r/libra_astrology

Most water signs generalize air signs as not emotional, etc., but Libra is very different from Aquarius and Gemini. Libra is related to Venus, the planet of love and connection, not just the mental level. Libra touches hearts, unlike Gemini. Aquas run away from emotions. Geminis are actually superficial and look for fun, but Libras aren’t like that.

There is something like a Libra mind that I’ve observed in myself and my other Libra friends. We care too much, and that is why we expect things, not selfish things, but ethical principles that we expect our loved ones to obey as we do, like Batman. Then, when we are disappointed, we may detach, but it doesn’t come from being emotionless like Aquas. It comes from anger, care, and a justice response. This is actually caused by the search for deep and true connections, not superficial ones. Calling Libras superficial is itself a superficial thought, made without investigating the Libra mind.

This justice response is our worst thing, and I’m glad that our worst characteristic is this, while Cancer and Pisces are at the top of the serial killer rankings and still claim they are the most empathetic signs. They tend to kill because they are emotional. I think astrology today is very water-oriented, far away from objectivity, and living in a delusional world like water.

Also, Libra weighs every emotion inside. He doesn’t reflect these things, but he doesn’t run away like Aquarius. We may say, “Hey, let’s not fight today,” but it is not running away. We do that not to hurt others. It is not because we are afraid of getting hurt. That is the biggest mistake other signs believe about Libra. In that moment, Libra can also fight, but he stops the fight even when he feels stronger. It is not weakness or being nonconfrontational; it is being the bigger man and having ethical values. We don’t fight when we can. Actually, Libra fights when the opponent is scary. Even if Libra is scared, he pushes himself to fight for his values. This is true bravery.

But everyone sees the kind things Libra does as cowardice. I guess people who lack integrity do that; they just don’t understand why a person would choose not to hurt. When we think about making others happy, we are called people pleasers. By the way, if you know how to please people, you also know how to make them sad and destroy them, but we choose not to. When a Libra chooses the dark path, he can be more dangerous than any Scorpio. We have a very chaotic side, but our inner strength overcomes this. Nobody sees this war inside.

So, saying “you are not fat” to a fat person is received as a lie by low-EQ people, I guess. I don’t even want to discuss this. And a scale can’t weigh something if it runs away from that thing. It doesn’t make sense. Libra senses. It is the only measurement tool in the zodiac. Even when we are being kind and say, “Hey, let’s calm down,” we don’t forget or push away the emotions or topics. Actually, we keep considering them, trying to understand who is right instead of saying, “Hey, I’m always right.”

But again, when you say “I’m always right,” you are considered a good and probably deep person by the astrology community. But when you consider all possibilities deeply, you are superficial? Trying to decide who is right, even when you are also in the situation and have to judge yourself, requires a lot of confrontation, trying to see how you might be wrong, etc.

Since we are egalitarians and humanists, we are against physical violence, but that doesn’t mean we are bad at defending ourselves and our loved ones. Also, that is why we don’t like to attack, even though we have the power to dominate. Nobody expects it since we are kind, but let them see us when we are defending. Even though we choose the nonphysical way, we like to continue until we finish and get a result from an argument. We see it as something to be analyzed and judged in the end.

Justice isn’t weak. It requires abstract thinking, and it is related to philosophy through ethics. We are the higher justice. Also, our networking is sincere, not just chatting like Gemini. We have lots of grudges and insecurities, though, and that makes us real humans, not dolls who travel from art gallery to art gallery looking only for beautiful things and having no other characteristics, as the astrology community believes.

Our networking is beyond humans. It is also with nature and spirits. Libra is the sign of connections, but all water signs are scared to see that Libra is able to connect with spirits too. The Saturn side of it gives a sight beyond time. We are very confronting, sensitive, emotionally intelligent beings. Libra has both emotional and logical sides, unlike Cancer or Aquarius, which only has one of the two. Aphrodite was born in the water, but we are also the justice warrior Themis.

Fish run away, and I believe Babylonians chose symbols to match characteristics. Scorpio is sneaky. Libra is justice. He can see what is right or wrong even when others can’t, when the situation is very complex. And this requires reading people like a book, a high level of empathy, even telepathy, which water signs can’t even comprehend. The only problem is that we want to be good and idealistic, and we don’t want to harm, so we don’t use our insight to harm others, while they use their low-IQ minds to hurt every time. So sometimes they win, but that cheap victory isn’t a sign that we lack something and they have more. It means we have more, like integrity.

