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Everyone Says Baby Boomers Grew Up in a Better World. I Think the Real Difference Was Something Else.
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Everyone Says Baby Boomers Grew Up in a Better World. I Think the Real Difference Was Something Else.

I've been seeing a lot of discussions about how different younger generations are from Baby Boomers. Usually it turns into an argument about who had it harder or who had it better. But I think there's something people overlook.

Growing up in the 1950s and 1960s meant learning certain things without anyone actually teaching them to you.

Here's what I mean. If you wanted something, you waited for it. Sometimes months. If something broke, you tried fixing it before buying another one. If you were bored, your parents told you to go outside. And if you left the house, nobody expected to know exactly where you were every five minutes.

And here's something I find interesting. Baby Boomers went from rotary phones and typewriters to smartphones, online banking, and artificial intelligence, all within one lifetime. Yet somehow they're often portrayed as the generation that can't adapt to change.

But I think the biggest difference comes later in life. When you're young, you spend so much time trying to earn more, buy more, and impress people. By the time you're 65 or 70, you might realize that having more time, fewer obligations, and a few good people around you matters far more than most of the things you spent decades chasing.

Of course, not every Boomer had the same childhood, and I'm not suggesting everything was better back then. There were plenty of things that weren't. But I do think growing up in a world without instant everything gave people a different perspective.

I put together a video exploring seven of these things, with a bit of humor along the way, if anyone's interested:

7 Things Baby Boomers Know That Younger Generations Don't

For those who grew up in the 1950s, 60s, or even 70s, what's one thing you learned growing up that you think younger generations don't really experience anymore?

u/Comfortable-Move3004 — 4 days ago
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Making Friends Over 60

I’m 71. After my husband passed away 3 years ago, my doctors advised me to try to stay active and make some new friends. I had been his caregiver for 2 years, couldn’t leave him alone, so became pretty isolated. I tried making friends with my next door neighbor (75F) who moved in during his illness, and doesn’t know anyone in the area. She wasn’t really interested in being friends. We have the same interests and philosophies. She lives with a guy, not married. He is a piece of work. He loudly told me one day he is apolitical because they are all alike and nothing they do affects him personally. I expect her reluctance to be friends is due to him. I also tried with a widow (75 I think) who I started to walk with in the morning. She doesn’t remember yesterday’s conversation and changes her age weekly. She’s also very negative. I listen to all her complaints about her health but she doesn’t really listen to anything I say. I’m discouraged. Has anyone had any luck making friends over 60?

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u/edgerton2026 — 4 days ago
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In my 20s, I was often saddened by the thought of my parents growing older and inching closer to death. Now, at 40, I find myself feeling much less sympathetic, having fully realized that they’ve condemned me to the same fate.

I suppose you could call it “the gift that keeps on giving.” Funnily enough, I’ve chosen not to pass the gift along 😆.

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u/Call_It_ — 4 days ago
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Did anyone want a baby right close to 40 then not do it, or you did, and how did that turn out?

Long story short I have a teenager and he's my only child. I started really wanting a baby in my late 30s hubby is on the no side but willing if I'll never forgive him.

Idk I'm just trying not to want one but I value family and feel like mine has only been getting smaller. I was a single mother for years and I know how hard kids can be and I still want a baby.

Anyway please share your experiences did you follow thought or pass on the panic baby and are you happy or regretful?

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u/o0PillowWillow0o — 4 days ago
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How do you cope with loneliness?

I know we all feel lonely sometimes at this old age. Sometimes I feel like life shouldn’t be like this. But how can you overcome this feeling?

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u/Maleficent_Sky6982 — 4 days ago
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I am depressed

I am 28 and recently I noticed the skin on my face lose for the first time in my life.

This depressed me very much and even more knowing that there is nothing that I can do about.

Now I regret not sleeping and eating well. I hate myself.

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u/AngelBryan — 3 days ago
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What if the real goal isn’t living to 100, but still feeling like yourself at 80?

Okay so y'all must have seen me lurking in here and yeah I have been lurking here and reading a lot abt female life span and most of those talk abt how women live longer than men but I find myself wondering about something else, how many of those extra years are spent in good health?

Things like muscle strength, bone density, cardiovascular health, cognitive function, and hormonal changes can all influence how we age. Yet most conversations about longevity seem focused on adding years rather than making those years healthier and more independent.

I’m especially curious about how much our everyday habits in our 20s, 30s, and 40s might influence our health decades later—and how much is shaped by genetics or factors outside our control.

If you could preserve just one aspect of your health as you age, what would it be: physical strength, memory, mobility, hormonal health, or something else? And what do you think women should start paying attention to much earlier?

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u/mainpareshanhu — 4 days ago
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Flourishing After 50

For those in midlife or beyond, I'm curious:What gives you a sense of purpose today that didn't 10 or 20 years ago?Has your answer changed over time?I'd love to hear people's stories.

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u/Timely-Scratch-8953 — 6 days ago
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Exit Plan

Maybe this is just a vent. Anyone one else thinking of simply checking out when getting to the point of requiring skilled nursing? I’m doing ok now. A fit 63 yo widow. But honestly as I look at how my dad spent his last few months in skilled nursing with his dementia, and now that I’m faced with caregiving for my mom (which I’m trying like hell to wrap my mind around after caring for my husband during his cancer journey), I feel like I don’t want to want to be around when I get to that stage of life. It stresses me out thinking about upending my life to care for my mom in another state, and I’m already resenting it. I don’t want my son to face that crap with me. I want to find a way to check out and spare us (family and friends) the expense, stress and drama.

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u/Which_Material_3100 — 12 days ago
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Didn’t know pubes turned gray

I’m a 35 year old female. Had no idea this was a thing.. it makes sense because the top of our heads get gray hairs… was absolutely shocked when I was looking the mirror naked the other night and couldn’t miss about 6 gray hairs down stairs…. It’s kind of bittersweet… to know I’ve made it this long.. but then to realize that I’m aging regardless if I feels like I am..

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u/Alarmed_Gap_8387 — 12 days ago
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What is one thing about life you understand better now than you did at 30?

Looking back, I think some lessons only make sense after you’ve lived through certain experiences.
What is something you understand about life now that you wish you’d understood much earlier?

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u/Grey_the_day — 11 days ago
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The FDA have recently announced that they are adding aging and longevity to be included in their agenda.

The FDA are officially adding aging and longevity as a focus point for research and medicine.

Thought I would share for any of those who want to see aging as a treatable condition!

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u/Ill_Mousse_4240 — 11 days ago
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Does grief age our faces?

I found out about the husband's emotional affair back in July. The person that I have seen in the mirror these last days looks a lot different than the one before. My neck shows extra skin, my eyes look inflamed and at the same time a bit droopy. I am 49 years old and always thought I looked younger for my age, it's not the case anymore. Could it be it was just the time to start showing more signs of aging?

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u/Pedagoga — 12 days ago
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Do you have a plan for how you're going to age, or are you just taking it a day at a time?

Not a financial-planner pitch. I mean health, housing, friendships and what you want more of out of life at this stage. I've been told "be intentional " a lot but curious as to who actually has a plan and what that looks like in real life. Thanks for the shared wisdom!

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u/ShanaTheWaldenU — 12 days ago