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Hi everyone,

My sister recently secured AIR 1805 and has been allotted her 13th preference, AIIMS Guwahati, for B.Sc. Nursing. Since we are from Rajasthan, it is quite far from home and we are a bit hesitant. I want to know the ground reality of the college before taking a final decision

How are the academics and clinical exposure for nursing students there?

How is the hostel infrastructure and mess food?

Is the campus and surrounding area strictly safe for female students?

Overall, is it worth moving this far, or should we consider dropping this option?

Any insights from current students, alumni, or anyone who knows about AIIMS Guwahati would be really helpful. Thanks!

Hlo guys , my sis got AIR 1805 , but got 13th preference in list which is AIIMS Ghuwati. It is far from Rajasthan.

My question is it safe there and what about the environment and study or we should drop the college???

Any student pursuing there?

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24M from Rajasthan and have completed an M.Sc. in Physics from a Central University.

However, I honestly feel that I have very weak fundamentals and almost no practical skills. During college, I relied heavily on my smartphone and shortcuts to get through exams, and now I regret not actually learning the subjects properly.

At this point, I struggle with even basic Class 11 Physics numericals. I also haven't studied seriously for several years, so my ability to concentrate and study consistently has become very poor.

I have approximately one year to become financially independent, and I want to use this year seriously.

I'm considering government-sector careers such as:

SSC

Banking

Teaching

Other exams/jobs that someone with an M.Sc. Physics can realistically prepare for within a year

My main question is: If you were in my position, what career path would you choose and how would you use the next 12 months?

I joined a library today because I want to start over, but I'm honestly confused about where to begin.

I don't need motivational quotes. I'd really appreciate practical advice from people who have gone through something similar:

1. Which government exam/career should I target?

2. Is one year enough if I study consistently from scratch?

3. Should I focus on SSC/Banking/Teaching or something related to Physics?

4. How would you structure the first 3 months?

5. What skills should I build alongside exam preparation as a backup?

I know I have wasted a lot of time, but I'm 24 and I'm ready to work seriously now. I want to make the next year count.

Any honest advice from people who have actually cleared these exams or rebuilt their careers would be greatly appreciated.

I’m a 24-year-old guy from Rajasthan, and I feel like I am slowly dying from the inside. I genuinely don't know how to get my life back on track, and I need a safe space to vent and ask for advice from fellow men who might have hit rock bottom and bounced back.

I recently completed my M.Sc. in Physics from a central university, but the ugly truth is I cheated my way through it using my smartphone. I have zero skills. I couldn't even solve a basic Class 11 numerical today.

But my academic failure is just one part of the problem. Here is what my current reality looks like:

1. The Physical Decline:

During my university days, I used to be a highly active, competitive boxer. But I was diagnosed with Grade 2 Varicocele. It caused my testosterone to drop significantly, and the mental toll of it completely broke me. I haven't worked out in over 2 years. I’ve gone from being an athlete to being completely sedentary and lethargic.

2. The Mental Rot & Unhealthy Escapes:

Because of the continuous stress, I have developed severe brain rot. I can't stay away from my phone for even a minute. Whenever I try to sit in silence or close my eyes, my racing thoughts disturb me. To numb this anxiety, I’ve fallen into a cycle of compulsive masturbation and mindless scrolling. It's a cheap dopamine escape, and I hate myself for it, but I struggle to break the loop.

3. The Burden of Responsibilities:

The pressure on me right now is suffocating. My father is unwell, which means the responsibility of taking care of the house, managing our farm/plot, and looking after the family has suddenly fallen entirely on my shoulders. On top of that, I have a strict 1-year deadline to crack a government exam and secure a job to support them.

The last time I studied deeply was in Class 10, over 7 years ago.

What I did today:

I finally dragged myself out of the house and joined a local library. But sitting there, staring at the books, I realized my attention span is completely destroyed. I don't know how to concentrate anymore.

I need advice from this brotherhood:

Dealing with the Physical Aspect: Has anyone here dealt with Varicocele and low testosterone? How did you mentally cope with it and get back to working out after years of being sedentary?

Rebuilding Discipline: How do I fix this severe dopamine addiction/phone dependency? How do I train my brain to sit with my uncomfortable thoughts without reaching for my phone or using masturbation as an escape?

Handling the Pressure: How do you guys deal with the overwhelming weight of being the "man of the house" when you yourself feel broken inside?

I don't want sugar-coated motivation. I need practical advice, systems, or just hearing from someone who survived a similar phase. I have 1 year to save my life.

Thank you for reading.

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I’m a 24-year-old guy. I recently completed my M.Sc. in Physics, but I need to be brutally honest with myself and this sub: I relied heavily on shortcuts and my smartphone to pass my exams. I didn't actually build any real study habits during my degree.

Now that my Master's is done, I feel completely stuck. Even with a Science degree, my basic math and calculation skills are practically zero right now. The last time I actually did any deep, focused studying was in Class 10, over 7 years ago.

My Current Reality:

Zero Attention Span:I have a severe smartphone addiction. I can't stay away from my phone for even a few minutes, and my brain constantly craves cheap dopamine.

