Like the hdb policies of singles under 35 its understandable tbh imo do you guys know of any rough sleepers or have been yourself like where do you/they usually stay?
Unfortunately, in Singapore, where it's so fricking noisy, we are the noisiest country in the world, especially in the morning. Not to mention screaming kids and honking of cars, and on bus and mrt, there will be people, especially aunties and uncles, who blast music or watch annoying titkok videos. After work, if you live next to a school like myself, you have to endure screaming kids everyday. Even on weekends, kids running around, just noisy af, and also renovations with hammering and loud drillings as many of us live in hdbs. Therefore, anc mode for me is a must. I own a Sony Wf1000xm5, and I use the anc all the time because I appreciate the quietness. For people here who own good anc earbuds brands like bose, sony, and airpods pros, which pair of earbuds do you own and how often do you use the anc?
Sometimes after having a bad day or worrying about money or just tired of work just seeing the stray cat sleeping on the table or downstairs makes my mood light up somehow does anyone here also too when you see stray cats like your mood just gets a little better?
For myself when I was 25 i started taking responsibility and accountability and wanted to be better and after 3 years of therapy and self help im 28 now 29 in october mostly on my own im beginning to become better but the thing is I look back in my early 20s and regretted not seeking help or getting better for people here who got better or managed better of your bpd in your mid/late or even 30s how did you let go of the wasted time you wasted?
Speaking for myself (October 16th), I am the most loyal person in relationships. I can even say I go the extra mile, bending backs, being the therapist, taking care of them when they are sick, cooking for them, and giving my heart to them. Always making the first move, apologising when we fight, and I truly do not expect them to return the favour or do the same for me because I love them, and love is supposed to be genuine and not expecting anything in return. I even let myself get hurt for them, only to end up with them cheating on me. It is not just myself I am talking about; a lot of other Libras I know are some of the most loyal people I know. I am just sick of the assumption that Libras are fuckboys and fuckgirls. I can confidently say I am not one of them, and I am sure many of you here are not either.
Just checked got 500 dollar a hour ago in my dbs account
Just checked got 500 dollar a hour ago in my dbs account
If you know that sub is just people venting and refusing to do anything about their situation and it feels like that entire subreddit is just a echo chamber for people that dont want to get better this sub is so much better and everytime im in here im reminded that bpd is in fact be managed or go into remission if you are actually commited and willing to work on it.Thank you guys.
This is one thing i dont see many talking about i was wondering did your current partner/ex with bpd believe in astrology and zodiac signs my ex pwbpd constantly believe in that shit apparently according to her the reason why she snaps is because she is a libra and she feels very deeply and I hate on her because im a aries which is completely utterly bs I know people with the same birth month and date as her that dont act the same way lash out at people and I know two people who born on the same date with completely different personalities was wondering here was your partner with bpd into that zodiac signs?Personally in my opinion it is a way to avoid taking responsibility
I have done lots of healing. You name it, I have done it: CBT, DBT, inner child healing, self-help books. None of that mattered, and the only single thing that truly made a difference day and night to my depression healing journey was having money. That is it. With money now, I could afford things to better myself. You want a good sleep? Money. You want to go to a better environment, like a house? Money. You want to not work and treat yourself to a good day? Money. The list goes on. For myself and many others, the sad reality is money is the one thing that really makes a difference, and I say this with 100% belief and none of therapy has helped me with financial issues all they did was to convince me that money dosent buy happiness while they sit in a porsche and ferrari. And let's cut the bullshit about 50% peoples mental health issues in 2026 is causes directly by socioeconomic factors job poverty financial stress as we live in a capitalistic society especially in places like USA Hong Kong and like myself i am from Singapore (the most capitalistic country in the world). I personally believe a lot of people's mental health issues can be completed or majority of it be elevated or cured completely with more money and no one can change my opinion about this. The only people who tells you that money dosent matter either already grew up privileged or have money themselves.
Woke up today and felt like the haze was crazy smells damn bad here in bukit panjang can smell even my windows slightly open😷 luckily got air purifier at home lol.
Let's be honest not everyone could afford therapy and costs and affordability is the main cost for many was wondering for people here who got better or improved their bpd symptoms without any sort of therapist but self help/on your own what did you do thank you. It is okay if it is going to be a long response im willing to loona at it
Like before collecting cds i was collecting vinyl i remember panicking whenever they come in the mail worrying if it would be damaged but with cds? I can just replace the case without worries and it looks completely brand new even if some of it is already been a decade old.
Let's be honest not everyone could afford therapy and costs and affordability is the main cost for many was wondering for people here who got better or improved their bpd symptoms without any sort of therapist but self help/on your own what did you do thank you.
For me personally I think taylor swift is incredibly overrated but safe and sound is the one song by her that I absolutely love and still vibe till this day what is one song by her that you love even though you cant stand her
I have done lots of healing. You name it, I have done it: CBT, DBT, inner child healing, self-help books. None of that mattered, and the only single thing that truly made a difference to my CPTSD healing journey was having money. That is it. With money now, I could afford things to better myself. You want a good sleep? Money. You want to go to a better environment, like a house? Money. You want to not work and treat yourself to a good day? Money. The list goes on. For myself and many others, the sad reality is money is the one thing that really makes a difference, and I say this with 100% belief and none of therapy has helped me with financial issues all they did was to convince me that money dosent buy happiness while they sit in a porsche and ferrari.
I have done lots of healing. You name it, I have done it: CBT, DBT, inner child healing, self-help books. None of that mattered, and the only single thing that truly made a difference to my CPTSD healing journey was having money. That is it. With money now, I could afford things to better myself. You want a good sleep? Money. You want to go to a better environment, like a house? Money. You want to not work and treat yourself to a good day? Money. The list goes on. For myself and many others, the sad reality is money is the one thing that really makes a difference, and I say this with 100% belief.