u/Content_Classic9776

Hi I’m in the UK and had my right eye done last Friday. Surgery went well and I have pretty good vision in that eye (although surgeon left some behind due to position on the eye which will need some laser at a later point). Healing is good and I’m using the drops fine.

I have high myopia (I was around -6 in both eyes prior). I’m due to have my second eye done they say around 6 weeks after the first - I have a follow up with my optician 4 weeks post op but I don’t have a date for the second eye yet.

I work full time from home using screens. I’m currently off sick following the surgery. I’m finding the difference between my eyes completely disorienting and I can’t use screens or watch tv etc (I’m writing this by closing my operated eye and bringing the phone up to my left eye). I need reading glasses for reading in my right eye)

What do I do about work? I tried taking a lens out of my old glasses but that didn’t work. I do have contacts and wearing one was slightly easier to see, but I haven’t been able to tolerate them for long periods for years due to dry eyes. But I suppose I could wear one for work until the second op (which could be ages away). But I know that will be rough.

Would staying off until the second op be reasonable?

Just finished this and a few things just don’t add up.

I can’t understand why he told her. He only knew her for 2 months and yes it was a whirlwind romance and they got engaged really fast but to confess something like that so early was bizarre. He had literally committed the perfect crime - no witnesses, no suspicion on him, no clues anywhere. 3 years and no one had the slightest clue what happened.

It wasn’t as if he wanted to unburden his soul out of guilt - he showed no remorse or compassion for the guy he killed. He said it was the man’s life or his and blamed him for being there in the first place. He wasn’t weighed down by the guilt, and he had his twin brother he could talk to about it if needed. They were in it together. He didn’t need to bring anyone in, never mind someone he barely knew.

And for him to trust her after police suddenly arrest him out of the blue when prior to telling her there was no suspicion on him whatsoever. No one was looking at him, and then when they are digging in the exact spot when no one else but her knew where it was and he still trusted her? And the fact she asked for his pin location right before the raid and he still never suspected her?

Her behaviour after was not that of someone desperate to get away. She still wanted him after all that. She took him home to meet her parents and endangered everyone. It’s just not the actions of someone in fear of their safety which anyone would be knowing what this virtual stranger did. She then continued the relationship and discredited herself as a witness and cost the family real justice because he totally murdered that man. Watched him slowly die like one of the animals he hunted then buried him without a second thought. No one in their right mind does that or stays with someone who did after 2 months of knowing them.

I think she supported what he did and was on his side, maybe even enjoyed the drama, then on a whim called the police (maybe high on drugs) and was committed after that.