The Deadline: I have immense family pressure and a strict 1-year window to secure a job and become financially independent.

What I did today:I finally took a step and joined a library near my house. But sitting here, I realize I don't even know how to study for competitive exams anymore.

I have decided to target Bank Exams (IBPS / SBI) because I've heard the recruitment cycle is completed within a year. I am ready to put in consistent hard work for the next 365 days, but I need a direction.

My questions for the seniors and selected candidates here:

1. The Reality Check: Is 1 year genuinely enough to crack SBI/IBPS PO or Clerk from absolute scratch, especially if my Quant/Maths foundation is not very weak?

2. Starting Point: What should be my exact Day 1 step? Which YouTube channels, teachers, or platforms are best for absolute beginners in Quant, Reasoning, and English?

3. Rebuilding Focus:For those who struggled with phone addiction or poor concentration, how did you train your brain to sit for 6-8 hours in the library? What restriction systems (apps/dumbphones) actually work?

4. The Next 30 Days: If you were in my shoes, exactly how would you structure your daily routine for the first month?

I don't need motivational speeches; I've watched enough of them. I need a strict, practical roadmap and harsh reality checks. Please help me get out of this phase.

I’m a 24-year-old guy from Rajasthan. I recently completed my M.Sc. in Physics from a good Central University, but I need to be brutally honest: I cheated my way through all my exams using my smartphone. I honestly don't know how I passed.

Now that my Master's is done, I feel completely stuck and useless. I have zero real skills. Even though I have a Master's in Physics, I wouldn’t be able to solve a single Class 11 numerical right now.

Here is my current reality:

1 -- Peak Brain Rot: I can't stay away from my mobile phone for even a single minute. My attention span is destroyed.

2--Mental Health: I can't sit in silence or close my eyes to think because my own thoughts disturb me. The continuous stress has led me to terrible coping mechanisms, and I am deeply engaged in a masturbation addiction just to numb my mind.

3---Physical Health: I used to be a good competitive boxer during my university days. But I was diagnosed with Grade 2 varicocele, which caused a drop in my testosterone. I haven't worked out in over 2 years, and my body feels totally lethargic.

4--- The Pressure: There is massive family pressure on me to get a job, and I have a strict 1-year deadline.

The last time I actually did any deep, honest, focused studying was in Class 10, over 7 years ago. Despite all this mess, a part of me still believes I have the guts to turn my life around if I put myself under continuous pressure.

What I did today:

I took a small step and joined a library near my house today. But now that I am sitting here, I am completely lost and stuck on what to do next.

What I need from you guys:

I just want to clear my mind and crack a government exam (Banking, SSC, Teaching, etc.). I am ready to do consistent hard work for the next 365 days.

Which government job is realistically achievable in 1 year from scratch?

How do I fix my focus, rebuild my attention span, and get over this brain rot?

Has anyone here bounced back from a similar rock-bottom situation?

Guys, please help me get out of this phase. I feel like I am dying slowly from the inside. Any harsh reality checks, roadmaps, or study strategies would be deeply appreciated.

I'm 24M from India, and I genuinely don't know how to get my life back on track.

I recently completed my M.Sc. in Physics from a good Central University, but the uncomfortable truth is that I didn't really learn much during my degree. I relied heavily on my smartphone and shortcuts/cheating during exams, and now I'm facing the consequences.

I can barely solve basic Class 11 Physics problems. The last time I remember studying deeply and consistently was around Class 10, almost 7 years ago.

My biggest problem right now isn't intelligence. It's discipline.

I'm addicted to my phone. I constantly check it, scroll, watch videos, etc. I can't stay away from it even for a few minutes. Whenever I try to sit down and study, my mind becomes restless and I immediately look for some form of stimulation.

I've also developed a habit of using masturbation and other distractions as an escape whenever I'm stressed or anxious. I don't want to make excuses for it—I want to break this cycle.

I also struggle to sit quietly with my thoughts. Even closing my eyes and doing nothing for a few minutes makes me uncomfortable because my mind starts racing, so I immediately reach for my phone.

For the last couple of years, I've basically stopped exercising too. I used to be a decent boxer at university, but I've become extremely sedentary.

Today I finally did one thing differently: I joined a library.

I sat there and realized I honestly don't know how to study anymore.

I have roughly one year to get my life together and become financially independent. I want to prepare for a government job, but before I can even think about clearing an exam, I need to rebuild my ability to concentrate, study and work consistently.

I'm not looking for motivation. I've watched enough motivational videos.

I need practical advice from people who have actually rebuilt their discipline after years of wasting time.

If you were in my position, what would you do for the next 30 days?

Specifically:

How would you deal with a severe phone addiction?

Would you completely stop using the smartphone, or use some kind of restriction system?

How would you train yourself to study again after years of poor concentration?

How many hours would you start with?

What would you do when you get the urge to quit and go back to scrolling?

How do you rebuild the ability to sit quietly without constantly needing stimulation?

How would you structure your day?

