I’ve noticed a funny contradiction. Many of the men here support premarital intimacy and want to have sex before marriage, and complain about being lonely, but at the same time want an untouched wife? Who are these women have sex with? Other men of course! All women and men would be pure virgins if every man decided to not participate in sex before marriage anyway.
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According to this twitter thread https://x.com/yashraajsharrma/status/2049784323151413413?s=46
Apparently, not having children and a family violates pitra rinn, debt to the ancestors, and will lead to extreme pain in future lives. Initially I was sceptical but his arguments are all sound, and make sense.
As someone who has lived in UK and Canada, trust me Indian women are no where near the degeneracy level in those countries. Average twenties woman there already has 20+ bodycount. Divorce rate above 50%. Most Indian women I have met are quite religious and pure. In fact, men are the ones who are desperate for premarital sex and are less religious. I feel like people are generalising all women based on a small subset of tier 1 cities. Also, if you are watching porn and using dating apps for fornication, you have no right to criticise Indian women for being degenerate or promiscuous
Also just curious if you want to get married or not, and which methods you are using to find your wife?
Just curious, I personally want to get married and have 2 children but I need to make sure I find the right wife. Nowadays, too many horror stories especially in urban areas
Seems like on national speed limit 60 roads, I am regularly having to overtake multiple cars doing around 40mph. My car has around 150hp (SUV) which is good enough but it’s getting very annoying. I think part of the problem is that people drive too closely to car in front so they can’t see far ahead enough to plan an overtake.
Why or why not? Also, what methods are you using to find a wife? Family, dating apps, arranged marriage? Just curious, I feel like the birth rate is going to drop significantly in the future.
In my experience, the system is more equal than dating but still massively benefits women. I see so many unemployed, 5ft BA degree women getting high quality lifestyle upgrade by marrying a man with stable career. In a dating marketplace, it would be much harder, because there is no guarantee of commitment.