It's so weird

Why do they hate so much the fact many of us attract people naturally and we are hot. it eats them alive to know people are naturally drawn to us. Even other air signs like aquarius hate our natural charisma, something they obvious LACK it's stupid.

I was surprised to see how much hate our Venusian sisters (Taurus) have for us on their sub, but we are sisters so maybe that's just familiar rivalry. We were always the prettier one. 😌

What sign do you think is a Libra hater from Day 1?

Hello everyone. Professional astrologer here.

I have some exciting information to share specifically for people who have Libra Ascendant or planets in Libra, especially Venus. I have been conducting a research and study of real lottery winners and their charts, and wanted to make this post, sharing exciting information that may be useful for people, especially those who have strong 2nd, 5th, 8th and 11th houses in their charts. Those houses are linked to money, lottery and gains.

If we are talking about jackpots, windfalls, massive amounts of money - those are truly destined events, that show up first of all in the person's Solar Arc chart for the year, and are supported and triggered by undeniable transits for that specific time period. Only some people have a destined event like that "promised" in their chart.

But, if you have your Lucky Point (Part of Fortune), or asteroid Tyche (unexpected external luck) in your 2nd, (especially 5th and 8th), 9th and/or 11th house in your chart, you are one of those people who can use precise astrological transits to time the purchase of a lottery ticket. And chances are, sooner or later you will eventually win something (small or decent amounts ranging from $10 - $1000+). I myself have successfully done it so many times - my biggest win has been $500 from a $5 ticket, another time I won $100 from a $5 ticket, and countless times I have won small amounts ranging from $25-$75, when I purchase lottery exactly at those precise times when my Lucky Point (Part of Fortune) or Tyche is activated by a benevolent planet at 0.00 - 0.05 degree orb).

Here is a constructive list of what you need to do to maximize your chances in winning, using precise astrological transits:

1. First of all you have to examine your whole natal chart and find where do you have your Part of Fortune, Jupiter, Venus, asteroids Tyche, Fortuna and also Abundantia. (Without going into too much detail here, of course Uranus too - the whole chart)
2. Examine if you have your money houses linked via their rulers - meaning if your 2nd house ruler is in the 5th, 8th or 11th house, if your 5th house ruler is in the 2nd, 8th, 11th house, if your 8th house ruler is in the 2nd, 5th or 11th. And so on. Also 9th house is in the mix too. If you do, that is already a good and supportive sign showing you have a real potential here.
3. The next step is you have to look at your Solar Arc chart to see what destined events are unfolding in the near future in your chart. (This will show you roughly a year time frame)
4. Find those periods, and then add transit chart and pinpoint more accurate time frames when this energy/event is going to happen. (You can pinpoint to a more precise month or weeks time frame)
5. Then take that specific week and find specific days, and exact times when you have the max best transits happening.

What you need to do, in determining which is the absolute best moment to purchase the lottery ticket, is to use electional astrology technique. If you are lets say in London, UK, look up, in easy words - "moment's chart" for example for August 13, 2026 - and you want to ideally get the moment's chart AC or MC exactly at the same degree where your Part of Fortune or Tyche is. Exact -meaning 0.00 - 0.05 degree orb. Ideally you want AC or MC, but it could also be DC or IC. But that is not enough, you also need to have at least 2, ideally 3 other supportive hits to your good placements in your 2nd, 5th, 8th, 11th or 9th houses. Which you can kind of "create" for yourself, by examining your transit chart and pinpointing exact days when you can gather those 2 or 3 more hits.

That is exactly what I have successfully done so many times for myself. My wins have come from exactly those moments. (In both choosing number tickets, and instant scratch tickets). I have screenshot proof of those winning tickets. I have gathered quite a lot of people in my group who have those "lottery luck" charts, and they constantly win small to decent amounts from the times I have given them for their charts (we have screenshot proof).

The key thing here is that you have to have a chart that indicates this type of thing, to start with.

There are multiple indicators, but some of the most common ones that I see all the time in my research are these:

1. Libra Ascendant, 5th house in Aqua, 8th house in Taurus. Chart's ruler Venus in the 8th house. SO OFTEN. Or Venus in one of those other houses.

2. Jupiter-Uranus or Jupiter-Venus conjunctions, or other aspects that they make, and activated by a transit or Solar Arc Venus, or other benevolent planets, or 2nd, 5th, 8th, 11th house rulers. (Jupiter-Venus conjunction in a sign of Sagittarius - extremely common!)

