Should I file?
I’ve been with person for 6 years. They control everything that I do. From the clothes that I wear, to who who I hang out with, to when I go to bed, and to how many alcoholic drinks I have— I know it seems like a stupid question, but at what point is enough is enough? They are a doctor and I am a stay at home wife (we are attempting to get pregnant)
I have tried to leave a dozen times but they always stop/permit me from leaving and I really don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve tried working to be financially independent but that doesn’t go well. Open to advice. Please
Example of control: wont let me wear tops that show cleavage, won’t let me go out with a friend without them, cannot travel to see family without them. I was able to get employment through the clinic they practiced at (only job they were okay with, which didn’t last due to issues) I can’t stay up/do other hobbies of my own when they go to bed— I have to go to bed WITH them and if I’m not tired, I have to wait until they’re dead asleep to sneak off into the living room to watch TikTok or get on here to scroll.