I find nights peaceful - one of the things I absolutely love is sitting at a roof-top restaurant late in the night.
  • I love lakes, rivers, beaches - I can watch these water bodies & do nothing for hours.
  • I'm quite independent and not the kind who would expect her partner to drive her around / pick her up / be with her 24/7.

 Partner expectations

• Kindness, intelligence, street-smarts, flexibility are what I deeply value.
• I'm looking for meaningful companionship / long-term relationship / life-partner.
• Reason for wanting a partner - I want someone to roam around with but also to do absolutely nothing with (parallel-play). And most importantly I'm a sucker for hugs, cuddles, cheek kisses and holding hands - I am (or intend to be) a physically clingy partner :)
• Someone who is good / successful at their job and financially sound.
• A south Indian guy (preferably from Karnataka) will be great. I'm open to North Indian guys too.
• Location preferences - South Indian cities, preferably Bangalore.
• Someone who can equally participate in daily house-hold chores and cooking. I do not foresee hiring house-help or a cook anytime soon in my life.
• Ideal age would be between 34 - 40. I'm open to guys who are a couple of years younger to me.
• At least 5' 8" tall, I'm 5' 7".
• I do not prefer staying with in-laws.
• Deal breakers
  • Smoking, drugs, excessive drinking.
  • I am not a fan of having pets like cats & dogs (Sorry for this).

Being child-free

• I have known this for more than 9 years now.
• My parents are also aware and are supportive of my decision.
• Reason - (i) I love the freedom / flexibility in my life and do not want to compromise (ii) It is unfair to force someone to live a life (good or bad) without their consent.
• I am very sure that my decision to be child-free will never change.

<Have used my previous post with some minor edits - Nothing much has changed in life :)>

I've been a long time lurker here, and after chatting with a few of you lovely people from a previous account, I figured there's no harm in trying my luck again.

I turn 31 in a few weeks, which as some of you can attest, is the ripe age for every well-meaning extended family member to suddenly develop a singular obsession with finding me a spouse.

Thankfully, I don't live in India anymore, so I have become adept at dodging those conversations like Neo in The Matrix. Every now and then, though, one of those bullets still finds its target. So consider this my shout into the big black void that is trying to find a partner these days, let alone someone firmly childfree.

So before I talk myself out of posting this, here's stuff about me that I think you should know:

- I’m about 175cm tall, originally from Kerala but I’ve lived a majority of my life in the north. I can speak English and Hindi fluently and can have a conversation in Tamil. I’ve been told to stick to English to spare everyone involved when I try speaking in Malayalam though lol

- I've called NZ home for the last 8 years now, and it’s been an intense and strangely humbling experience but I've learned a lot about myself and what I'm looking for in a partner.

- I work in tech, writing code for a living (shocking, I know lol). I don't have strong ambitions of climbing the corporate ladder and firmly feel that life is so much more than whatever new nonsense people find the time to spout on LinkedIn these days.

- I'm pretty open-minded, big on empathy, and genuinely believe most problems can be solved with good communication. Speaking of, I’m a great talker if you can match my energy. There’s something intensely attractive when the conversation flows and you aren’t trying too hard to fill the silence.

Hobbies and Lifestyle:

As I alluded to earlier, I'm not exactly a fan of the whole *“work is your entire personality”* thing. There’s only so much tech jargon I can tolerate, and honestly, I find it way more attractive when people have hobbies they’re genuinely passionate about. So I like to put my money where my mouth is and spend my free time doing things that are distinctly \*non-work\* related:

Fitness

After a pretty horrible injury last year from my over eager ass jumping into some pretty strenuous Muay Thai classes, I’ve started strength training to build my body again before I start again. I like to keep pretty active in general and also like doing a bit of yoga and going for the occasional run.

Books

Not gonna lie, I’m a bit of a nerd and reading has been a part of my life since childhood. Favourites include Sci-fi and Fantasy, but I also like reading non-fiction. I've recently enjoyed learning more on topics like astrophysics, consciousness, the brain, psychology, and economics. I’m currently working my way through Sagans Pale blue dot (highly highly recommend). PS If you're on Goodreads, I'd love to add you so I can steal recommendations lol

Music

Yes, the stereotypes practically write themselves. I’m just another tech bro currently trying to learn the guitar. Definitely not switching careers to a rock star anytime soon though lol. Music is a huge part of my life and I usually have it in the background while doing most tasks. I love full albums over singles and listen to a wide range of genres

Favorite bands - Tool, Pink Floyd, Porcupine Tree, Radiohead, Portishead, Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation and too many more to list out but happy to share playlists if that's your thing!