3. For some reason SO MANY people have a planet at 28 degrees Capricorn.

4. People who have natal Uranus conjunctions with something, or trines, oppositions, even squares. Because Uranus is a surprise and shock bringer, unexpected events, breakthroughs.

5. Pluto in the 2nd, 5th or 8th. Or also Pluto conjunct AC or MC, and activated by a transit or Solar Arc planet.

6. ASTEROIDS!!! Good luck asteroids are VERY SIGNIFICANT! Tyche, Abundantia, Fortuna, Mony in the 2nd, 5th, 8th, 11th or/and 9th too. And very importantly - Part of Fortune (Lucky Point) in one of these houses.

Anyone here who has ever won a lottery (even just a small or moderate win?). Try to use this technique, and tell me how it goes! :)

What are your experiences if you’ve ever dated in this combo?

Is there any hope ?? 😂😂

I've never really been attracted to a Libra.. usually, Taurus or Pieces. I see that you all typically run into issues with Virgos. What has your experience been?

I'll post my placements, but i dont have hers... so it might not mean much :

Sun - Virgo

Moon - Virgo

Rising - Aries

Venus - Virgo

Mars - Gemini

(this post is formatted and generated via ai because there's a lot of based to cover, i sincerely apologise but please read through it once and tell me what you think)

Scorpio man here

I'm reposting this because I'm still completely fucking confused.

I have a female friend who is a Libra and INFJ. We've known each other for years, and our friendship has become extremely close. There is a LOT of emotional intimacy between us, and increasingly, our conversations have this weird romantic/flirtatious undertone.

The problem is that she also calls me her friend/best friend and has said things that make me think she genuinely sees me platonically.

So I genuinely cannot tell whether:

A) she likes me romantically but doesn't want to admit it / is hesitant,

B) she is attracted to me but doesn't actually want a relationship,

C) she just has a very affectionate/flirtatious way of interacting with close friends,

or D) I'm completely overthinking everything.

I've gone through our chats and tried to collect both the evidence FOR and AGAINST.

Some background

We're both pretty emotionally close. She knows a lot about me and I know a lot about her. Our conversations can go from complete bullshit and joking around to extremely deep conversations about emotions, identity, relationships, love, life, etc.

She has described me in some pretty intense ways over the years.

Back in 2022, during a Truth or Dare conversation, she wrote this about me:

> "You are the best haha .....I'm glad with met during tht summer ...I really lyk how sensible u are n mindful of otrs feelings ...n the importance u give to evrythng ....I jus love how humbled n down to earth u are ....n mostly the fact tht u stuck with me thru the worst ....u at really interesting ... evrytym I tlk to u I learn something new bout u ...haha ....I jus love the fact tht we don hve to cross the small tlk session whn we tlk ..I cn jus tell u the bizzare thing n ud still listen .....n ik for a fact ... we'll jus connect if we don see each otr in years ....n god I'm really happy to hve u .....my kinda prsn ..."

That's obviously affectionate, but it could absolutely be friendship.

She also once told me about a guy in her class that she thought was "cool" and that she'd vibe with, and when I asked if it was a crush she specifically denied it and said they'd just be good friends because they vibe.

Interestingly, she then compared that dynamic to us.

So she clearly distinguishes friendship from attraction sometimes.

The flirting is where things get weird

We've developed this whole ridiculous Cinderella/Prince Charming thing.

I call her Cinderella, she plays along with it, talks about her glass heel, pumpkins, horses, chariots, etc.

She doesn't just tolerate the joke either. She actively continues it.

For example, she has literally said:

> "The cinderella will wait today"

and later:

> "The cinderella has to go... Keep my heel n your curiosity with you for me ..will ya?"

Then I'll call myself Prince Charming and she'll refer to me with various romantic/fantasy-style nicknames like Mr Starlord, etc.

At one point she even said:

> "and your roles are adding up day by day"

after I referred to myself as Prince Charming.

And this isn't just a one-time joke. The Cinderella/Prince Charming dynamic has continued for years.

There are also VERY direct compliments

One conversation in 2025 went:

Me: [joking about needing protection because of my looks]

Her:

> "Handsomeness over loading....we need to hide you"

Then I called her adorable and she responded:

> "Haha ...looks like I am now"

I called her adorable and a sweetheart and she replied:

> "Haha ...a good combo ain't it"

Then I joked that she was flirting with me.

She responded with laughing emojis rather than denying it.