I'm willing to start extremely small if that's what it takes. I don't want another motivational speech—I want a system that I can follow every day even when I don't feel motivated.

I've wasted a lot of time, but I'm 24. I don't want to waste another year.

If you've genuinely come back from a similar situation, please tell me what actually worked for you.

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24M from Rajasthan and have completed an M.Sc. in Physics from a Central University.

However, I honestly feel that I have very weak fundamentals and almost no practical skills. During college, I relied heavily on my smartphone and shortcuts to get through exams, and now I regret not actually learning the subjects properly.

At this point, I struggle with even basic Class 11 Physics numericals. I also haven't studied seriously for several years, so my ability to concentrate and study consistently has become very poor.

I have approximately one year to become financially independent, and I want to use this year seriously.

I'm considering government-sector careers such as:

SSC

Banking

Teaching

Other exams/jobs that someone with an M.Sc. Physics can realistically prepare for within a year

My main question is: If you were in my position, what career path would you choose and how would you use the next 12 months?

I joined a library today because I want to start over, but I'm honestly confused about where to begin.

I don't need motivational quotes. I'd really appreciate practical advice from people who have gone through something similar:

1. Which government exam/career should I target?

2. Is one year enough if I study consistently from scratch?

3. Should I focus on SSC/Banking/Teaching or something related to Physics?

4. How would you structure the first 3 months?

5. What skills should I build alongside exam preparation as a backup?

I know I have wasted a lot of time, but I'm 24 and I'm ready to work seriously now. I want to make the next year count.

Any honest advice from people who have actually cleared these exams or rebuilt their careers would be greatly appreciated.

I'm 24 years old from Rajasthan. I completed my M.Sc. in Physics from a good Central University, but honestly, I don't even know how I managed to pass. Throughout college, I relied on cheating with my smartphone during exams. I know it was wrong, and now I'm paying the price.

I have a master's degree, but I don't have any real skills. I can't even solve a single Class 11 Physics numerical on my own. I feel like I've forgotten everything.

I'm also addicted to my phone and masturbation. I use both as an escape from stress. I can't stay away from my phone even for a few minutes. I can't sit quietly with my thoughts because my mind starts overthinking, so I distract myself again.

My family is putting pressure on me to get a job, and I have about one year to become financially independent. I'm willing to work hard, but I don't know where to start. I just want a government job—Banking, SSC, Teaching, or any stable career that can realistically be achieved with one year of consistent preparation.

The last time I remember studying seriously was in Class 10, almost seven years ago. Since then, I've only been surviving exams, not actually learning. Despite everything, a small part of me still believes I can turn my life around if I stay disciplined and work consistently.

Today, I joined a library because I finally want to change my life. But now I'm sitting there wondering, "What do I even study? Where do I begin?"

To make things worse, I used to be a good boxer during my university days, but for the last two years I haven't worked out at all. I was diagnosed with Grade 2 varicocele, and mentally I've been feeling much weaker since then. Whether it's because of stress, my lifestyle, or something else, I don't feel like the person I used to be.

I know many of you will judge me for cheating in college, and honestly, I deserve that. But I'm not here to justify my mistakes. I'm here because I genuinely want to change before it's too late.

If anyone has been in a similar situation—or has gone from wasting years to building a successful career—please tell me what you did. How did you rebuild your discipline? How did you overcome phone addiction? How did you start studying again after years of not learning anything?

I don't need motivation. I need a practical roadmap.

Please be honest. I really don't want to waste the next year of my life.

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Hyy guys , my sister appeared in Re-neet exam she scored 500 Mark's. AIR 90k , category rank 45k, we know that she will not get any Government MBBS clg.

But she can get govt BAMS. And she Also given AIIMS nursing exam , she got AIR 1800

She will get AIIMS nursing. But we want to know that in future which course will be helpful in getting job early as possible.

Qualifications

Hyy guys , my sister appeared in Re-neet exam she scored 500 Mark's. AIR 90k , category rank 45k, we know that she will not get any Government MBBS clg.

But she can get govt BAMS. And she Also given AIIMS nursing exam , she got AIR 1800

She will get AIIMS nursing. But we want to know that in future which course will be helpful in getting job early as possible.

Qualifications

Hyy guys , my sister appeared in Re-neet exam she scored 500 Mark's. AIR 90k , category rank 45k, we know that she will not get any Government MBBS clg.

But she can get govt BAMS. And she Also given AIIMS nursing exam , she got AIR 1800

She will get AIIMS nursing. But we want to know that in future which course will be helpful in getting job early as possible.

Qualifications

Hyy guys , my sister appeared in Re-neet exam she scored 500 Mark's. AIR 90k , category rank 45k, we know that she will not get any Government MBBS clg.

But she can get govt BAMS. And she Also given AIIMS nursing exam , she got AIR 1800

She will get AIIMS nursing. But we want to know that in future which course will be helpful in getting job early as possible.

Qualifications

Me M23 , diagnosed with grade 2 vericocele last year , now probably grade 3.

Is there any cure of this in ayurveda