r/TooAfraidToAsk

I (30F) was seeing a guy for about two months, and we were hooking up. I was attracted to him, and whenever we had sex, I would get pretty wet. However, he told me that it was too much for him and that he couldn’t feel enough friction to enjoy sex.
Honestly, that comment bothered me more than I expected. I’m not someone who sleeps around, but I’ve had a fair amount of sexual partners, and not once has anyone complained about this. If anything, previous partners have made positive comments about it, so this was the first time I’d ever been made to feel like it was a bad thing.
Things ended between us about a month ago, and I recently hooked up with someone new. In the middle of sex, I actually caught myself apologizing for being too wet. The new guy looked at me like I was crazy and said, “Why would you apologize? I love that.”
That interaction made me realize how much the first guy’s comment had gotten into my head. I never used to think twice about this, but now I’m suddenly self-conscious about something that has always been completely natural for me.
So I’m genuinely curious: Is being really wet during sex actually a problem for some guys because of the lack of friction, or was this just a personal preference thing? Have other women experienced this? I know everyone has different preferences, but I’m wondering if this is more common than I thought.
I don’t want to keep feeling insecure about something that shouldn’t be an issue, but his comment has definitely stuck with me.

I’m 29. I grew up believing in heaven and hell, but somewhere around 21–25 I started leaning toward the idea that death is simply “lights out” forever.

Now that I’m almost 30, though, I find myself thinking there’s a decent chance reality could be some kind of simulation. Maybe when we die, we essentially “wake up” outside of it. Perhaps we already knew about whoever or whatever created the simulation before we entered, but that knowledge was wiped when we were born. Then, once we die, our memories come back and we understand what this reality actually was and how it all worked.

Like legit whenever this topic comes out as a Meme or Reddit post, everyone, without a single exception, hundreds of people in comments say the same thing. I've seen so, so many of it. It always ends terribly.

And it's fucking shocking what I read constantly. Usually the experiences are pretty similar and related to dead parents or pets, probably because that's when men show vulnerability in general. And all are the same. Women ask men to open up, they open up, women get absolutely disgusted, even if the reason is the men's dead mom. And then they use some of your shared stuff against you.

And many always write ''I fell for this many times with different women, wish I learned it earlier, never open up to women'' and then hundreds of replies on this single comment alone are agreed so much by other men.

This can't be this bad right? This shit makes me to not want a partner and I don't want to think like this.

i have a date this evening and I didn't think about the logistics of what might happen later but they do have a colostomy bag and I am hungry but want to keep safe.

when I was a child, I thought Goth subculture were depressed because of crimes of Muslim in medieval Spain, (because the Goth subculture share its name with the tribe Goth in Spain)

Also do they burn brighter since they have a higher concentration of fat in their body? Morbid question, I know but I am genuinely curious.

this is a genuine question I’ve always wondered but mostly need it for writing purposes. what are you supposed to do if you get hard while making out? are you supposed to continue making out? Leave to take care of it? Have your partner take care of it? does it depend on how long you been dating?

So now that we’ve gotten the lesser one out of the way, who do you think are the contenders for the highly respected and very prestigious FIFA Peace Prize?

Edit: grammar

I don't know if it's due to being in a recession area or what.

But in my area, I keep seeing so many 20s-30s, sometimes older women saying, "I should not have dated X", "I shouldn't have had a kid to him", etc.

I keep seeing so many women dating men who are current or former criminal type. Like drug dealers, police pursuit men, etc.

Some just seem to date men who are barely ever home, don't help with the kids, don't spend time with the woman, etc.

Not to sound like "why not nice guys", but what makes the above listed men so exciting that so many women can't stop dating them?

Tech Ceos keep bragging about how Ai is gonna replace millions to save billions

But if everyone is broke because AI took their jobs, who's going to buy all these stuff these companies are selling? 😭

Are they just squeezing every last drop of profit out of the economy and hoping the problem becomes someone else's responsibility?

Like, who exactly do they think their customers are going to be?