The conversation literally ended with her saying:

> "Oh god !! Cinderella has to go"

and continuing the Cinderella/heel joke.

And the next morning she independently messaged:

> "Good morning handsome fella 😂"

I replied jokingly that my charm was getting to her.

She said:

> "Hahaha ig so"

That's probably one of the things that makes me wonder the most.

Another recent example

I asked her what she wanted as a "treat" after something good happened.

She said:

> "Anything for you"

Then when I suggested something, she said:

> "Damnn...sure...we'll make that happen"

I joked:

> "Whatever you need I'm your man"

and she continued the conversation normally.

Again, individually this means absolutely nothing. But combined with everything else, it's confusing as hell.

There's also a weird amount of emotional intimacy

We've had conversations until extremely late at night where we basically dissect our personalities and talk about things we'd probably never discuss with most people.

She has told me things about herself that are very personal.

She once said that she felt like she had known a deeper version of me even before I actually opened up to her:

> "I feel like this is the version I've met even before I met the real you ......I got to see him from a distance and up close"

Then:

> "And I feel honoured and lucky"

This was followed by more of the Cinderella/Prince Charming stuff.

We also regularly have these ridiculously poetic conversations where the language gets borderline romantic.

She has written poetry to me / about things involving our conversations, and she responds very positively when I write emotionally intimate stuff.

For example, I once sent her a fairly romantic poem and she responded that she loved it, specifically praising how intimate, detailed and personal it felt.

She has literally been in my dreams / I have been in hers

Back in 2022 she randomly messaged me:

> "U were in my freaking dream 😂"

In the dream, she came to my house, stayed over and played with my little sister.

When I joked that friendships are going to last when you start dreaming about each other, she responded:

> "Wooh !!! Forever 👊🏽"

and

> "I'mma trouble u for life 😌"

Again, completely compatible with friendship, but still part of the overall pattern.

BUT HERE'S THE BIG COUNTERPOINT

She has explicitly talked about the difference between friendship and romantic love.

In a conversation we had, she basically argued that people can mistake the emotional intimacy of friendship for romantic attraction because a close friend can make you feel seen, understood, safe, important, etc.

She literally said:

> "we mistake deep human connections for love"

and later:

> "there is so much more to human connections than romantic bonds"

She also said that friends can absolutely fall in love, but that she thinks it requires a lot of filtering and understanding before knowing whether it's actually romantic.

Most importantly, she said:

> "if I never find someone it'll mostly be someone I know...cz I can't think of falling for a stranger at all"

So she clearly believes friendship and romantic attraction can overlap, but she also seems very conscious of the possibility of confusing them.

And honestly, that conversation made me MORE confused.

Because she's basically describing our exact situation while simultaneously explaining why someone shouldn't necessarily interpret emotional intimacy as romantic attraction.

She also talks about me as someone who deserves a romantic partner

This is another thing that makes me think maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

During a conversation about someone I was interested in, she told me:

> "you need someone to give all the love you have ....and get all the love you deserve"

and:

> "you have meant for love ma boy ....for love"

Later she said:

> "Trust me you will find someone"

and even:

> "I'll make sure of it"

That sounds VERY much like something I'd expect from a close platonic friend rather than someone secretly trying to be my girlfriend.

On the other hand, why is she so comfortable with all the romantic flirting? 😭

She also has other close guy friends

This is important because I don't want people to blindly interpret everything as flirting.

She once explicitly listed her closest guy friends and said:

> "My closest guy friends ... are you, [another guy], [another guy], [another guy], [another person], [another person]"

She said she was very close to me and another guy, and described the others affectionately too.

She even called her guy friends "puppies."

So it's entirely possible that she just has a naturally affectionate relationship with close male friends.

And here's something else that makes me hesitate

Back in 2022 she literally said during Truth or Dare:

> "I'm not into relationships"

and confirmed that was true.

So she may simply be someone who likes emotional intimacy but doesn't necessarily want to convert that intimacy into a relationship.

That matters.

BUT THEN WHY DOES SHE FLIRT LIKE THIS???

That's my fucking problem.

Because if she simply treated me like a normal best friend, I wouldn't be asking this.

But there are repeated interactions where the energy is:

me: flirts

her: flirts back

me: "you're flirting with me"

her: 😂😂😂

her shortly afterward: "Good morning handsome fella 😂"

Or:

me: Prince Charming

her: Cinderella

me: romantic/fantasy joke

her: actively continues the fantasy rather than shutting it down.

