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On Friday they’re driving back to his village to surprise his mother with the car and my daughter, because mom knew nothing about the plan to buy the car and she and my daughter haven’t met yet.

Having this vehicle is really going to change all of their lives, as his income will really help my daughter and him in their life together, and even if he can only afford to give his mother $25 a month, for someone in a very poor Maasai village that amount will dramatically raise her standard of living. (He’s lived in an apartment in a town some hours away for some years now, but well-paying jobs are almost impossible for Maasai due to corruption, nepotism and tribalism, and he was never going to be able to afford such a vehicle on his own, let alone the two cows he needs for the down payment of the bride price when they get married next year! 🤷🏻‍♀️)

Edited: I left out the terms! The repayment terms that we set up are that he’ll make monthly payments to the education fund I set up for the children in her [extended] family for a period of 10 years, which will cover the majority of their direct academic and indirect related out-of-pocket expenses. At some point the older children will hopefully graduate from university and will be able to get good enough jobs that they’ll be able to help the younger ones who are still coming up, and I know that my daughter and her and husband will do everything they can to help them.

I’m glad this was thought of, because last year, by calling virtually everyone in my mother’s address book I raised enough money to cover all of the academic fees for almost two years for the children who are not already on scholarship, plus all of the out-of-pocket expenses for all of the students. But as of now we don’t have enough money to send any of them back next year and I’m worried about where the money will come from for that, other than the little bit he would have repaid by then.

The original courageous Freedom Riders movement began in 1961.

The first group, organized by Congress of Racial Equality (CORE), had 13 original Freedom Riders:
• 7 Black riders
• 6 white riders

They left Washington, D.C. on May 4, 1961, riding interstate buses into the Deep South to challenge segregation in bus terminals after Supreme Court rulings had already declared it unconstitutional.

After brutal mob attacks in Alabama, including the firebombing of a bus in Anniston and savage beatings in Birmingham and Montgomery, more activists joined. The movement quickly expanded beyond the original 13.

By the end of 1961, more than 400 Freedom Riders had participated across the South. Many were arrested and sent to Mississippi’s notorious Parchman Prison.

Hezekiah Watkins
At just 13 years old, Watkins became the youngest Freedom Rider ever arrested. His involvement happened almost by accident when he went to the Jackson, Mississippi, Greyhound station to see the riders arrive. In the chaos, he was swept up by police and sent to the notorious Parchman State Penitentiary. Initially placed on death row to intimidate him, he spent several days in the prison before being released. This traumatic experience did not deter him; he went on to become a lifelong activist, dedicated to educating others about the struggle for justice in Mississippi.

Joan Trumpauer Mulholland
A rare figure in the movement, Mulholland was a white woman from a privileged Southern background who turned her back on social expectations to fight for racial equality. By the time she joined the Freedom Rides, she was already a seasoned activist involved in sit-ins. In 1961, she was imprisoned in Parchman for over two months. She later became the first white student to enroll at Tougaloo College, a historically Black institution, and was a primary organizer for the 1963 March on Washington. She famously survived a near-lynching during the Woolworth’s lunch counter sit-in.

Ameen Tuunagane (Willie James)
Known during the movement as Willie James, Tuunagane was a relentless civil rights organizer and Freedom Rider. He was part of the waves of activists who traveled to Jackson, Mississippi, to challenge Jim Crow laws. His work extended far beyond the buses; he was deeply involved in voter registration drives and community organizing, often operating in high-risk areas where the threat of police and vigilante violence was constant. His commitment focused on the intersection of political power and basic human dignity.

Carol Ruth Silver
A recent law school graduate at the time, Silver joined the Freedom Rides to put her legal principles into practice. She was arrested in Jackson and, like many others, served time in Parchman Penitentiary. During her incarceration, she kept a secret diary on scraps of paper, documenting the harrowing conditions and the psychological tactics used by guards. Her later career was defined by this experience; she became a prominent lawyer and politician in San Francisco, continuing her advocacy for civil rights and educational reform for decades.

Kredelle Pettway
Pettway was a dedicated activist who participated in the movement during the height of the 1960s racial tensions. As a young woman, she joined the ranks of those demanding the desegregation of public facilities in Alabama and Mississippi. Her contribution highlights the essential role of local youth and women in maintaining the momentum of the movement. She faced the constant threat of the Ku Klux Klan and state-sanctioned violence, standing firm in the belief that the "separate but equal" doctrine was a moral and legal failure.

Mother and son

Happy Mother’s Day! 🌷
Wishing all the incredible mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, and mother figures a beautiful day filled with love, appreciation, peace, and joy. Thank you for the strength, sacrifice, wisdom, and kindness you bring into the lives of those around you. 💐