Cooking

I like to think I'm a pretty good cook (even Mum agrees, and you know it’s true if Mama says so). Mostly enjoy cooking Indian food but don't mind mixing it up with some Italian or Mexican when the mood hits.

Pop Culture

Bit of a pop culture buff and love watching content of any form. My recent favorites in no particular order:

The Wild Robot - An absolute masterpiece in animation, visual and sound effects
One Battle After Another - Another Leo Materpiece
Conclave - Oscar worthy in my opinion
Bugonia - Weird and unsettling but an absolute ride
Eddington - Joaquin Phoenix so enough said

Travel

Another cliche perhaps, but I love traveling and I try to visit a new country every year. I've traveled to around 15 countries so far and looking to increase that number this year. I like slow traveling and staying in places that leave small bit of themselves etched in you permanently. Hoping to do a long south east Asia trip soon

What I’m looking for:

- Looking for a CF woman (duh), preferably an atheist to settle down with. I'm too old for casual dating or playing games
- Happy to date across time zones and open to location.. briefly. But eventually, someone’s gotta pack a bag. I'm open to moving to bridge the gap to other western countries but honestly I don’t see myself ever settling back in India
- Ideally someone who takes care of themselves, not in a "run a marathon before breakfast" kind of way, but like...basic fitness is hot.
- What matters to me? Kindness, empathy, and someone who communicates like an adult. I’m looking for someone I can actually be vulnerable with, without feeling like I need to put up a wall every time we talk.
- Someone who has their own hobbies and interests so we can swap recommendations, but also be fine sitting in silence doing our own thing.
- Veggie or Vegan diet would be ideal - makes sharing a kitchen way less of a diplomatic mission.
- Alcohol friendly, because honestly, life’s stressful enough to deal with it sober all the time. I also partake in the occasional J when the mood hits.
- I don’t really care about your past relationships as long as you’ve left them there. Emotional baggage is fine, just...you know, keep it carry-on sized.
- Look, I’m just gonna say it - I’m not really into pets. So if your furry friend is your whole world, I might not be the guy.
- Chemistry is obviously important so happy to share my pics if we talk and feel like there's a connection!

If any of this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you and my DMs are open. I don’t bite and am approaching this with zero expectations

Anyways since I'm already posting. I'd also ask how did you guys realise that you want to be CF. I'm mostly on fence, and mostly I don't want a child but still if in the future I were to have kids it'll mostly depend on my​ financial security, emotional well-being etc and same goes for my partner.

Hey there 👋🏻
After a lot of contemplation, I thought I’d give this a shot. I promise I don't usually ramble this much in real life….probably.

About me:

I work as an Appsec Consultant. I'm an introvert with a bit of social anxiety, but once I'm comfortable with someone, I can yap for hours. I like to have deep discussions about anything and everything. I love to read (only fiction lol), watch sitcoms, true crime documentaries, and whodunit series.

I love making random plans when we’re already out but I need a week’s notice to get me out of the house. I’m also a house cat who can bed rot for hours or days. I've never been in a relationship, so dating is new territory for me. I might seem a little awkward at first, but I warm up once I get to know you. I’m super sarcastic and have a dry sense of humour so never take anything I say too seriously. I’m also fiercely loyal, I remember the little things and I’ll absolutely bombard you with reels.

Basics:
• I’m a flexitarian. I drink socially (very rarely) and don’t smoke.
• I’m agnostic (culturally Hindu)
• I’m a feminist, through and through.
• I'm 5'5" with an average build after losing a significant amount of weight.
• I have lipedema (partly the reason why I used to be overweight). It’s under control but I do get severe leg pain from time to time.