And this has happened repeatedly over a long period of time.

One more thing

I don't think she's unaware of what she's doing.

She's pretty emotionally intelligent and VERY analytical about relationships. She's literally capable of having long philosophical discussions about what differentiates romantic attraction from friendship.

So when she participates in this kind of romantic-coded banter, I'm not sure whether she's:

1. secretly attracted to me,

2. attracted to the idea/energy but doesn't actually want a relationship,

3. just extremely comfortable with me and enjoys the intimacy,

4. deliberately keeping things ambiguous,

or

5. doing absolutely nothing romantic and I'm just a dumbass Scorpio overanalyzing a close friendship.

😂

So Reddit, I need an honest answer.

Does this woman sound like she actually likes me romantically?

Not "she's an INFJ so yes."

Not "she's a Libra so she's flirty."

I want you to judge the actual behavior.

Especially:

Does the Cinderella/Prince Charming thing sound platonic?

Is calling me "handsome fella" meaningful in this context?

What do you make of "anything for you"?

What do you make of her responding to me accusing her of flirting with 😂😂😂 rather than denying it?

Does the amount of emotional intimacy mean anything?

Does the fact that she talks about how friendship can be mistaken for romantic love suggest she has thought about us specifically?

Does her telling me I'll "find someone" suggest she definitely sees me platonically?

Does her having several close male friends make all of this less significant?

And most importantly: if a woman doesn't like a guy romantically, would she normally participate in this much romantic-coded banter over multiple years?

I'm not asking Reddit to tell me what I want to hear.

If this is obviously just a close friendship and I'm hallucinating romantic subtext, please tell me.

Because at this point I'm genuinely fucking lost.

TL;DR: Very close female Libra/INFJ friend. Years of emotional intimacy. Repeated Cinderella/Prince Charming roleplay, calling me handsome, affectionate nicknames, late-night deep conversations, romantic-coded banter, etc. But she also explicitly calls me a friend, has several close male friends, has discussed how deep friendships can be mistaken for romantic love, and has told me I'll find someone who loves me. Does she like me, or are we just two idiots with an unusually intimate friendship?

Hello all 🫶🏻

I am a sun libra, moon taurus, and rising sagittarius.
Lately I talk with a gemini guy whose rising is libra and moon is aries hahah 🥲

He is very funny, totally having an amazing humor that I really fall for.. We met online and live in different countries so we only chat and just last week we had a call and it lasted 3 hours 🥲 It was sooo fun and nice..

The problem is, we tease each other a lot, we flirt meanwhile by teasing but I got real feelings while he is being cautious still.. he knows I fall for him real and he says he likes to talk with me and for the first time he talks like this with someone online so it is new for him too. But he says, this being online is making things hard and he wanna protects himself and he doesn’t wanna hurt me. But I enjoy a lot the conversation we have or the way we talk, but of course it is hurting in the same time he is stopping himself in certain point.

What should I do? 😔 I wanna give in and live it but he doesn’t think same like me..

“I have no problem cutting off people weather they have done me dirty, I have seen their true bad personality or I simply do not like their significant other…. lol whatever the cause is….’ I hold that grudge/ gut feeling and I stick to it and will totally ignore and forget about them. Really if I am generous you get 3 strikes and then you are actually out…. Out…Any other Libras like this?👀😅”

**** I think this explains my post much better and what I meant! Also love seeing everyone’s perspectives from this!

Euphoric_Balance8489 commented this!

“My favorite thing about being a Libra is that I genuinely don't care what anyone thinks anymore. The moment I notice someone draining my energy, I walk away without an explanation, because if they actually cared, they would’ve listened and asked. I’m completely independent in every way. Being a Libra is amazing and gives you such a feeling of freedom. If I were born again, I’d be a Libra all over again.”I up

I kind of stole this from the cancer sub 😬, I’m a cancer rising so sometimes I lurk there! Anyway, what’s your personality type? Mine has shifted over the years, which is interesting.

The first test I ever did I was INTJ , then 3 years ago I was INFJ-T. I just did the quiz again today and I’m INFJ-T again! So maybe, that’s my most dominant energy.

I have some doubts about the accuracy of the test overall because we all have biases and blind spots about ourselves, and I don’t think self-reporting is always accurate.

You can do a free test here.

Which signs have you had the best connections with romantically, and which signs were the most difficult for you?