(All names are fake, everyone involved is in high school)
Last night I almost lost my virginity but I kind of feel weird about the situation. Okay, so basically, two guys asked if they could hang out with me and my friend Hailey. I had met one of the guys about a month ago at a football game and he has been flirting me, asking to hangout and texting me since. I told them Haileys parents weren’t home, so they ended up coming over anyway. We all went upstairs and hung out in Hailey’s room.
At some point, Dan (the guy I was interested in) asked me to go downstairs with him to get some water. We found some, and then we started making out. He was grabbing my ass, and afterward, we went back upstairs to Haileys room where Hailey and his friend Ryder were.
After a little bit I had to leave the room to do something and he got up and said if I wanted to continue what happened downstairs he was waiting in Haileys parents room, which honestly already made me feel a little weird because it felt like he was getting straight to hooking up. I went in there, and he asked me to lock the door.
We started making out again, and I was on top of him. I don’t know how to explain it, but I wasn’t really feeling that spark. The kissing wasn’t bad, but I just wasn’t feeling what I thought I would.
He asked me what I was down for and I told him we can’t fuck and he said okay and seemed completely chill about that. He asked if I would suck his dick I said sure, I didn’t really want to but I knew he was gonna bug me about it if I said no so I just said yes immediately. Then he asked me to pull down his pants, and I ended up giving him head. He also took off my top and my bra and my shorts and underwear. He was fingering me, and asked to do 69 so we repositioned. Eventually, he pulled me up and started asking if I would have sex with him.
He must have asked me at least 20 times. He kept saying he wanted to make me his girlfriend, that he was the right person to take my virginity, and that he respects women. He even stuck his fingers in and out again and said “it will feel just like that.” He also kept saying he knew I wanted to and Im just overthinking.
Eventually, I said fine and he guided me back on top of him, but I couldn’t get it in right.
Then he told me to lie on my back and put my legs up and spread them. I was lying there, and that’s when I really started overthinking everything.
I felt uncomfortable in that position, not because Im not flexible Im a cheerleader, but I started thinking, this isnt how I wanted to loose my virginity. I wanted to feel comfortable and safe with someone, actually wanting it to happen instead of questioning everything in the moment.
I told him to go slow, and he said he would. But when he got on top of me and thought he had gotten it in, he thrust forward hard. It didn’t actually go in, but I remember thinking that he wasn’t listening to me. That wasn’t slow.
I told him no, but he kept saying things like, “Come on, you’re already in the position,” and continued trying to convince me. He kept bringing up the same things he’d said before.
Eventually, he stopped trying to have sex and asked if I wanted to do other things instead.
He asked to titty fuck but it was hard because his dick is pretty small being honest so it was hard even though I have big tits, so I ended up giving him head again while he fingered me.
At one point, he asked if I wanted him to finish in my mouth. I initially said yes, but while I was doing it, I started thinking about it and told him not to. He said he wouldn’t, although he added that, based on what I was doing, it might be difficult to stop if it happened. I just kept going because, at that point, I honestly didn’t really care anymore.
Eventually, he had me move away and finished himself off. He ended up finishing on my chest.
Afterward, we went to the bathroom. He cleaned himself up, and I cleaned myself off too. He got dressed, and I started putting all my clothes back on.
Then he said he needed to check on his friend, Ryder, who was still with Hailey. Apparently, Ryders parents were getting mad because they needed to get home.
He hugged me goodbye, and that was basically it.
No real conversation about what had just happened, no checking in about how I felt, nothing. I understand it was around one and they needed to leave, but I still felt weird about how everything ended.
We didn’t actually have sex, but I still feel strange about the entire experience. And I was also wondering if this kid seems do dangerous to hangout with ever again even because another girl I know I told her about how we invited guys over and she asked me to invite them and some friends for her over next week because her parents will be out of town aswell.
I’ve been raped before by someone I trusted. When that happened, I remember feeling pressured in a similar way, and that’s part of why I kept saying no to Dan when he wanted to have sex.
I didn’t want my first time having sex to happen like that. I didn’t want to feel uncomfortable, pressured, or like I had to agree just to get someone to stop asking.
I think I was especially firm about not having sex because I was trying so hard to make sure I didn’t end up in the same situation again.
But even after everything, I eventually said fine. It didn’t end up happening anyway, but now I’m stuck thinking about the fact that I agreed at all.
I wanted to have these experiences, and I wanted to be comfortable with someone. But when it actually happened, I didn’t feel cared for in the way I expected to. I felt like everything was moving toward sex, and I was just going along with things instead of actually deciding what I wanted.
I guess I’m wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar, especially anyone who has experienced sexual assault before and then tried to navigate intimacy afterward.

He is 92, clearly lip-syncing and looks like a Disney animatronic performing on stage. Does he owe 100 mil? 200 mil? Did they threaten his entire family? Why is he still performing?

Ok so my sister has a little boy, he’s almost 2 and we see each other pretty often.

Lately I’ve been noticing some stuff thats kinda worrying me. He’s really slow compared to other kids his age, doesnt react much sometimes and drools alot. I know toddlers develop at different speeds and all that, but something just feels off. I made the mistake of googling it and watching a bunch of videos about developmental delays. And now I’m freaking myself out because some of the signs look really similar. The thing is, my sister has never said anything about it. Idk if she’s already talked to his pediatrician or if she thinks everything is normal.

And I feel like such an asshole even writing this because I love that little guy so much... We’re pretty close but I just cant imagine asking her if she thinks something might be wrong with her son. Like how the hell do you even bring that up without hurting someones feelings?

What if she already knows and just doesnt wanna talk about it? Or what if I’m completely wrong and make her worry for no reason? But then I keep thinking, what if I’m right and we’re just wasting precious time when he could already be getting the help he needs? Thats honestly what scares me the most.

My husband says I should mind my own business but I also feel guilty just ignoring it.Has anyone actually been in this situation? Like would you say something to your sister or keep your mouth shut?

I swear being an aunt is harder than I thought sometimes.

What am I supposed to do during sex? I kind of just lay there with my legs in the air or wrapped around him and maybe a few pelvic tilts. I’m not used to missionary and it’s incredible but I don’t feel like I do anything to help.

I also don’t know what do during oral sex. I’ve never liked it before but now I do. I rub his head and make noises.

I just remembered a confession my little brother made to me when we were younger. I have two younger brothers who are two years apart and shared a room for their entire childhood. The younger of the two told me that they had put their mouths on each-other's privates one night. I was pretty disturbed and told him that was incest. I kind of forgot about it afterwards and only now remembered it. Is this normal, curious behavior for younger boys?

I can’t put my finger on it. But all at once there has been a string of what only could be described as “obvious bait” in a post of someone asking a vague tball questions where the answer is “that’s because X gender does Y”. No one has given a shit for the longest time about any of this stuff and suddenly it’s the majority of talking points.

There is a conscious effort taking place to make posts like this. I don’t know for certain. But lately too many interactions online feel off. It feels as if there is an effort to create conflict and separation in online spaces. Something is wrong, and I’m curious if anyone else has felt this way?

I did 3.5 G of blue meanies last month which felt more like one G, and before that I did 3.5 G of golden teacher in July, which felt like 3.5. I want to do another trip soon, but I’m not very aware of the dangers of psilocybin. I am more aware of the positive effects.