The only lesson I learned as a Libra is that sometimes I need to be more flexible, selfish, confident, and nonconfrontational. Everything bad happened because I refused to run away and chose to fight. I didn’t hesitate to get hurt, but I always stopped the fight not to hurt others. If you try to be good while some idiot has no integrity, it is not a fair fight. I was always fair to others because of my high empathy. Yes, Pisces, empathy makes people not hurt others or makes them want others to be happy. It doesn’t make you kill them. That is probably a shocker for you. But I ignored myself.

Our problem is not courage, intelligence, or emotion. I believe it is self-respect. When you don’t have it, nobody sees the real you. They believe water lies.

Don’t forget, Libra is the second sign in the Nobel laureate rankings. Yet when people ask for the three most intelligent signs, Libra is not in their lists. This happens to Libra only. We are air, and air is intellect. It is like making a list of the bravest signs and not putting fire signs in it, or making a list of emotional signs and not putting water signs in it. But this doesn’t happen to them. They are always included in their respective lists. It happens to Libra only.

And since Nobel Prize rankings say the opposite of what the astrology community believes about Libra, we can see that they are highly biased against us even on a very basic topic. Think about what other topics they might be biased about us on.

Aquarius and Capricorn are actually at the bottom in the Nobel rankings. Capricorn, etc., excels in life because when you are rude, you treat others badly and spread fear and respect. We are monkeys after all, very hierarchical. Most signs have their success or “strong” label because of their attitude, not their real strength or intellect. We Libras seem naive and weak because of our kind attitudes, even though we are very strong, smart, morally steady people. Also, we are very cautious.

As a Libra, nothing irritates me more than those who are super opinionated and unwilling to listen or see things from another point of view. It’s so common in our day, particularly with politics.

I can be very opinionated about certain things, but I’m always willing to listen and ask questions about others’ views.

I can’t stand it when people make assumptions, don’t know how to actively listen, or put you in a box because you don’t subscribe to their particular beliefs.

It’s shocking to me how little respect is shown to others these days, and yet it’s all justified because there’s an “us” and a “them” and people are unwilling to accept that people have different beliefs.

I also can’t stand when people criticize you for “not taking a side”. Maybe I can see both sides, or I can at least acknowledge that an issue is complex and there are good points on both sides. Not everything has to be an all out war where everyone has to “pick a side”.

Okay, rant over ✨

This is just my opinion based on my experience with different pisces, male and female.

I am really starting to think that pisces can be vert self-centered and selfish towards others. They secretly make everything about themselves and expect pity when things don't go their way.

Don't get me wrong. A lot of pisces I've met are nice and affectionate, but it's like they have a mask that hides their feelings. When I talk to my pisces friends they complain about everything in their lives. Emotional dump on me, then be quick to say they want to end everything. If it was vice-versa thenni get a "oh you'll be fine" or they dodge answering when I open up. Pisces tend to make it about them even though for me, as a libra, pisces are more respected and adored than me. Like I love pisces sun's but my libra can't handle yall all the time. Don't complain to me if you do nothing to fix your problems and just want to make it about you and no one else.

For pisces on a cusp, especially a pisces-Aries are terrible to deal with as a libra. I've posted about this before so I'm not gonna dump all over it. My scorpio moon hates feeling like my feelings are not being understood, being shamed when I am emotional, or having to force built up tension until I release. Overly avoidant, fail to admit their wrongs, can't handle conflict without blowing someone.

This is just a rant but I feel like libras don't talk much about their opinions on pisces. am I meeting the wrong pisces?