I know our entire birth charts matter, but I’d love to hear your experiences specifically as Libra women. Bonus points if you know your Moon, Rising, Venus, and Mars! 👀

over the past year i lost a family and a ten year relationship with the mother of my child. now my kid lives two states away i miss him everyday. she abandoned me as i unpacked trauma in my healing journey. i have no hatred or animosity towards her. my goal was to get back to myself and never let anyone look at me like a mad king again. within a years time i have lost so much weight included baggage from another person. i am on the journey to the best shape in my life. i’m have an album coming out this tuesday. i produced recorded wrote and engineered it all by myself. i will also have a bachelor’s degree in two weeks. i came such long way and have to celebrate myself alone. i have been used and disrespected by so many. as i step into a new career and establish myself as the artist im meant to be. i refuse to be broken.

last year on my bday i spent the day crying and doing pushups while writing songs. then i didn’t have the studio set up that i have now. within months after that i had my set up. i kept going after every road block. recently i had a friend tell me my album would be a failure and i must work with him to have an impact. wrong thing to tell an artist. especially a libra. mind you the guy has about 60 songs of mine just sitting on his hard drive. i will wait on no one.

after 8 months of my kids mom debating whether she should move back with me and talking about what’s best for the child. she had her grandma buy her a condo. she dangled my son in front of like a carrot with the push and pull bs. now’s she’s saying how lonnely she is and misses our friendship. i remained in the same apartment she left with my kid from. i was born in the darkness, she merely adopted it. again i have no regrets or bad feelings toward her.

days before mother’s day my mom called to make sure i was giving her a gift. then mocked me as i expressed myself about my kids mom. not knowing she made me who i am. i am not the person to be mocking right now. i haven’t spoken to her since.

as i continue to deal with my hardships alone and in silence i will continue to strive. nothing can break me. all i care about is music and my kid.

i guess i wanted to share my experience with others who may have been going through some of the same shit. PEACE looks good on me. i find it weird the moment i start to put myself first and work on myself i receive so much unwanted critique from others. they don’t see what i see. i’ve outgrown all environments. i’m looking for a job in my field and i got more albums on the way. so to all my sisters, brothers, theys, thems, or others of the scale. keep fuckin pushing.

NOTHING WILL STOP US.

hi guys i’m a libra, cancer rising, scorpio moon and just wondering how some of yall are able to see the glass half empty.
I’ve been in a super apathetic state lately more so bc ive been so tired of feeling so alone. I fear it’s also my libra placement that makes me feel this way-the constant helping others, putting my boundaries aside..i’ve gone burnt out and have now been working on boundaries. Just hard bc i have to be so stern on it, people just wanna take from me fr but also i rather be able to give in the end.
i have people that care about me in my life but tbh i don’t think anyone of them understand me on an emotional level. When it comes to talking about how i feel , how i feel so sad and dreadful about having to get up and live everyday(i don’t wanna die, just tired) -i’ll get someone who’s too neutral(libra moon i love you but..sometimes im not in the mood to keep the peace)
\-i’ll get someone who’s blows things out of proportion and starts bashing on everything
\-i’ll get someone who starts trying to fix my issues and gives me excuses as to why things are the way they are
—\*in ways too sometimes i feel like i also just don’t trust the people around me bc im always helping the people around me…so i kinda find everyone “incompetent”
when all i truly want is someone to just understand and hug me, idk someone who’s actually down to sit with my emotions. i don’t want them to hold on to my feelings or really feeel as much as i do bc it’s a lot . just ya know comfort…
for background -i also grew up an only child, military moving, both parents abusing me physically, mentally, spiritually…they’re fob and i’m 1st gen american so i try to give them leeway but still doesn’t help that im so fucked up as an adult. sorry this is a lot and so mixed around, i’m just so tired and i want things to get better

this is crazy to me, but my friends and i were talking because i recently met a new guy and have formed a crush, turns out he is a libra.

100% of men that i have dated in the past have ALSO been libras. genuinely 100% of my relationships have been with libra men.

why the hell are libra men so charming and smooth? they just have a special grace to them, they are laid back and they feel safe. its insane to me!

i am a capricorn woman. anyone ever had this happen to them?

👉 love ... you can talk to them about anything

👉 hate ... they try to act superior

3 main types of the Libra Sign

libra 1: very social, a little fickle, possibly selfish

libra 2: introvert but outgoing with friends, very intelligent, great sense of humour

libra 3: very serious, introvert, quiet but kind and selfless