Why I’m childfree:
• Some of the health issues I could face before, during, and after pregnancy are honestly terrifying, but "The List" solidified my decision to never have kids. Anyone who is unaware of the list, here you go: https://yuniquethoughtslist.wixsite.com/yuni-s-pros-and-cons/the-list
• Also, kids? In this economy? Absolutely not.
• Climate change. I'm not even sure we'll have enough water in the coming years, so knowingly bringing a child into this world doesn't feel right to me.

I’m looking for someone who:
• Is in the age range of 27-34, height 5’7” and above, straight, monogamous and health-conscious.
• Is emotionally mature, financially independent, and has a fulfilling life outside of a relationship.
• Is Hindu (I couldn’t give two sh*ts about religion but I’d like my parents to accept our match)
• Would love to try new things with me. Whether it's trying new cuisines, new activities, or travelling to different countries.
• Is serious about building a future, not just casual dating.
• Lives in Hyderabad. I live in Hyderabad so it’d just be easier, but I’m not too strict about it.
• Is okay with not talking 24/7. I’m someone who doesn’t like to text constantly, but I’m working on it.

Please stay away if you:
• Are not 100% sure about your childfree stance.
• Want an open relationship.
• Smoke.
• Place a disproportionate emphasis on appearance. Physical attraction matters, so just as a heads-up: I've lost a significant amount of weight and have some loose skin.
• Cannot respect boundaries.
• Do not want to share the mental load.

Preferences, but not deal breakers:
• I'm a very light sleeper with insomnia, so sleeping separately is something I'd ideally like if it works for both of us.
• My parents are aware of my decision of being childfree and seem to be okay with it. Ideally, you've already had the childfree conversation with your parents and know where they stand.

Deal breakers:
• If you're not looking to settle down within the next couple of years.
• If you plan to live with your parents after marriage. I’m open to living close to both sets of parents.
• If you have pets (cats or dogs). I love them to bits but I use minoxidil so it’s not safe for them 😭
• If you’re classist, homophobic, misogynistic, or a bigot 🤺

I’ve built a life I’m really happy with. I’m financially independent, surrounded by amazing friends, and genuinely content. So I’m only looking for someone who’ll add to that, not someone to fill a gap.

If this resonates with you, my DMs are open.
If not, I genuinely hope you find your fellow childfree human and build the life you're looking for together.

If you’d like, tell us a little story about them too, how they came into your life, a funny habit they have, or what makes them so special

high-functioning, naturally born, good looking (alright avg looking), dusky on face but coffee and other multi-colored interiorly due to sun tanning of his life time, hairy chest, fearless, experimentalist by nature, usually handle-bar moustached guy is looking for someone who has complementng skills/talent/personality,etc. that he does not possess

NOTE : This guy has a serious issue - he will not initiate DM as he wants this post to look and sound like a rage-bait post but it isn't - so you should dm if you want to check out his brain - he appreciates critics and areas of improvements much in the comments rather than appreciations which are also welcome. it seems he prefers to DM only between 7:45pm and 9:00 pm ..

who he is:

1. thin or lean build/frame, tall enough to be close to 180cms
2. professionally a s/w engineer,
3. non-religious theist,
4. never married nor was in live-in with his ex for a bit over 5years but was in LDR with monthly->yearly meetups until it ended before two years,
5. heavily opinionated,
6. ambiverted utilitarian,
7. master research oriented strageist who is sometimes crazySounding like batman only when is energetic (just like this him making this post at night)
8. earns ample enough to sustain 2 lives on the planet on top of some of his generational wealth.

strengths/skills:

1. immense patience, high endurance, high-tolerance
2. motherly love towards every life on the planet so much so that he has to feed other creatures first before he eats the food that he cooked and he has done it everytime he cooked food

weaknesses:

1. expression of feelings - he took about 2 years to openly talk to his own ex-gf though she confessed it first - it all over now
2. judging other people and situations
3. he feels there is a lack of adequate executive functional skills to him

who he is lo o-o oking for:

someone who is opposite of him like medium/bigger frame, obviously helping/fulfilling the skills he doesnt have/complementing the weaknesses!

someone who is or does or has or will do/have the following skills

Non-negotiables:

1. has a goal and working plan towards it and puts in the efforts towards it.
2. has management and organization, soft-skills
3. has decent amount of patience, calmness, mindfulness and judgemental people skills but are open-minded to listen and experiment stuff
4. is passionate about something or anything like inventing a new dish,making the radham rangoli, being on mouna-vrath for a day in a month or anything

kink-wise:

