Americans who lived through the 911 attacks and Covid which event was more traumatic for you and affected your life more?

Two of the most life changing events in America for you which event affected your life more negatively and overall even till this day if it still has?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 1 day ago
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Americans who lived through the 911 attacks and Covid which event was more traumatic for you and affected your life more?

Two of the most life changing events in America for you which event affected your life more negatively and overall even till this day if it still has?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 1 day ago
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There's just something that changed in 2020 and it cannot be brought back

I'm a very positive person all my life and even though before the pandemic i still had problems I had a soul and upbeatness inside me that still see a future but ever since covid and pandemic came im no longer that positive person anymore its almost like thanos snapped his fingers in infinity war and we slipped into some sort of universe 10 to 20 years into the future im not even kidding when i say this i look at pictures pre covid and after covid and can't believe im the same person in that photo pre covid i think many can relate completely to this.

u/justmypersonalthing — 1 day ago
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People who actually knew and worked with people who peaked in ns what were they really like?

We always like to joke as singaporeans about people who peaked in ns but was wondering for those who truly interacted knew or even worked with people who are like that like years after ord but can't stop talking about how good ns like was(not just saf also includes scdf and spf too like they were a officer firefighter or police sergeant) like the way they talk and act is like how they were from ns how was it it like working alongside them or interacting with them what is their personality like are they rude in general or arrogant like do they have a life outside of ns

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u/justmypersonalthing — 1 day ago

Sometimes all it takes is to see the before and after pictures of parents who have kids is enough to reaffirm my decision to not have them

Don't get me wrong no offence to parents who have kids but personally, for me, every single person I know: friends, family, co-workers, and even my own parents like, the women were so lively, baddie, carefree, youthful spirit. And not just women a lot of my guy friends, before having kids and becoming a dad, they were so lively and energetic and could pass for being a model. Before having kids and after, the difference t's not just physical, it's mental appearance, especially for women. The eyes never got that spark back after having kids. And no one wants to talk about this side of having kids not to mention, especially for women, postpartumhow your mood after having kids can get absolutely destroyed and it cannot be reversed i see the trend on tiktok where women make a video before and having kids and the comments section are just straight up bs and its easier to just make up statements like "its temporary its not going to last forever" . The reality is that for majority your spark after having kids will be changed forever this is why you see many parents especially moms put on so much makeup to convince themself they still have the spark in them but they know that they no longer have it. After having kids, my mom, for example—before she had kids, she was very energetic, peaceful, and outgoing. Well, after postpartum, she developed an anxiety disorder. And every time I see before and after pictures of people having kids, it just reaffirms my decision to never go through that as a woman myself.

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u/justmypersonalthing — 4 days ago

Sometimes all it takes is to see the before and after pictures of parents who have kids

Don't get me wrong no offence to parents who have kids but personally, for me, every single person I know: friends, family, co-workers, and even my own parents like, the women were so lively, baddie, carefree, youthful spirit. And not just women a lot of my guy friends, before having kids and becoming a dad, they were so lively and energetic and could pass for being a model. Before having kids and after, the difference t's not just physical, it's mental appearance, especially for women. The eyes never got that spark back after having kids. And no one wants to talk about this side of having kids not to mention, especially for women, postpartumhow your mood after having kids can get absolutely destroyed and it cannot be reversed i see the trend on tiktok where women make a video before and having kids and the comments section are just straight up bs and its easier to just make up statements like "its temporary its not going to last forever" . The reality is that for majority your spark after having kids will be changed forever this is why you see many parents especially moms put on so much makeup to convince themself they still have the spark in them but they know that they no longer have it and its not just physical appearance its also mental appearance lots of women after having children seem more agitated easily irritated break down at many times. After having kids, my mom, for example—before she had kids, she was very energetic, peaceful, and outgoing. Well, after postpartum, she developed an anxiety disorder. And every time I see before and after pictures of people having kids, it just reaffirms my decision to never go through that as a woman myself.

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u/justmypersonalthing — 4 days ago
▲ 182 r/childfree

Sometimes all it takes is to see the before and after pictures of parents who have kids

Don't get me wrong no offence to parents who have kids but personally, for me, every single person I know: friends, family, co-workers, and even my own parents like, the women were so lively, baddie, carefree, youthful spirit. And not just women a lot of my guy friends, before having kids and becoming a dad, they were so lively and energetic and could pass for being a model. Before having kids and after, the difference t's not just physical, it's mental appearance, especially for women. The eyes never got that spark back after having kids. And no one wants to talk about this side of having kids not to mention, especially for women, postpartumhow your mood after having kids can get absolutely destroyed and it cannot be reversed i see the trend on tiktok where women make a video before and having kids and the comments section are just straight up bs and its easier to just make up statements like "its temporary its not going to last forever" . The reality is that for majority your spark after having kids will be changed forever this is why you see many parents especially moms put on so much makeup to convince themself they still have the spark in them but they know that they no longer have it and its not just physical appearance i am talking about its also mental appearance lots of women after having children seem more agitated easily irritated break down at many times. After having kids, my mom, for example—before she had kids, she was very energetic, peaceful, and outgoing. Well, after postpartum, she developed an anxiety disorder. And every time I see before and after pictures of people having kids, it just reaffirms my decision to never go through that as a woman myself.

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u/justmypersonalthing — 4 days ago

What is the most tragic event that most people have never heard of?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago

What is the most tragic event/disasters that most people have never heard of or forgotten about?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago

What is the most tragic event/disasters that most people have never heard of or forgotten about?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago

What is the most tragic event/disasters that most people have never heard of or forgotten about?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago

What is the most tragic event/disasters that most people have never heard of or forgotten about?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago
▲ 68 r/ask

What is the most tragic event/disasters that most people have never heard of or forgotten about?

Like we all know 911 and the space shutter disasters chernobyl but what is a few that was just as serious that many have forgotten or never heard about?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago

Why do people in their 40s and 50s nowadays look younger than their age in 2026 compared to 20 years ago?

Like in 2026 a lot of people i meet personally who are 40s can easily pass for being in their late 20s or even 30s why do you think that's the case in your opinion?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 5 days ago
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People of Gen Z, what are the things you dislike the most about your own Generation?

Can be anything from behaviour or things your own generation do that you as a gen z that you dislike or really icks you?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 7 days ago

People of Gen Z, what are the things you dislike the most about your own Generation?

Can be anything from behaviour or things your own generation do that you as a gen z that you dislike or really icks you?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 7 days ago

What is something you dislike about gen z as a gen z yourself?

Can be anything from behaviour or things your own generation do that you as a gen z that you dislike or really icks you?

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u/justmypersonalthing — 7 days ago

For those who remember back in 2013 these were the 2 biggest edm songs that year which did you like better?

Personally I feel like clarity feels more catchy in my opinion but I also love wake me up but overall I prefer clarity the lyrics just takes me back i was 11 in 2012/2013 and I still put it in my playlist of childhood nostalgia. For those who remember which do you prefer clarity or wake me up?

u/justmypersonalthing — 9 days ago