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We need to appreciate Singapore and each other, NOW

We need to appreciate Singapore and each other, NOW

The photo shows my CPF. I am 40 years old and unemployed for more than a year. I still have some savings, so I’m not poor. Worst case, my parents give look after me for life. Don’t feel sorry for me. I am not poor. I have no house, I have no spouse. I have no car. I have been bullied my whole life by Singaporeans. Not foreigners. By my fellow Singaporeans. Even when I’m overseas, my fellow Singaporeans bully me. Sinkie pwn sinkie. I am not poor. I do not need any pity.

Many of you have a house, a spouse, a car a job, but still feel poor. And then when I show you my CPF, you run away, you refuse to talk to me. You compare yourself to the rich, and conclude that you are poor. But refuse to compare yourself to poor people. If you compare yourself to rich, you are not rich. It does not mean you are poor. I compare myself to poor people and I know I am not poor. You must compare yourself to poor people to confirm that you are poor. But many of you despise the poor.

Sinkie pwn Sinkie. HR executive said on public TV that Singaporeans are not good enough compared to foreigners, you get upset. But you do not appreciate your fellow Singaporeans. You do not appreciate your Singaporean talents. Why should you be sad when a HR executive says that Singaporeans are not good. You should be happy, because it proves that your fellow Singaporeans have no talent.

You go overseas and post on social media how awesome other countries are. But get upset when MRT breakdown. If you think Singapore sucks, why get upset when MRT breakdown. Or when there is a fire. Or when there is a road accident. Singapore sucks, so bad things should happen. You should be happy when things go wrong, because it proves SG sucks.

You need to be aware, Singapore has very little cultural identity other than speaking English. But many do not want to speak good English. Singlish is a combination of languages found in Malaysia. Hainan chicken rice and Perankan culture originated in Malaysia. We are not long separated from Johor. We are still very much Johorian. Now more and more Chinese companies coming in. You should be happy. Cheap food, cheap goods. National identity who cares?

For those of you who want change, who want positivity, who want hope of a better future: Appreciate Singapore, appreciate your fellow Singaporeans. Stop thinking you are poor unless you really compare yourself to the poor. Or compare yourself to me. I will meet you for coffee and share my life story with you. We need to stop this self-victim mentality or we will keep on bullying one another. We need to stop thinking we are poor or we will keep looking down on each other. We need to start thinking about our national identity, and not always expect government to do it. Government says how Singaporeans can improve, many of you become cynical. How to decide national identity? Or do you want to go back to Johor?

We need to work together, we need to appreciate each other. We need to ignore the negative, and the cynical. Many people are bitter. We need to stop caring about them. We need to stop giving them attention. They are not helping by being cynical, by being condescending. They are insane if they think their cynicism and vitriol can help

We have it good in Singapore. We have succeeded against the odds. And we can go further. If we can go far with bitter people among us, think how far we can go if we have more unity. We need to start seeing the talent in each other. Start seeing the good. Tell HR executives we have talent. We are Singaporeans, we are talented. If a Singaporean struggles, we can help one another. If we can succeed as a small country, why can we not do more? We can. We need to change our mindset. It is up to you now.

The future of Singapore is in your hands.

u/h1ho — 16 hours ago
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China's Manus founders seek $1 billion to undo Meta takeover, Bloomberg News reports

It's pretty interesting to see how China can order a US company to unwind the purchase of another company in Singapore, after it was already complete.

🇺🇸 Meta > 🇸🇬 Manus ❌ 🇨🇳 Government

#SingaporeWashing

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u/MadeInDex-org — 13 hours ago

How do unemployed people in SG spend their time?

Given the news of so many retrenchments nowadays, what do these unemployed people doing to pass their time? And how are they surviving without any source of income?

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u/According_Pickle954 — 2 days ago

Life over

I’m 33 and I honestly feel like I wasted the last 6 years of my life.

Been jobless for a long time, slowly became lazy, unmotivated, gained a lot of weight, stopped taking care of myself and now I barely recognize who I used to be. Financially I’m struggling too and it’s embarrassing even typing this out.

The worst part is I know I’m capable of more, but somewhere along the way I just lost momentum and kept postponing change.

Now I’m at a point where I genuinely want to turn my life around. Lose weight, work again, build discipline, maybe even become someone I can respect again. But honestly I feel overwhelmed because I don’t even know where to start after being stuck for so long.

If anyone here has been through something similar and managed to rebuild their life, I’d really appreciate any advice, tips or even hearing your story. I think right now I just need direction and honesty from people who understand what this feels like.

I’m tired of wasting time. I just want my life back.

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u/TheManChild17 — 2 days ago

Why has ba zhang become so expensive over the years?

Growing up i remember this is like poor man type of food... Over the years it become more expensive than a cai fan meal!

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u/Either_Pie617 — 1 day ago

Most young people seems like nicer, better people?