1. if he is thrill seeking batman, he'd like you to match his enthusiasm by being/roleplaying as catwoman / batgirl / robin

negotiables/preferences:

1. wear saree for full 24h at least twice in a month - rest other days he doesnt care, what you wear because he is sane enough to know that its not of his business if you walk around naked or whatever unless it is adviced to him by you!
2. know how to braid your hair and be in that braid for at least once a week - fine twice month again - he doesnt expect a long hair whatever the hair is - it should be braided in detail,ribboned or pinned whatever -
3. be really really good / super-good at something - be it swimming/singing/dancing/cooking/knitting/sky-diving/deep-sea diving/making pani puri/tailoring/your current job role/profession/home management
4. need not be employed but you better be good at something

strict Nos to few as per his dad:

1. scorpion,cancer,gemini,aries - in that order

preferred signs as per his dad:

1. taurus,virgo, aquarius,pisces

why is he CF? - creating human life on the planet anymore is just stupidity for at least next 30years according to him.

NOTE: you need not match 100% of the skills required. however, you are encouraged to apply for the post of this roomate. this guy is not expecting you to make him. he knows how to be with himself and expects you to know how to be with yourself first and then be with him. he had been to UK and likes that culture very much and insists that he will appoint a maid only after he turns 60.

please shower this guy with some downvotes or commenting how crazy he is in writing this is as a HR post in third person recruiting 1and being picky for partner or you may appreciate the creativity as well-wth!

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27M/ Chennai / Tamil Nadu 

/Personal Details: 

- Age: 27 (1999born)

- Height: 6'1 feet

- Religion: Atheist (Hindu by birth). 

- Caste: don't matter 

- Marital status: Never married

- Living with Parents: No 

- Looks: Average build and kind of fair brown

- Mother Tongue: Tamil

- Country: India

/Education and Profession: 

- Education Level: BE 

- Occupation: Banking in public sector bank

/Diet

- Diet: Non-vegetarian

/Reasons to be childfree:

I want to travel with my partner and explore the world. I have already travelled some and by what I see bringing a child into this world doesn't feel right for me. The world is still beautiful but the way it is headed doesn't give a positive Picture of the future.

Also pregnancy is a high risk for the woman, I can't see my partner go through something like that willingly.

I just want to live an interesting and beautiful life with my partner till one of us dies in the arms of the other.

/Hobbies/Interests: 

I love watching anime , series ; I like to travel and now I able to afford it with adult money , I am slowly starting it . I want to travel with my partner and experience together what the world has to offer.

Loves to play video games

/Drinking & Smoking/ Weed/ Drugs: 

Never Tried it , but Okay if my partner does it sometimes 

/About me: 

I am mostly an introvert but changes completely if I am comfortable with someone like a sudden energy burst.

I am logical person,

I find peace in nature.

I am calm , but loves to ragebait

I don't overreact but some say this is bad cause my reaction is not sufficient sometimes.

I love pets and would like me and my partner to have pets some day.

I would like to answer any questions to someone interested.

/Partner Preferences:

- Age: 24-30

- Height: 5'0 and above.

- Religion: doesn't matter ( I am atheist)

- Caste: No bar 

- Marital status: Never Married

- Living with Parents: doesn't matter; I prefer to live without each of our parents.

- Location Preferences: Chennai or Bangalore, I can do long distance, and if things work out, I can apply for transfer cause it is government job and transfers are bit difficult 

- Language - Tamil , english ( any of them )

- Diet Preferences: Preferably Non-vegetarian, but it is upto them 

- Drinking & Smoking/ Weed/ Drugs:  okay with moderate or minimal use

- Education Level: anything above Graduate.

- Occupation: Doesn't matter. (I prefer to have double income but as my job is permanent I am okay with anything job or no job ,but they must be willing to get a job in future)

/Desired Earnings (INR): Earning enough to comfortably live by. 

/Who I am searching for :

Someone who has loyalty ,good humour, curious nature. I don't want to have much expectations other than the basics required for a good life partner because I want to get to know you by talking and interacting with you. 

It is the getting to know part that is beautiful and fun. I don't want to spoil that by having expectations 😌.

Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit.