u/Cool-Afternoon-974

He slashed my car tires because I wanted some alone time and promised to pay me back the next day and never did. He called the cops on me when I kept asking for the money outside his door saying I'm crazy and there is no money that he owes me. Cops said I need to move along or they will arrest me. He lied to my face and asked me to pay half the cost of a new vacuum cleaner from his workplace which he gets for a discount. I gave him 300 dollars. I later looked up the vacuum cleaner at his workplace's website and it sold for 200 dollars. He lied saying it was 600 dollars and kept the remainder of my money! None of his money went towards it!. He totaled my car and said he will pay me back one day and buy me a brand new one. I had to pay to get my stuff out of a totaled car. 🙄 I was done with this I finally left him after I found someone better to be with. I told him I have a new man and he didn't care and said we were never even together after 4 years. I was 22 and never again will I do that lmfao. These type of people don't change. I seen him only feel bad for totaling his grandparents car and one of them died like a week later probably from stress. I remember dismissing his feelings and changing the topic and I'm glad I did. Fuck you.

Moved to Florida and have to deal with my father in law now. I thought this wouldn't happen. Although he's done so much for us I personally don't like his dismissive attitude or personality. I take notice when he doesn't seem to care when my husband is talking. My husband could be complaining about something and his dad almost seems as if he's on the verge of yelling at my husband to shut up. Yet he complains every second of everyday himself. He thinks he has that right because he is old. The other day he complains to the woman on the phone that he has to pay to get a ride to get to his rented car. In my head, I'm telling myself "Yes! Just like everyone else." Then he points out his age to the woman as if that will change her mind while she's just following policy. He yells at his Asian wife who is very quiet and then mocks her. No idea why he isn't single and alone. I was taking down the curtains in my room because my husband doesn't want them anymore. His father has the nerve to yell at me to put them back up if my husband hasn't bought new curtains yet to replace them. "I don't see the logic in that." Says this same phrase 3 more times in a span of under 10 min. He was mad at my husband but seemed to be taking it out on me. Having a house party, his wife is cutting up papaya for dessert. I ask everyone if they like papaya to which some people actually say no. I agree and say it's an acquired taste and point out that my sister HATES it. My father in law chimes in and says "Well that's her problem." Not aware that other people in the same fucking room just said they don't like papaya yet they're still serving it and not offering any other options. His cousin is literally right next to him tasting it and saying it tastes like barf and he STILL doesn't notice. He complains about his neighbor mowing the lawn almost everyday and says "people are crazy, everyone is, they're just doing things to feel less crazy." Huh, I bet he has no self-awareness, then.