Except for the low ses ah beng it seems the majority have better manners, eq and less ego than older millennials, gen x and definately boomers!

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u/Either_Pie617 — 2 days ago

SIA Muslim Meal debate

Basically to me it’s a non issue. However certain people in the Muslim community insist on bringing it up time and again. Asking questions upon questions. The facts are clear. Muslim meals have no pork no alcohol no lard and are prepared in a halal kitchen.

When confronted with the facts and cleared by MUIS, it still isnt enough. They will say “oh why not make it clear put it on the website “ etc..

It’s got to a point, where in order to gain cheap engagement and publicity, some will bring it up. They can’t seem to grasp simple understanding and go round in circles in their arguments.

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u/Electronic-Gate-5381 — 3 days ago

Stuck in limbo. Need clarity and assistance.

23M, finished NS, waiting for Uni in Aug

I came from a low-income household single parent household, mother passed when I was younger. Father has just passed away from illness. It is now just me and my younger brother who is currently serving NS.

4 Room HDB was fully paid off and owned by my dad, CPF OA and RA was emptied out, partly because most of it was locked up in the purchase of the flat. Upon checking, he only had left about $10000 in his medisave account, all other bank accounts were also emptied out in his last fight against his illness. That means me and my brother's only inheritance is the flat with about 65 years left on the lease. Savings on the part of me and my brother are in the mid 4 figures each only.

Education expenses should be heavily subsidised by the government via bursaries for me and my brother. Both of us will be entering big3 unis.

Our concern now is how our financial situation will look like for the next 4-6 years before we actually graduate from Uni and begin FT work. I am currently working a job while waiting for uni to begin, will probably be taking up PT work whilst studying to fund my own living expenses, brother will likely be doing the same thing as well when his time comes.
I have explored trying to be a tutor, but I did not take anything STEM related after secondary school, and my secondary school results were not stellar so it has been quite difficult in this aspect.

Any input into how we can overcome the coming financial difficulty would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Ok_Drawer_8913 — 3 days ago
▲ 6 r/SingaporeR+1 crossposts

[Singapore Football] - ICYMI - THE 26 LIONS FOR MNG & CHN MATCH

🧢 National coach Gavin Lee named his squad of 28 for the upcoming international friendly matches against Mongolia (31/5) and China PR (5/6) at the Jalan Besar Stadium.

These fixtures come on the back of the Final Draw for the 2027 AFC Asian Cup, which saw Singapore drawn into Group D alongside Tajikistan, as well as World Cup-bound Australia and Iraq.

More details 📝➡️ https://fas.org.sg/gavin-lee-announces-28-man-lions-squad-for-june-fifa-window (Football Association of Singapore)

u/BOLASEPAKO — 3 days ago

Why so many women hate to eat at hawker centres or coffeeshop for dates?

It is low ses? Rude hawkers? No aircon? Dirty? Noisy? Too cheap?

If its so distasteful maybe government should improve these places who knows can improve birthrate!

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u/Either_Pie617 — 4 days ago

What can my friend do?

I am posting this on a throwaway account on behalf of a friend who is facing a harassment situation.

For a while now, my friend has been receiving a constant stream of anonymous messages on Telegram. These messages heavily criticize their character and behavior, calling them a "shitty person."

The harasser is highly elusive; they use Telegram's secret chat feature or public chats, and they immediately delete their account after sending the messages, making them impossible to track or reply to. There is also no tele handle and no phone number to associate to the account, making it much more difficult to track anything?

My friend has already lodged a police report, but the police have stated they cannot take action, and the case has stalled due to a lack of identifiable leads.

What can my friend do at this point to protect themselves, trace the user, or escalate the matter legally? Any advice on Telegram privacy settings or legal recourse would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Normal_Climate2777 — 3 days ago

Why is it only gen x and boomers call people uncle aunty?

The younger gen call people bro and sis which i feel is more appropiate... Imagine a old fart and gen x karen or ken calling people uncle or aunty! So insulting! These wrinkly fools want to feel young is it?

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u/Either_Pie617 — 4 days ago

Actually whats the purpose in life in Singapore?

Was taking a walk just now in the morning see so many miserable looking seniors some alone even....is this the ending for many average or poor singaporeans?

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u/Either_Pie617 — 5 days ago

Whats with rude hawkers who just put the change on the counter instead of handing it to u?

New trend to have no contact is it? Hygiene purpose or just pure guai lan?

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u/Either_Pie617 — 5 days ago

Actually the low birth rate issue is a chinese problem?

As a chinese singaporean this is my take...

Too materialistic and obessesd with money.

People are generally rude and pretentious, lack of community spirit.

Too pragmatic, transactional and care too much about face.

With such combination of traits is no wonder the chinese in Singapore and Malaysia have probably the lowest birth rate among the different races.. and China is one good example too

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u/Either_Pie617 — 5 days ago