So I recently started dating this male October libra a few months ago but I have known him for years. Anyways he has been nothing but kind, sweet, and consistent which I absolutely adore (I’m also a libra but sep) and unfortunately we are medium distance we do live about 4 hours away from each other so most of our communication is through calling but he did come down this weekend and we had the best time and he was so sweet and loving and talking about how excited we were to see where this goes well anyways the night he went home we ft before bed and he accidentally said I love you but he immediately took it back and was like omg I’m so sorry it was accident and I laughed it off and we went about our night. Well, the next day and all day today he has been so dry. Hasn’t called me babe, hasn’t asked how my day is and is taking a while to respond and when he does again it’s so dry but he has still called me all throughout the day so the effort is there but the tone and affection has like vanished. I can’t tell if it was because I didn’t I love you back but again I figured he didn’t mean it based off his reaction or if he just randomly lost interest. I have asked a couple of times if he is okay and that I have noticed a switch and he keeps telling me it’s fine and to stop tripping. I have never dated a Libra and I really do care about him and don’t want to loose what we have. Any advice? I know I’m also a Libra but I never really pull back like this so I can’t get a good read. Thank you!

I'm a libra 🌞 cap 🌜Virgo ⬆️

I've been on my journey of decentring romantic love in my life since 2024 n I've been very happy n content . There are some people that have showed up out of no where into my radar n often these people are emotionally unavailable, insensitive or broke asf, feels more like they want to be romantically n physically involved with me n I have to take the load of emotionally adjust n fix them. So I've been cutting them off at the slightest clue but I'm not able to understand what's inside me that is showing up like this as my reflection? How do I figure out why am attracting such people?

Like i said I've been very happy n content being alone n infact I'm too comfortable being by myself, I avoid social settings n interactions n only indulge in it when I'm feeling social. And I've read that libra thrives with partnerships but I feel like it's not true for me because two serious long term relationships I had were pretty bad n I couldn't be myself or make any time for my art I was too too too codependent on them n as soon as I broke up with them I've had my glow up n been living my best life.

Please share your thoughts and any other loner libras here ?

My husband and I had a spat over the weekend and my husband (Virgo sun and that’s all I know really since I don’t know the time he was born) said, “you have this way of saying things that mean one thing without actually saying that exact thing and not looking like an a-hole for saying it.

For example, I will be calculated with what I am saying, use all the words to describe him as being an idiot (cuz in the moment he was doing something truly idiotic), but will never actually call him an idiot because I know better than that and I don’t allow others to have an easy thing to use against me such as name calling in an argument.

It made me wonder if that’s a Libra thing. I’ve always been able to articulate myself well when I am confident in what I am speaking about and I’ve been told that my words can eviscerate. It also doesn’t help that I have a large vocabulary (according to both men I’ve dated) and they don’t know half of what I’m saying.

Can any other Libra’s relate?

just like the title. libras are always a part of the cool kids and they get along w just about anyone AND I WANT THEIR LIFE

I WISH I WAS A LIBRA OR HAVE IT IN MY BIG THREE BUT NOOOO god wanted me to SUFFER

my bestie is a taurus + libra moon and shes fucking AMAZING AND INSPIRATIONAL, ive lost count how many men shoot their shot (and rejected ofc)

my boyfriends a libra sun and hes the most charming guy ive ever MET, he speaks like poetry, body of a greek sculpture, and his presence is so fucking magnetic everyone is always drawn to talk to him in social gatherings

honestly he had a fboy phase and i wouldnt have dated him back then but im glad hes actually settling down and i get this sensitive, considerate, beautiful and romantic man who puts me above ALL ELSE and makes it known that im special all the time

okay done rant bye

sincerely a scorpio sun whos been told shes cool but fucking unapproachable so they go to my approachable libra bf to pass on the compliment to me instead

EDIT: a little extra info im a scorp sun, leo moon and aqua rising </3

So I posted this in the Aquarius subreddit as well but would like other opinions.

I’m a libra man and recently been talking to an Aquarius woman. We met almost 3 months ago and have had really great conversations in person and over text. I feel like she’s someone I can talk to for hours and deeply. But there are days where we don’t text or talk for 2-3 days. Though, we still hang in person and make plans. I’m interested in other libras experience with an Aquarius?

Pisces women always jump on Libra men, they always have a crush on a Libra, I swear to God man..

the thing is: I DO NOT GET ALONG WITH THEM.

I just want to meet Geminis and Aquarius women but I never meet one of them.

What is going on here? The only good thing with pisces women and Libra men is the sex, it's really incredible lol, but everything else sucks, the communication is awful.

have u ever met another taurus? a friend or a family? i only know one and we dont vibe that much. idk if they really have this narcisstic, main character energy or just this person. please let me know ur thoughts.