u/Cool_Cucumber_8053

2 men in my life. A is like a soulmate, the forbidden fruit I don't rush to pick. B is interested in me sexually, but A is in my mind a lot. I'm considering focusing on B. Both A and B have sun conjunct my node: A to my NN and B to my SN.

Which synastry seems healthier, long term?

Note: A is 22 years younger, B is 9 years older. Lol.

So long story short, a person I've known for many years is now divorced and suddenly is hitting on me. I always thought of this person as an acquaintance as we met at a previous workplace. This person now invited himself to visit me, wants to hang out and what not. I'm OK with being single and it's been years since I had a relationship. I wasn't even feeling attraction but there's something there I can't put into words, like a subtle chemistry. I'm in blue for reference. Is there a synastry indication for a worthwhile connection? Tyia.