42F Chennai, childfree, hoping to find something real
Dating apps sucked, so trying my luck here🤞
Am 42f, never married and I know clearly what I want..because I know for sure what I don't want, if that makes sense :)
Looking for a straight man between 38 to 48, monogamous and preferably in South India.. cos I live in Chennai. Open to distance for the right connection. Someone who has never married or is legally divorced.. as long as you don't have kids. And are and want to remain childfree by choice. This is a non negotiable!
Not looking for anything casual or 'let's see where this goes'. Like to genuinely get to know someone, build a relationship to eventually get married. I take things slow so am not gonna jump into anything, at the same time don't want to endlessly chat and date for years.
What am looking for is how the relationship feels.. fun and safe! Ridiculous fun banter, effortless conversations, curiosity about each other, sharing stories, making each other laugh, being silly, talking about something meaningful at 11pm and also being happy doing absolutely nothing together.
Someone who's willing to communicate, be patient, understand each other's triggers, listen without judgement and get to know each other's love languages. (bonus points if you know what they are)😺
I value emotional maturity, empathy, openness, playfulness and respect. I'm big on reciprocity and conversations.. don't want to be the only one keeping a conversation alive or making efforts and planning things.
A little about me:
Am an entrepreneur, also having corporate experience. Currently on a sabbatical and enjoying the slow life. Love nature, art, travel and good experiences. Big time animal lover! ❤️
Fluent in Hindi and English, express myself and my feelings best in them. 😃 I understand and speak Tamil but it's not my comfort language.
I've been told I don't look my age, maybe cos of good genes, also cos am barely even 5ft.. not short, just fun sized with plenty of personality 🤪
I don't drink, smoke or do recreational drugs and prefer someone who doesn't either. If you have tried it all and are done with it completely, it's fine too. But if these still are part of your lifestyle then we're incompatible.
If this resonates with you and you are also looking for this kind of connection, would love to hear from you. But please.. something more than just a hi, hello or hru to start a conversation! 😄