u/CookieQrust

First photo: Natal chart in inner wheel, 2025 SR in outer wheel
Second photo: SR 2025 alone

Hi! I’m an astrology newbie (literally been learning for only a few days haha!) and I’m wondering if I missed out this year. My birthday is in August. This was my solar return for 2025, but I’m not sure why it feels inaccurate. Aside from having immensely good grades, my life has feel stagnant this past year :/ from my understanding, I’m supposed to relate my ascendant for my SR to my natal chart, but my ascendant is in my 11H… the opposite of friendship and community happened to me - I left a lot of my old friends behind because of toxicity. I’ve also been less determined this year, I have been more anxious. Did I miss out? Have I gone about this year wrong? I want to know what I can do better to make the most of the last few months if anything. Thanks in advance :)

Okay so let me first preface this by saying that the extent of my knowledge in astrology is knowing my big 3 and only recently my big 6, so I don’t really know much about charts. My mom also had a friend that read my chart when I was 4 years old and told her that I’d be her lucky charm.

My friend told me about solar return charts after finding out that we’re both leos and I thought it was cool! So she sent me a link to fill up and see my chart. She wanted to put her 3 years of studying into practice so she asked me to send it to her but she got upset? She said these, specifically:

1. Will get blackmailed and harassed (I’m being harassed by toxic people from the past already. or was? idk, so this made me a bit anxious lol)

2. Should hide from the spotlight or else I’ll mess up big time, wear more subtle clothes, don’t travel and put creative inspiration on the backburner (I said I was planning to take an exchange trip in Europe, also wanted to pick up one of my musical hobbies again)

3. Do not trust my intuition and do not welcome new friends (she knows I tend to attract codependent people who like to idealize me)

4. Beware of boyfriend cheating

5. Health will be worse, reduce physical activities outdoors (I’m already experiencing health problems)

6. Forgot what it was but she told me something about my birth chart telling me that I have to conform to society’s standards in order to be more lucky, or live a private life if I plan on “being myself” (not really sure what she meant by this. When I asked, she said “just being you in general”. Might be true - I’m an introvert and don’t confine myself in spaces when I’m not comfortable lol)

Some of these have made me feel off. I also have anxiety in general so yes a tad scared but not quite because of what she directly said, just an automatic response. But I am a hard believer of seeking more info from different perspectives, especially if something doesn’t feel right though, so - what are your guys’ thoughts? :)